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Would you travel or accommodate someone from miles away?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had messages from guys 250 miles away who said they'd drive down just for a social. Frankly that puts them in the total fruit cake category for me, why on earth travel that far for a drink???  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Look it this way, there is a very hot men,woman or whatever you’re into , that isn’t desperation isn’t it?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look it this way, there is a very hot men,woman or whatever you’re into , that isn’t desperation isn’t it?"
Some people would happily do it.
I'd rather stay home and have a wank. |
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"Look it this way, there is a very hot men,woman or whatever you’re into , that isn’t desperation isn’t it?
If you use the reply+quote button it makes it easier to see who you're referring to, OP "
Oh right! My first forum and a foreigner... I’m sure you will forgive me , thanks anyway! |
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"Definitely not ,unless met them before .Too many idiots that talk shite on here .  "
For a woman I guess it’s kind of hard ... you always get thousands of messages by that means you have more chances to find dickheads |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Look it this way, there is a very hot men,woman or whatever you’re into , that isn’t desperation isn’t it?
If you use the reply+quote button it makes it easier to see who you're referring to, OP
Oh right! My first forum and a foreigner... I’m sure you will forgive me , thanks anyway!"
Everyone was new at some point.
Another tip, if you click the green arrow next to people's profile name (like on this post) it shows what recent threads they posted on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not ,unless met them before .Too many idiots that talk shite on here .
For a woman I guess it’s kind of hard ... you always get thousands of messages by that means you have more chances to find dickheads "
Too many messages cut and pasted for my liking .Hardly any good banter so can imagine face to face stay over ,not going well with alot .  |
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"Look it this way, there is a very hot men,woman or whatever you’re into , that isn’t desperation isn’t it?
If you use the reply+quote button it makes it easier to see who you're referring to, OP
Oh right! My first forum and a foreigner... I’m sure you will forgive me , thanks anyway!
Everyone was new at some point.
Another tip, if you click the green arrow next to people's profile name (like on this post) it shows what recent threads they posted on. "
That’s a good one too ! |
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"Definitely not ,unless met them before .Too many idiots that talk shite on here .
For a woman I guess it’s kind of hard ... you always get thousands of messages by that means you have more chances to find dickheads
Too many messages cut and pasted for my liking .Hardly any good banter so can imagine face to face stay over ,not going well with alot . "
I know what you mean I always try to personalised my messages, but at the other side , woman never care to much on their messages back like I could text you a very long a nice message and then have a reply like “ very nice” and it’s like really!?!??? |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
Leicester / London |
Given how sexually open this site was at least designed to be
It would be pretty boring if you only wanted to fuck people within a 40 mile radius.
Spread your wings... and legs I say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems like you’re not even in the country!! No wonder why you travel "
Give reply and quote a go as it’s really not hard and makes your thread run smoother!
No we are not hence the post.
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"Given how sexually open this site was at least designed to be
It would be pretty boring if you only wanted to fuck people within a 40 mile radius.
Spread your wings... and legs I say"
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"I would not travel too many miles away in case they stood me up. I only do 40miles max. If anyone is further away i ask them to travel to me."
Too many fakes and time wasters , I know that ...but hey! At least you give them the chances to go to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only accommodated once for a good trusted friend, who in turn did a four hour round trip that evening just to see me. I don't accommodate at other times for anyone. I'll only travel to my nearest city too. |
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I’d travel up to a few hours for someone that I’d established and developed a relationship for. I’d book a hotel though.
I wouldn’t offer to accommodate someone I’d never met before, that wouldn’t realistically be able to drive home. I’d go halves on a hotel if they wanted to do the travel though. Equal risk, equal reward. |
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"I've only accommodated once for a good trusted friend, who in turn did a four hour round trip that evening just to see me. I don't accommodate at other times for anyone. I'll only travel to my nearest city too."
As I share a house accommodation it’s always a headache, imagine going out of my room with a couple after sex or something like that |
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"I’d travel up to a few hours for someone that I’d established and developed a relationship for. I’d book a hotel though.
