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Is it so frowned upon a married man cheating
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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shall i go and put all the worms back in your can?  
OP, I think it's the same with anything in life.. Some people will like it, some people won't.
Each to their own.
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So leading on from married 1000’s post why is it then acceptable for ladies to do it behind their partners back? I ended up on here and finding out about fab because my now ex was on here fucking guys while I was away working abroad in 3-6 month stints. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So leading on from married 1000’s post why is it then acceptable for ladies to do it behind their partners back? I ended up on here and finding out about fab because my now ex was on here fucking guys while I was away working abroad in 3-6 month stints. "
Most things that are acceptable to some, are not acceptable to others. That's life. |
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"So leading on from married 1000’s post why is it then acceptable for ladies to do it behind their partners back? I ended up on here and finding out about fab because my now ex was on here fucking guys while I was away working abroad in 3-6 month stints. "
It isn't. |
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"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it.
You have said how i feel.x"
I've had many messages off men saying the same thing. They feel like I've given them a voice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to try and stay away from married guys don’t need some idiots wife turning up at my door ranting and raven to the full street about how I am bang her husband because sed idiot left his fab account loged in or didn’t clear his browsers history or tryed to sneek a fly message in while wife’s in toilet and got cought |
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"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it."
Yes and a second YES !!
Been through it myself and certainly the best description of how I feel as well, after my Wife cheated. As they say in the good ole USA you’re Awesome   |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it really frowned upon "
Why wouldn't it be frowned upon? The person you made vows to, who you promised to love and cherish, would be sitting at home while you, without any thought for her feelings, are out shagging. Not to mention the lies, the potential health risks of you catch something and pass it on to her and the general disrespect you're showing her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is frowned up and you will be heavily judged in the Forums. I've always thought that no matter what, a partner doesn't cause their spouse to cheat. Even if they are doing it as cry for help or a means to get revenge after being cheated on themselves. The cheater alone is responsible for cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating"
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously
Just the same as if a woman was cheating.
Why OP, did you want some reassurance that because you’re on a swingers site that it’ll be ok?"
Wait, what?
This isn't instashag?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !"
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating"
If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.
A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating
If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.
A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone will have their own opinion on the subject and everyone is entitled to make their own choices. What you do is up to you but you can't expect everyone to agree with it. |
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating
If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.
A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?
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I knew a woman who had an affair with a snake and she took it up the asp! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about "
This is my opinion too
Not sure why people need the opinions of a bunch of strangers. Just do what you’re gonna do. Never really understood the reason for these kinds of posts other than to cause unrest! |
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"it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about "
No, but you can draw on your own hurts, betrayals, breaches of trust or mere humanity to know you don't want to be party in aiding, abetting and allowing another to crush someone else the way you were crushed.
My question is this to anyone cheating.
If your partner died before you, can you sit front and centre at their funeral knowing what you did with a clear conscience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it really frowned upon
Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?"
Married or not married. Even in a 'meaningful' relationship it's the worst kick in the 'goolies' that one can experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Society condemns married swingers.
Swingers condemn cheaters.
Cheaters condemn prostitutes and punters.
Prostitutes and punters condemn rapists.
Rapists condemn paedophiles.
Paedophiles condemn the church.
The church condones society.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But most guys on her will fuck a married woman its not the same its sexest but who gives a fuck  "
I suppose calling it sexist is different to double standards (which it isn't). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So leading on from married 1000’s post why is it then acceptable for ladies to do it behind their partners back? I ended up on here and finding out about fab because my now ex was on here fucking guys while I was away working abroad in 3-6 month stints. "
It's acceptable by different people, especially by those who benefit out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mean if I go to the effort of having a wedding and swearing a vow infront of all our friends and family and then break it in probably the most hurtful way to the other person..... then ya some element of society is going to have a negitiave _iew of me right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has reminded me of one of my more complicated relationship(s).
I was seeing a girl who was cheating with me on a long term boyfriend (I didn't know straight away).
I then met another girl and started seeing her (she didn't know I had a girlfriend and my current girlfriend didn't know I'd met someone else).
So I was cheating on someone who was cheating on someone.
In the end neither relationship worked out but the two girls did become friends - and we all went on a double date once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think society is more accepting of a man if he cheats but not a woman. I think people expect men to cheat rather than women.
I wouldn’t be very accepting of my man if he cheated! "
I'm more surprised to find out a man hasn't cheated at some point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK last question, what if my wife said OK dash you can have sex with a horse, only to find out it is only a pantomime horse, and the back end is a woman with a strap on who is actually pegging me!! Is that cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK last question, what if my wife said OK dash you can have sex with a horse, only to find out it is only a pantomime horse, and the back end is a woman with a strap on who is actually pegging me!! Is that cheating"
Follow your heart.... |
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating
If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.
