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NSA or regular meets?

By *olvesgirl23 OP Couple over a year ago

wolverhampton

Hi everyone!!!

Forums newbies here.

just wondering.. how many of you prefer no strings meets, and how many would rather have one male/female/couple to meet regularly?

Also what are your reasons for your preference?

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Prefer people that I can meet regularly and get to know a little, spend some social time with as well as sexual - for me it adds something to the experience and allows you to explore things together that one off meets might not

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By *uHorny1Man over a year ago

Cannock

I don't know that NSA meets and "regular meets" have to be different. Are you confusing NSA with one night stands?

I have a few women I see regularly that I'd say are NSA. We are good friends, but have no intention of forming a "proper" relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d personally like to find one person, delete fab and reintroduce it in the future when I know we have a secure relationship to add extra play partners in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit of both. Love the thrill of someone new. But also love the better sex that's comes with familiarity and trust. Xx

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer regular. I’m very shy so someone i can trust and experiment with over a period of time gets the best out of me sexually. Plus the passion and lust of wanting someone you’ve boned before and who isn’t a shit shag is pretty hot.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I enjoy both for different reasons, and do both.

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By *abasaurus RexMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Regular, but why stick to one?

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No strings regular for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

single men/women - NSA one-offs. always.

couples that i really get on with - regular thing.

just personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No strings regular for me."

What she said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm hoping for some NSA with a regular once I've moved.

Nothing like having someone you feel comfortable with and enjoying the sex.

I don't even mind a partner having a regular fb if we're all happy and know where we stand within the realm of relationships and emotional ties

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure that's the choice? You can have regular NSA or irregular and one-off NSA meets. Other than that you're into the realm of relationships of one form or another.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone!!!

Forums newbies here.

just wondering.. how many of you prefer no strings meets, and how many would rather have one male/female/couple to meet regularly?

Also what are your reasons for your preference?"

I prefer regular no strings meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ideally something that develops into a relationship. It if not a regular trusted partner would be ideal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Prefer regular really

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By *moothshaftMan over a year ago

Coventry

I'd love to find a regular, broadminded couple with who I could get to know, and play together as and when the need arises.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t know what regular meets is like, only ever had one offs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer regular meets with one person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular Jane

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't really do meets...

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By *olvesgirl23 OP Couple over a year ago

wolverhampton

Thanks for all your replies.

We've been on fab for a good few years, however we are still yet to find that lovely couple / single female for regular meets.

Hopefully soon though xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

NSA

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I like both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the no strings, or not many, I'll sew a few threads in you, but just regulary with one person. Easier to do the things I/We like to do with someone trusted.

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By *rs mischiefWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Regular meets for me, as sex to me is also a lot about the mind. The more you meet someone the more you get to know them and their likes and they get to know yours, I like to then play in these likes over messages, makes the sex pretty explosive when we get together !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular would be rather delightful. Even if strings tend to come with meeting one other to explore every element of each other in all the ways one off meets never permit.

Whats wrong with strings that connect us more fully with another....

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By *oxychicWoman over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Regular for me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I’d prefer a regular meet, someone to get to know, one offs aren’t really my thing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’d love to meet a regular couple again. Definitely makes for better sex x

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

When I am ready to meet again I won't be meeting anyone more often than once a month if that.

The only people I would see more often are my friends who I rarely engage in any sexual activity with but are close as fuck to. They're more like family than playmates

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Regular

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

A regular guy is best imo

Learning what makes each other tick is a big part of it as is the build up to a meet

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d personally like to find one person, delete fab and reintroduce it in the future when I know we have a secure relationship to add extra play partners in. "

Too early for me (is that idea).....in my present circumstances...... Currently trying to make up for lost time.

I do however 'fully dig' your sentiments......here's hoping FAB is part of that journey for me!!!!(lol)

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Travelling

Regular. Without doubt

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I’d personally like to find one person, delete fab and reintroduce it in the future when I know we have a secure relationship to add extra play partners in. "

IF I were to go down the relationship route again that's exactly how I would do it.

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By *olex99Man over a year ago

Hull

There's a lot to be said for both as long as you're happy.

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By *ust_for_fun88Couple over a year ago

somewhere

I used to like to spend time getting to know people before we did any kind of stuff.

But recently I've been prefering random hook ups and not speaking again.

Guess that just the mood for me at the moment.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

If you can find a regular its best as you can relax and build up to a good sexual meet ,one more exciting than the next ..

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I much prefer regular with the right person...but one-offs can be fun and exciting occasionally

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By *adbod74Man over a year ago

Dudley

Nsa regular for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone!!!

Forums newbies here.

just wondering.. how many of you prefer no strings meets, and how many would rather have one male/female/couple to meet regularly?