I wouldn’t offer to accommodate someone I’d never met before, that wouldn’t realistically be able to drive home. I’d go halves on a hotel if they wanted to do the travel though. Equal risk, equal reward. "
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely have had to build up a rapport, seen them on cam and meet somewhere public before I considered travelling any sort of distance. I’ve been bitten too many times in the past and made wasted trips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes have done in the past and do so to most major cities ie Manchester, new castle Train tickets are cheap and so are hotels but number swinging and phone call and stuff have to be done before hand as travelling far is no fun to be stood up but if am well there’s always a change off quick meet or out to a bar to pull not a total waste x |
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"Look it this way, there is a very hot men,woman or whatever you’re into , that isn’t desperation isn’t it?
If you use the reply+quote button it makes it easier to see who you're referring to, OP "
haha now this tickled me i was thinking the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not ,unless met them before .Too many idiots that talk shite on here .
For a woman I guess it’s kind of hard ... you always get thousands of messages by that means you have more chances to find dickheads
Too many messages cut and pasted for my liking .Hardly any good banter so can imagine face to face stay over ,not going well with alot .
I know what you mean I always try to personalised my messages, but at the other side , woman never care to much on their messages back like I could text you a very long a nice message and then have a reply like “ very nice” and it’s like really!?!???"
If someone makes a effort with message it's only right to give a good reply .Some rude people who need to think about there reaction . |
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"Definitely not ,unless met them before .Too many idiots that talk shite on here .
For a woman I guess it’s kind of hard ... you always get thousands of messages by that means you have more chances to find dickheads
Too many messages cut and pasted for my liking .Hardly any good banter so can imagine face to face stay over ,not going well with alot .
I know what you mean I always try to personalised my messages, but at the other side , woman never care to much on their messages back like I could text you a very long a nice message and then have a reply like “ very nice” and it’s like really!?!???
If someone makes a effort with message it's only right to give a good reply .Some rude people who need to think about there reaction . "
Just check at your profile, funny that says “far away from you” this forum suit you perfectly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like to accommodate.. My house is my space, only if I knew someone extremely well. If I'd chatted to someone and had gotten to know them then yes. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not ,unless met them before .Too many idiots that talk shite on here .
For a woman I guess it’s kind of hard ... you always get thousands of messages by that means you have more chances to find dickheads
Too many messages cut and pasted for my liking .Hardly any good banter so can imagine face to face stay over ,not going well with alot .
I know what you mean I always try to personalised my messages, but at the other side , woman never care to much on their messages back like I could text you a very long a nice message and then have a reply like “ very nice” and it’s like really!?!???
If someone makes a effort with message it's only right to give a good reply .Some rude people who need to think about there reaction .
Just check at your profile, funny that says “far away from you” this forum suit you perfectly "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have travelled but would be going away for a night or two anyway so will work around meeting the guy. I've accommodated 3 times since I originally joined here but I knew them and we had met a few times previous.
No issue travelling for a coffee and a chat if the person is worth it. Anyone local to me have been more time wasters and they have stood me up. |
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"Not as a general rule...but some people are worth breaking rules for
Well write your type in the forum , I’m sure you’ll find someone to break the rule."
I've already found him, but thanks for the offer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Regularly used to fly from Bristol to Bulgaria - met a hot Dentist whilst snowboarding there, ended up going back over several times to visit her!
Well worth it - plus it was like a mini holiday! Kept the *Holiday Romance* going |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Not as a general rule...but some people are worth breaking rules for
Well write your type in the forum , I’m sure you’ll find someone to break the rule.
I've already found him, but thanks for the offer x"
Lily.... You spelt "her" wrong   |
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By *oungJayyMan
over a year ago
Newcastle Upon Tyne |
I dont mind accommodating or travelling although i always prefer travelling as i feel i get that better sense of fun and kinkiness, when you do it at home you feel like nothing really much is difference (to me anyway) but when i travel it feels a whole lot more real  |
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"Not as a general rule...but some people are worth breaking rules for
Well write your type in the forum , I’m sure you’ll find someone to break the rule.
