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Do you ever get tired of explaining yourself?
Why do you not meet outside of clubs?
Why can't I sneak round when kids are in bed?
Oh go on make an exception for me 
Oh you're fake/timewaster! Yes apparently so!
 
What things do you fabbers get asked to explain & what explanations do you give?
Do you even give an explanation or do you roll your eyes & pass the message by? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever get tired of explaining yourself?
Why do you not meet outside of clubs?
Why can't I sneak round when kids are in bed?
Oh go on make an exception for me
Oh you're fake/timewaster! Yes apparently so!
What things do you fabbers get asked to explain & what explanations do you give?
Do you even give an explanation or do you roll your eyes & pass the message by? "
Yes! About why I don't wish to accomodate. I've stopped explaining myself now! I just delete the message. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not personally but I've seen K's inbox and it's full of "I know I'm not what you're looking for but..." messages. Why even try if you know you're in the wrong? |
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"Not personally but I've seen K's inbox and it's full of "I know I'm not what you're looking for but..." messages. Why even try if you know you're in the wrong? "
At least they show they can read a bit to know they aren't her type, totally agree tho, why waste your own time? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I get the occasional horny fellow bisexual wanting to know why I don't want to "meet now for a BJ" but they're easily dealt with by a trip to the delete button 
I do think this is one area where the difference between the single male experience of the site and that of non-single males is quite marked.
It's very rare I have been asked to explain my use of the site except in situations similar to the one I described above. |
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"Why I don't fancy them 
I just don't mate...just because I'm on here doesn't mean I'm desperate and will shag anyone and everyone!
Oh go on, i promise you won't be disappointed  "
I should stop playing hard to get...I'm sure it would be the best 30 seconds of my life  |
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I never explain in real life either. I watch my mum in agonies trying to come up with an explanation for not attending a social event when a simple "thank you I'm not able to come" usually suffices. If pushed, smile enigmatically and say "personal reasons" |
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Our profile is incredibly clear but I'd say about 95% of the messages we received are from people who haven't read it at all.
They all get pretty much the same reply, so much so that all I have to do is click on my middle button of predictive text to reply to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why I'm not available to meet right now (before Covid)
Why I insist on a social first
Why I don't give out my name or number until I feel very comfortable.
Why I'm not a Sub
The list goes on, I don't explain anymore, I can't be bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really. I accept most of what I say is probably incomprehensible to some. However needing to explain my choices and preferences has rarely, if ever, come up in conversation, probably because I don’t attract that kind of interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever get tired of explaining yourself?
Why do you not meet outside of clubs?
Why can't I sneak round when kids are in bed?
Oh go on make an exception for me
Oh you're fake/timewaster! Yes apparently so!
What things do you fabbers get asked to explain & what explanations do you give?
Do you even give an explanation or do you roll your eyes & pass the message by? "
Yepp, I often get asked to meet outside of townhouse, which I very clearly state is the only place I'll meet even for a social.
I don't know how many times I need to say it. It's super annoying. |
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"It’s a shame you are so far away.....
I get this message about 3 times a week.....
Why even send this if we are never going to meet?"
We get that too, not as frequently obviously but it does make us smile |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Do you ever get tired of explaining yourself?
Why do you not meet outside of clubs?
Why can't I sneak round when kids are in bed?
Oh go on make an exception for me
Oh you're fake/timewaster! Yes apparently so!
What things do you fabbers get asked to explain & what explanations do you give?
Do you even give an explanation or do you roll your eyes & pass the message by?
Yepp, I often get asked to meet outside of townhouse, which I very clearly state is the only place I'll meet even for a social.
I don't know how many times I need to say it. It's super annoying. "
I've never been, but I'd happily pop in just to say hello and give you a hug. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever get tired of explaining yourself?
Why do you not meet outside of clubs?
Why can't I sneak round when kids are in bed?
Oh go on make an exception for me
Oh you're fake/timewaster! Yes apparently so!
What things do you fabbers get asked to explain & what explanations do you give?
Do you even give an explanation or do you roll your eyes & pass the message by? "
At the end of the day you do what you like, you don’t Have to answer to anyone accept yourself.  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
I facepalm so often I feel like I'm should have a permanently bruised forehead.
I sometimes reply that everything I'm looking for is all in my profile, and other times just completely ignore the message, as they are not really interested in me otherwise they would have gone to the trouble of reading about me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever get tired of explaining yourself?
Why do you not meet outside of clubs?
Why can't I sneak round when kids are in bed?
Oh go on make an exception for me
Oh you're fake/timewaster! Yes apparently so!
What things do you fabbers get asked to explain & what explanations do you give?
Do you even give an explanation or do you roll your eyes & pass the message by?
Yepp, I often get asked to meet outside of townhouse, which I very clearly state is the only place I'll meet even for a social.
I don't know how many times I need to say it. It's super annoying.
I've never been, but I'd happily pop in just to say hello and give you a hug. X"
That's because you're wonderful |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Do you ever get tired of explaining yourself?
Why do you not meet outside of clubs?
Why can't I sneak round when kids are in bed?
Oh go on make an exception for me
Oh you're fake/timewaster! Yes apparently so!
What things do you fabbers get asked to explain & what explanations do you give?
Do you even give an explanation or do you roll your eyes & pass the message by?
Yepp, I often get asked to meet outside of townhouse, which I very clearly state is the only place I'll meet even for a social.
I don't know how many times I need to say it. It's super annoying.
I've never been, but I'd happily pop in just to say hello and give you a hug. X
That's because you're wonderful "
I am, and you're not too shabby yourself. |
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The male versus female experience on this site is strikingly different
In terms of the ladies get loads of messages I get very few, (probably because it says married) so don’t have to explain myself too often, although I Thought it was a given that If you want X and someone offers Y then you are likely to reject that offer, maybe they are just being speculative
The ones I do get are from guys wanting to meet At short notice for them to suck my cock. ( not dressed or wearing make up guys either )
Please ladies someone save me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why I won’t meet outside of Birmingham. They then tell me how many miles / minutes away they are. I don’t even bother to answer those messages.
As many I’m time poor and don’t want to factor the driving time into a meet.
In my younger days, with less responsibilities I travelled all around England. Now I’m too old and great sex can’t be guaranteed lol |
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"The male versus female experience on this site is strikingly different
In terms of the ladies get loads of messages I get very few, (probably because it says married) so don’t have to explain myself too often, although I Thought it was a given that If you want X and someone offers Y then you are likely to reject that offer, maybe they are just being speculative
The ones I do get are from guys wanting to meet At short notice for them to suck my cock. ( not dressed or wearing make up guys either )
Please ladies someone save me "
I didn't think it was just me but thanks for confirming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been asked to explain why we haven’t accepted a friends request, even though there has been no previous correspondence and the profile in question has no photos or verification of any kind, mental  |
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The big one is why do we only meet single men in clubs or at parties? Often from guys who live miles away, but can accommodate on Tuesdays between 2 and 4, been on the site 3 years, not verified, but genuine.....
Our another one, why won't you come to my hotel? |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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Why I won't do car meets or last minute meets with people I've never spoken with.
Why I won't give out my phone number or do snapchat.
Why I won't send extra photos or accept friends request from someone I've never spoken to.
Also got asked why I didn't want to join a random stag party the other side of the country for a gangbang |
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