A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?
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That would be a mare |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
I meet married guys, it's not my business what his home life is like. I just want his big cock to suck.
If I was ever asked by any partner if I had met him, I wouldn't lie. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.
Thank you
Woahhh how long g have you been a mod? Iv missed something "
A wee while on Fabguys, it's a quieter forum over there so I pop over to help out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.
Thank you
Woahhh how long g have you been a mod? Iv missed something
A wee while on Fabguys, it's a quieter forum over there so I pop over to help out "
Awwwww your a nice chap, can I have free site support now? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.
Thank you
Woahhh how long g have you been a mod? Iv missed something
A wee while on Fabguys, it's a quieter forum over there so I pop over to help out
Awwwww your a nice chap, can I have free site support now? "
think you have me mistaken, a nice chap |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating
If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.
A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?
I knew a woman who had an affair with a snake and she took it up the asp!"
Not many snakes on here anymore. Most serposexual women on here only meet BBBCs ( Big Brown Boa Constrictors ). Most snakes are average size and compensate by saying they have long tongues and can eat pussy all night long. Eventually they meet up. She gets the hump because he is shorted and has less girth than she imagined.
He is disappointing cause she has only one medium-sized moggy and it's all over in a meow.
He slithers away dejected, she's left devastated knowing she'll never stroke her pussy again and her dog is the only one smiling  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating
If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.
A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?
I knew a woman who had an affair with a snake and she took it up the asp!
Not many snakes on here anymore. Most serposexual women on here only meet BBBCs ( Big Brown Boa Constrictors ). Most snakes are average size and compensate by saying they have long tongues and can eat pussy all night long. Eventually they meet up. She gets the hump because he is shorted and has less girth than she imagined.
He is disappointing cause she has only one medium-sized moggy and it's all over in a meow.
He slithers away dejected, she's left devastated knowing she'll never stroke her pussy again and her dog is the only one smiling "
You’ve havin a hard week ain’t ya?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK last question, what if my wife said OK dash you can have sex with a horse, only to find out it is only a pantomime horse, and the back end is a woman with a strap on who is actually pegging me!! Is that cheating"
A pantone horse is a tricky situation. If she has a problem with her pegging you, the you could either say :-
A. 'Oh now she didn't'
or B. Plead it wasn't your fault as it happened off stage and there
Was nobody there to shout 'She's behind you !!!' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating
I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.
Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.
'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !
OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating
If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.
A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?
I knew a woman who had an affair with a snake and she took it up the asp!
Not many snakes on here anymore. Most serposexual women on here only meet BBBCs ( Big Brown Boa Constrictors ). Most snakes are average size and compensate by saying they have long tongues and can eat pussy all night long. Eventually they meet up. She gets the hump because he is shorted and has less girth than she imagined.
He is disappointing cause she has only one medium-sized moggy and it's all over in a meow.
He slithers away dejected, she's left devastated knowing she'll never stroke her pussy again and her dog is the only one smiling
You’ve havin a hard week ain’t ya? "
Yes I am, but on the plus side I'm glad those tablets are working and the ED is finally gone. Have to stay sitting at the desk with an arm on my lap is wearing though. Apparently your not supposed to take them all together.
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"Is it really frowned upon "
Short answer is yes
I choose not to meet knowingly attached guys because I think you should have the balls to leave and allow them the chance to be with someone that respects them enough to not cheat
Why would I want to help you hurt them ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about
No, but you can draw on your own hurts, betrayals, breaches of trust or mere humanity to know you don't want to be party in aiding, abetting and allowing another to crush someone else the way you were crushed.
My question is this to anyone cheating.
If your partner died before you, can you sit front and centre at their funeral knowing what you did with a clear conscience?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about
No, but you can draw on your own hurts, betrayals, breaches of trust or mere humanity to know you don't want to be party in aiding, abetting and allowing another to crush someone else the way you were crushed.
My question is this to anyone cheating.
If your partner died before you, can you sit front and centre at their funeral knowing what you did with a clear conscience?
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Has somebody died? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it."
THE best profile I've read on here. Couldn't agree more... |
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It depends upon how said married person conducts themselves....
Everyone has a reason to be here
If it’s declared it then leaves it open for people to make their own decision but to blatantly lie or mislead isnt doing themselves any favours!
Nothing is sacred here |
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