I've already found him, but thanks for the offer x
Lily.... You spelt "her" wrong "
You know full well that North Devon is on my list of places to visit young lady - we've got mischief to make and a statue to dress in lingerie  |
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"Yes. Regularly used to fly from Bristol to Bulgaria - met a hot Dentist whilst snowboarding there, ended up going back over several times to visit her!
Well worth it - plus it was like a mini holiday! Kept the *Holiday Romance* going "
Last month I was in Spain for a week, and end up changing my flight 3 days forward for a sex marathon at a girl’s house who lives a few hours away.
Didn’t tell to anyone even my family drop me at the airport thinking I was leaving back to England that day |
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"Not as a general rule...but some people are worth breaking rules for
Well write your type in the forum , I’m sure you’ll find someone to break the rule.
I've already found him, but thanks for the offer x
Lily.... You spelt "her" wrong
You know full well that North Devon is on my list of places to visit young lady - we've got mischief to make and a statue to dress in lingerie "
That’s what I’m talking about!! Never say never! Hope you meet each other one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Travelling can add to the excitement. Seize opportunities and adventures! I was astounded to when I crossed paths with people that the connection was great and thereby the distance was immaterial to us. Has led to beautiful connections. I would accommodate too either if knowing them before hand first or if it just progressed and that was what seemed best. I wouldn't want to be in a position where someone would rely on me accommodating or me rely on their accommodation if it was first time meeting just incase there wasn't such a spark and spending time together wouldn't be the right kind of painful always have an exit strategy but definitely indulge when it's right |
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"I guess it's preference, but what's the point in travelling miles away for a meet? "
Apart from the ladies that have travelled a couple of hundred miles to stop at mine for a couple of nights, some more than once, I was working up in Stranraer a few years back and got the ferry to Belfast to meet a very sexy lady off here, that was a very memorable weekend and I wouldn't have missed it for the world  |
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If it's someone I've built a real rapport with then I would certainly be willing to travel, and how far I'd travel depends on how good that rapport is.
I drove to Glasgow for a weekend to meet someone once. It wasn't someone from here though, and I didn't have the same sort of issues with getting stood up that are so prevalent on here. |
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"If it's someone I've built a real rapport with then I would certainly be willing to travel, and how far I'd travel depends on how good that rapport is.
I drove to Glasgow for a weekend to meet someone once. It wasn't someone from here though, and I didn't have the same sort of issues with getting stood up that are so prevalent on here."
So true that last bit , in the last 2 weeks I’ve been left down 4 times ... thank god if got a good agenda |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
I had someone once invite herself to mine!
On a different site to this late 2018 I had been messaging a woman in London for a few weeks. We swapped phone numbers and chatted on the phone a few times. My work saw me one Thursday about 50 miles from hers so we arranged to meet at a restaurant for a bite to eat. She joked on the phone that if she liked me she would be coming to mine for the weekend up in East Yorkshire.
She booked a table in her name, but I arrived first. She turned up with a bloody suitcase with her. She explained that she wasn't joking about coming to mine. We had our meal and by then it was 8pm and I had a 4 hour drive home. She never mentioned coming to mine, but walked with me to my car with me. I unlocked it, and she opened the boot and put her suitcase in, got in the passenger seat and said "well, what are you waiting for? Drive!" 
I put her in my spare room, but at 6am the next morning she barged into my room, said she was cold and climbed into my bed.
I was working in London on the Monday so drove her home. I saw her once more when I was working close by, but she turned into a total fruitcake so I had to tell her it would never work out. |
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"I had someone once invite herself to mine!
On a different site to this late 2018 I had been messaging a woman in London for a few weeks. We swapped phone numbers and chatted on the phone a few times. My work saw me one Thursday about 50 miles from hers so we arranged to meet at a restaurant for a bite to eat. She joked on the phone that if she liked me she would be coming to mine for the weekend up in East Yorkshire.
She booked a table in her name, but I arrived first. She turned up with a bloody suitcase with her. She explained that she wasn't joking about coming to mine. We had our meal and by then it was 8pm and I had a 4 hour drive home. She never mentioned coming to mine, but walked with me to my car with me. I unlocked it, and she opened the boot and put her suitcase in, got in the passenger seat and said "well, what are you waiting for? Drive!"
