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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is a lot of whinging in the profiles and in the forums mainly from women and/or couples complaining about the amount, type and content of messages they receive (from single guys usually). Some people then blame the user about the tone of their profiles - or stated preferences.
However, what if it is NOT the fault of the user or the single guys, but due to the POOR or DATED design of the FabSwingers website itself. For example, the only way to stop the avalanche of single-guy “wanna fuck” messaging is to block ALL single guys, which actually might be against your sexual preferences.
What would YOU change to make Fab a Better Experience ( and yes I know there is “feedback" forum ) but it is with some irony that no one bothers to respond/review new posts there!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would wish for
Multiple Hotlist
Email Grouped by Hotlist
Default SPAM Group
1) Multiple Hotlists
with "user-definable" group names like
* Post-Lockdown-Shag-List
* Hot-Prospect-MAYBE-Shag
* Love-Photos-Wont-Shag
* Dumped-Me-Still-Stalking
* DSL-Are-My-Weakness
* etc.
2) Email Grouped by HotList
The ability to have emails automatically grouped / sorted based on those hotlists
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3) Default SPAM Group
A default group or “SPAM” folder for all messages received by people not in any of my HOTLISTS.
That way ALL single-guys (not in my hotlists) emails would just find themselves automatically spammed into the “BIN" group.
Problem solved.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would wish for
Multiple Hotlist
Email Grouped by Hotlist
Default SPAM Group
1) Multiple Hotlists
with "user-definable" group names like
* Post-Lockdown-Shag-List
* Hot-Prospect-MAYBE-Shag
* Love-Photos-Wont-Shag
* Dumped-Me-Still-Stalking
* DSL-Are-My-Weakness
* etc.
2) Email Grouped by HotList
The ability to have emails automatically grouped / sorted based on those hotlists
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3) Default SPAM Group
A default group or “SPAM” folder for all messages received by people not in any of my HOTLISTS.
That way ALL single-guys (not in my hotlists) emails would just find themselves automatically spammed into the “BIN" group.
Problem solved.
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I would need to employ a personal assistant to help with all your categories! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd go for how about we all act like adults and take responsibility for our actions and show the respect for others that we look to receive from others.... Radical, I know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would need to employ a personal assistant to help with all your categories!"
Ha! Well if you are like make me you do spend enough time on here already to make it a full time job!
Just replying to messages form single unicorn girls !! ( As if !! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not showing as online would be handy
An alternative 'not list' would be good too "
You can hotlist the not lists, then use the private note facility to remind you why they are there. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"A filter that says "stop this person doesn't want your fucking dick pic" in that exact wording
But they can't read & will send it anyway "
They wont be able to as it's a filter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd go for how about we all act like adults and take responsibility for our actions and show the respect for others that we look to receive from others.... Radical, I know. "
Totally crazy and impossible but yes this!!!  |
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Or how about stopping men sending a dick pic with the first message and making the first message have over 100 differing words so they can't just put 'wanna fuck' followed by fullstops or random letters just to make the wording amount up.
In short, its up to those guys (sometimes couples, tv/ts or women too so I'm being inclusive) to come up with something worthwhile and that sparks the recipient's mind. |
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"Not showing as online would be handy
An alternative 'not list' would be good too
You can hotlist the not lists, then use the private note facility to remind you why they are there."
I do but then I look like I'm interested when I check folks profiles to check the notes. I also know I could go ninja mode but that's no fun lol |
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"I'd go for how about we all act like adults and take responsibility for our actions and show the respect for others that we look to receive from others.... Radical, I know. "
Simple as that I think  |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
We're tempted to create a post in the forums for our rules, then place a link to them in the profile. We get our profile can look a little word heavy, but it's important to us we get the right messages. We want someone who will make as much effort for us as they expect from us. X |
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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago
A little village |
"I would personally like a filter that still allowed people to reply privately to me on a forum post, even if I've got that demographic blocked by message filters. "
Conversely, I think a filter that prevents forum interaction with someone you have blocked from messaging would be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the same for dogging in my experience. Guys turning up who had made no effort at all and expecting people to fuck them. I gave up on doggingin the end as I couldn't stand the hanging about and some of the people turning up were really low rent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd go for how about we all act like adults and take responsibility for our actions and show the respect for others that we look to receive from others.... Radical, I know.
Simple as that I think "
But NOT what the OP asked for ...
I don’t want to change the user per se ( since I empathise with single guy goals but not their crude technique ) ...
Any ideas to change or improve the technology or website to better manage ANY user and improve your experience ... Please. Thx. |
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"I’d love my inbox to be divided into two parts. Messages from new people in one and messages from those I have conversed with in the other.  "
An Introduction Inbox would be bloody superb, though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d make single ladies profile automatically block single guys from messaging for at least a month. I’ve seen what happens when single ladies join this place, it’s like flies around shit even when they don’t have pics, and if they’re decent looking it’s a bloody joke! A friend of mine was bombarded and left within 12 hours because of it.
Auto set the message filters and allow them to either contact those they like or chose to remove it. Or at the very least make it abundantly obvious they can update their message filters easily |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d love my inbox to be divided into two parts. Messages from new people in one and messages from those I have conversed with in the other. "
That’s a brilliant idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always been polite and courteous but women on here get their heads in the clouds from all the messages they receive and block everyone who’s not air head gym bod lol. I’d like a section for the ‘not so nice looking, dad bod lovers’ ! ie most normal people !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some dating sites have features where you can send an intro but you have to accept it to be able to message each other which would be quite good. "
That would be a brilliant idea!!!
I hate not replying to people even though I know Fab rules say that we dont have to feel obliged to, and that facility would mean we wouldn't have to, ever. Plus if that intro was never accepted, they wouldn't be able to send it again.
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