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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you let it be known?
I mean online it’s a piece of piss.
I fancy you.
There done.
But how do you make it known in person?
Do you say it out loud?
Or try and flirt?
I’m a terrible flirt btw.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If it's in person I'll flirt but my general flirting involves rambling away in a dorky fashion and playing with my hair and hoping they'll notice my boobs, for such a crap tactic it's surprisingly successful. I couldn't ever say outright I fancy them because sometimes people are just friendly and flirt with everyone as a way of talking. Also the embarrassment if it wasn't reciprocated would be too high. |
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"Do you let it be known?
I mean online it’s a piece of piss.
I fancy you.
There done.
But how do you make it known in person?
Do you say it out loud?
Or try and flirt?
I’m a terrible flirt btw.
Answers on a postcard. "
Always let it be known, you can't live a life thinking "what if"
And life's short, either of you might not wake up tomorrow (bit morbid but it's true)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes unless the context doesn't allow it
Tru dat, my assistant has great tits....  
Hope she reads that x"
Hope she fabs my facial voice video to let me know the feeling is mutual....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ugh, difficult question. It depends a lot on the social contest...for example, let's say you fancy a coworker, that you know does not "see you that way". Telling her would make things awkward.
I generally go for it when the lady I fancy is not someone I am forced to meet and interact with everyday. Otherwise, I just bottle it up and hope my mind finds a new "target". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes unless the context doesn't allow it
Tru dat, my assistant has great tits....
Hope she reads that x
Hope she fabs my facial voice video to let me know the feeling is mutual.... "
I did wank over it Nippy and was about to tuck my cock between my legs and send you a picture of it to make your day x |
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Wasted many opportunities by not saying or doing anything about them!
Now if there's someone I fancy I just put it straight out there, worst that can happen is getting knocked back!
Be confident, don't ever feel any women is out your league! Did that for many years! Women find confidence attractive but not to confident!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's in person I'll flirt but my general flirting involves rambling away in a dorky fashion and playing with my hair and hoping they'll notice my boobs, for such a crap tactic it's surprisingly successful. I couldn't ever say outright I fancy them because sometimes people are just friendly and flirt with everyone as a way of talking. Also the embarrassment if it wasn't reciprocated would be too high."
I really think the way you flirt is like no-one else _eli. I can say without doubt when your feeling yourself,my heart skips a beat and I lose my cool constantly. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes unless the context doesn't allow it
Tru dat, my assistant has great tits....
Hope she reads that x
Hope she fabs my facial voice video to let me know the feeling is mutual....
I did wank over it Nippy and was about to tuck my cock between my legs and send you a picture of it to make your day x"
Be brave! Live for today! Live for tucking!  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Varies with different people to be honest, the less I know them the less I'm likely to be fully open about it. Though I'm never scared or reserved about dropping a few complimentary hints. |
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I’m much better through internet dating etc tbh. I care far too much about looking like a creep to hit on a girl I’ve never eat wrote and am unsure of mutual interest in public. To the extent I don’t bother at all. |
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"I’m much better through internet dating etc tbh. I care far too much about looking like a creep to hit on a girl I’ve never eat wrote and am unsure of mutual interest in public. To the extent I don’t bother at all. "
Should say that by contrast I think I’m confident/flirty when I’m reasonably sure there’s mutual attraction. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If it's in person I'll flirt but my general flirting involves rambling away in a dorky fashion and playing with my hair and hoping they'll notice my boobs, for such a crap tactic it's surprisingly successful. I couldn't ever say outright I fancy them because sometimes people are just friendly and flirt with everyone as a way of talking. Also the embarrassment if it wasn't reciprocated would be too high.
I really think the way you flirt is like no-one else _eli. I can say without doubt when your feeling yourself,my heart skips a beat and I lose my cool constantly. Xxx"
Oh Ivory! I adore you so much. I wish I had your natural Essex/London boy charm, it would make me instantly likeable.
P.S You've never really had that cool around me, especially when you're reverse parking. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's in person I'll flirt but my general flirting involves rambling away in a dorky fashion and playing with my hair and hoping they'll notice my boobs, for such a crap tactic it's surprisingly successful. I couldn't ever say outright I fancy them because sometimes people are just friendly and flirt with everyone as a way of talking. Also the embarrassment if it wasn't reciprocated would be too high.
I really think the way you flirt is like no-one else _eli. I can say without doubt when your feeling yourself,my heart skips a beat and I lose my cool constantly. Xxx
Oh Ivory! I adore you so much. I wish I had your natural Essex/London boy charm, it would make me instantly likeable.
P.S You've never really had that cool around me, especially when you're reverse parking. xxx "
Pffttt! My driving is without fault! Hehe at least I can carry a more than one drink without dropping it  Lol xxxxx |
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"Yes unless the context doesn't allow it
Tru dat, my assistant has great tits....
Hope she reads that x
Hope she fabs my facial voice video to let me know the feeling is mutual....
I did wank over it Nippy and was about to tuck my cock between my legs and send you a picture of it to make your day x"
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By *eliWoman
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"P.S You've never really had that cool around me, especially when you're reverse parking. xxx
Pffttt! My driving is without fault! Hehe at least I can carry a more than one drink without dropping it Lol xxxxx"
 I can't believe you'd bring that up! It was not my fault at all, I was so cool and in control until someone got excited about a fan.  
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By (user no longer on site)
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"P.S You've never really had that cool around me, especially when you're reverse parking. xxx
Pffttt! My driving is without fault! Hehe at least I can carry a more than one drink without dropping it Lol xxxxx
I can't believe you'd bring that up! It was not my fault at all, I was so cool and in control until someone got excited about a fan.
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That bloody fan caused so many issues hehe. It almost ruined the day! Xxx |
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I’m at a loss for words when I want to tell someone I fancy them.
But there are those moments when you look at each other and feel that spark, a chemistry.
Holding hands a kiss or just the way they look at you and smile. Sometimes you don’t have to say anything at all, you just know. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m at a loss for words when I want to tell someone I fancy them.
But there are those moments when you look at each other and feel that spark, a chemistry.
Holding hands a kiss or just the way they look at you and smile. Sometimes you don’t have to say anything at all, you just know. Xx"
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