I put her in my spare room, but at 6am the next morning she barged into my room, said she was cold and climbed into my bed.
I was working in London on the Monday so drove her home. I saw her once more when I was working close by, but she turned into a total fruitcake so I had to tell her it would never work out."
Such a nice experience I guess , at least you’ve got a story to be told. |
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"I'd try and combine it with a business trip - belt and braces approach! "
I’ll like to try a tourist trip like Edinburgh or Cornwall as I never been before and is on my mind to visit them combined with a naughty night with someone local. |
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"I'be accommodated couples and singles who have travelled here to my villa in Spain. Usually after quite a lengthy message and phone exchange, so we're comfortable we're both genuine."
Jávea is beautiful you can’t keep it to yourself only , keep doing it and show my country while you have fun ! Btw I’m from Alicante too but in the south like 20 minutes before Murcia. |
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"I spend time getting to know people, so there are no disappointments, and yes, I will and do travel long distances. I don't accommodate - this is my kids" domain.
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I’m sure you make lots of happy people by it !
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I've done all of it...but prefer to accommodate when I can. I've been shocked at the conditions some people live in and I don't meet all that often! A properly clean toilet really should be the default setting.
Always a social first and I don't do the random fuck thing, I get to know the person I'm inviting into my home and into whose home I'm going.
If it doesn't feel right, it isn't.
I've spent weekends away with friends, held parties at mine, all sorts of shenanigans but I have been doing it for ten years now.
What I can't do anymore are hotel meets. I just feel like a visiting sex worker and without fail, have that horrid deflated feeling driving home and that's even if I've paid for the room! |
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"I'd try and combine it with a business trip - belt and braces approach! "
I did that with an American guy I'd been chatting to. We'd been talking for years, then I worked a business trip to detour over a weekend and we spent a fantastic couple of days together.
Had it not worked out when we met in person then I figured I had a couple of days to do some tourist stuff for just the cost of the hotel room - my flights were covered by work. |
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"I've done all of it...but prefer to accommodate when I can. I've been shocked at the conditions some people live in and I don't meet all that often! A properly clean toilet really should be the default setting.
Always a social first and I don't do the random fuck thing, I get to know the person I'm inviting into my home and into whose home I'm going.
If it doesn't feel right, it isn't.
I've spent weekends away with friends, held parties at mine, all sorts of shenanigans but I have been doing it for ten years now.
What I can't do anymore are hotel meets. I just feel like a visiting sex worker and without fail, have that horrid deflated feeling driving home and that's even if I've paid for the room!"
Sounded right but I don’t agree on the hotel thing but I respect your opinion . |
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"I'd try and combine it with a business trip - belt and braces approach!
I did that with an American guy I'd been chatting to. We'd been talking for years, then I worked a business trip to detour over a weekend and we spent a fantastic couple of days together.
Had it not worked out when we met in person then I figured I had a couple of days to do some tourist stuff for just the cost of the hotel room - my flights were covered by work."
Last summer I went to Zurich to visit some friends and for a amazing party they do there ( street parade) I went there for 5 days but the first one in that party I meet a local girl and I end up at her house the full holiday ( my friends understand it) and she was the perfect combination between sweet and filthy and she made me feel like I didn’t want to leave , no just for the sex , we had like a proper summer love story.
Still in touch with her, our story didn’t finish that summer I’m sure I’ll see her again at some point of my life. |
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"I've done all of it...but prefer to accommodate when I can. I've been shocked at the conditions some people live in and I don't meet all that often! A properly clean toilet really should be the default setting.
Always a social first and I don't do the random fuck thing, I get to know the person I'm inviting into my home and into whose home I'm going.
If it doesn't feel right, it isn't.
I've spent weekends away with friends, held parties at mine, all sorts of shenanigans but I have been doing it for ten years now.
What I can't do anymore are hotel meets. I just feel like a visiting sex worker and without fail, have that horrid deflated feeling driving home and that's even if I've paid for the room!