Also what are your reasons for your preference?"

I'd like a regular type of thing with 1 or 2 couple's or lady cos I'd like to build up trust and respect to the most. The more comfortable you all are the more open and risque you may become. My opinion like.

NSA is are fun too in there own way but I'm not 100% open with who I am with about all I like, want and daydream about. No that doesn't mean I'm dishonest, it means I need a certain amount of trust there which on a 1 timer is hard to build without a good exchange of messages before hand.

My top preference is to have a regular lady or couple I can attend clubs with too.

A man can dream eh. ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I quite happily remarry of they took it up the bumhole!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer regular. I’m very shy so someone i can trust and experiment with over a period of time gets the best out of me sexually. Plus the passion and lust of wanting someone you’ve boned before and who isn’t a shit shag is pretty hot."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone!!!

Forums newbies here.

just wondering.. how many of you prefer no strings meets, and how many would rather have one male/female/couple to meet regularly?

Also what are your reasons for your preference?"

Hello newbies.

If someone wants NSA I won't meet them. Because the phrase puts me off and I'm not what they are looking for.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Both, I suppose if you have good sex and you both know how to make each other tick. Then regular. But I do like the one off's as well.

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By *aughtycp1Couple over a year ago

Leicestershire

Both .... I'm a greedy girl

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Regular but not just the one or its not swinging it’s a regular bf/gf relationship. No interest in one off sex with strangers.

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By *B69Woman over a year ago

Wiltshire

Regular would be ideal

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Hi everyone!!!

Forums newbies here.

just wondering.. how many of you prefer no strings meets, and how many would rather have one male/female/couple to meet regularly?

Also what are your reasons for your preference?"

I’m safety conscious so for me repeat meets are preferable with I can build trust with - one off NSA has its place but not unless I’m in a club with others around me to watch out

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

no strings regular for me please as I like the connection but not needing to do their washing for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit of both

Depends on the variables and circumstances

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

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By *exy penWoman over a year ago

liverpool

I'd like someone regular I'm not interested in a bf but just a bit of fun when the mood takes us, I think it's much more fun finding out about each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like a bit off both one night stands and regular obviously a regular is More what I am looking for for but one night stands can be fun also xxx

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m in the middle. I don’t mind being spontaneous but overall definitely regular is better because the connection will grow and things can get even hotter

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits. "

Exactly this

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By *quaman87Man over a year ago

Colchester

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits. "
this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Club meets with NSA is the only.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Club meets with NSA is the only.

"
way

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits. "

Hell yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Okay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think a bit of both is fun so I'm in the middle

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

I am friends with you and I dont get any crappy bits

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

You wanna stop ganging up on me now?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

You wanna stop ganging up on me now?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

You wanna stop ganging up on me now?

Cheers!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

You wanna stop ganging up on me now?

You sure you don't want us ganging up on you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

You wanna stop ganging up on me now?

You sure you don't want us ganging up on you?

Well now you put it like that....

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

You wanna stop ganging up on me now?

You sure you don't want us ganging up on you?

Well now you put it like that....

See....you don't want us NOT ganging up on you really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can have NSA regular, you get the connection and the amazing friends without the crappy bits.

Exactly this

Unless your friends with me haha!

Shush you

Yeah you tell her

You wanna stop ganging up on me now?

You sure you don't want us ganging up on you?

Well now you put it like that....

See....you don't want us NOT ganging up on you really

Maybe not

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By *iberty RedWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Bit of both. Love the thrill of someone new. But also love the better sex that's comes with familiarity and trust. Xx"

This

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By *quaman87Man over a year ago

Colchester

"Bit of both. Love the thrill of someone new. But also love the better sex that's comes with familiarity and trust. Xx

This"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No strings regular for me."

That's excatley what I'd like to find. Were both local to eachover aswell. Just a a shame I'm out your age range though. Maby you could make a exception xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bit of both. Love the thrill of someone new. But also love the better sex that's comes with familiarity and trust. Xx

This"

Totally agree.x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would rather make friends and have regular meets. Sex is a lot better when you have a connection.

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have regular nsa meets with special friends, also one off nsa meets with special friends, some I may wish to see again but time and distance are barriers, but having the whole weekend memories with that special person is a wonderful thing indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Manly single meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We prefer to play with friends...semi regular I guess.

Sex is 100 times better with somwone you know and are comfortable with, at least for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular is better for ..but the problems l face is men start confusing me as their girlgreind sulking if l say l am not available and trying to plan things for me that sucks.

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By *ani87rMan over a year ago

Boston

"I would rather make friends and have regular meets. Sex is a lot better when you have a connection."

I wish to found out more about you

can we chatt? And maybe after while meet?

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