Sounded right but I don’t agree on the hotel thing but I respect your opinion . "
It's not for you to agree on! It's how I feel, not an opinion. If hotel meets don't make you feel like that, go for it.
I wont. |
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"As I spend lot of time browsing I see lots of people I would happily fuck so what are your thoughts about it?"
It’s just like me travelling to visit a club (always 60 miles +), but private meets are a more guaranteed way of having fun |
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"I've done all of it...but prefer to accommodate when I can. I've been shocked at the conditions some people live in and I don't meet all that often! A properly clean toilet really should be the default setting.
Always a social first and I don't do the random fuck thing, I get to know the person I'm inviting into my home and into whose home I'm going.
If it doesn't feel right, it isn't.
I've spent weekends away with friends, held parties at mine, all sorts of shenanigans but I have been doing it for ten years now.
What I can't do anymore are hotel meets. I just feel like a visiting sex worker and without fail, have that horrid deflated feeling driving home and that's even if I've paid for the room!
Sounded right but I don’t agree on the hotel thing but I respect your opinion .
It's not for you to agree on! It's how I feel, not an opinion. If hotel meets don't make you feel like that, go for it.
I wont."
I hope you didn’t get my message badly, it’s just pure chat |
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I lost the count of places i have been , miles and hours away from where i live . I quite like to drive but of course if is the right persons. Apart from conection and chemestry the hygiene also brings atraction and some people tend to forget about that.
London , Westminster, St Austell, Saffron , Birmingham ,Nottingham, Chesterfield, Blackburn, Newcastle,Bedford,Kettering,kent , this is just a few places to mention. I also like to drive short distances ,last was Goole and Scunthorpe and last last one York, all months ago  ... i need to buy black out curtains ... quite feel embarrassed now with my neighbour  |
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"I lost the count of places i have been , miles and hours away from where i live . I quite like to drive but of course if is the right persons. Apart from conection and chemestry the hygiene also brings atraction and some people tend to forget about that.
London , Westminster, St Austell, Saffron , Birmingham ,Nottingham, Chesterfield, Blackburn, Newcastle,Bedford,Kettering,kent , this is just a few places to mention. I also like to drive short distances ,last was Goole and Scunthorpe and last last one York, all months ago ... i need to buy black out curtains ... quite feel embarrassed now with my neighbour "
Seems like you are a proper party lady!!
Do not care about your neighbours! I’m sure they are jealous |
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I wouldn't say that , actually to be true i'm quite shy but i like know new places and of course make friends and if they invite me for a party why not ? Life is too short right ? I have my normal life work home , home work , friends that really don't know if they are friends or not because they are quite good playing the game , what i definitely i'm not into .
As you see , the best place to be his just here where all the good things happen and people is nice  |
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"I wouldn't say that , actually to be true i'm quite shy but i like know new places and of course make friends and if they invite me for a party why not ? Life is too short right ? I have my normal life work home , home work , friends that really don't know if they are friends or not because they are quite good playing the game , what i definitely i'm not into .
As you see , the best place to be his just here where all the good things happen and people is nice "
And also very sexy and open minded |
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"I lost the count of places i have been , miles and hours away from where i live . I quite like to drive but of course if is the right persons. Apart from conection and chemestry the hygiene also brings atraction and some people tend to forget about that.
London , Westminster, St Austell, Saffron , Birmingham ,Nottingham, Chesterfield, Blackburn, Newcastle,Bedford,Kettering,kent , this is just a few places to mention. I also like to drive short distances ,last was Goole and Scunthorpe and last last one York, all months ago ... i need to buy black out curtains ... quite feel embarrassed now with my neighbour
Seems like you are a proper party lady!!
Do not care about your neighbours! I’m sure they are jealous "
sorry i forgot to mention about my neighbours , i just realized yesterday night that i really need to buy blackout curtains , i quite felt embarrassed this morning when i went to the car , but i confess i had a big smile in my mind .
I believe i'm not the only one here who doesn't have blackout curtains |
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