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Winking should be 1st part of messaging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think sending winks should be part of messaging to stop some people wasting their time as some messages don’t get opened talk of getting a reply. (Or maybe it’s me) loool
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I think a wink back should be an acknowledgment before people go to messaging saves both parties a lot
What do you guys think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that winks should be one option, rather than the way it 'should' be done.
I agree with that and if you get a wink back it’s a nice little opener "
Yeahh like thiss |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I think that winks should be one option, rather than the way it 'should' be done.
I agree with that and if you get a wink back it’s a nice little opener "
Definitely this |
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"I think sending winks should be part of messaging to stop some people wasting their time as some messages don’t get opened talk of getting a reply. (Or maybe it’s me) loool
But
I think a wink back should be an acknowledgment before people go to messaging saves both parties a lot
What do you guys think? "
Good luck with that. I never respond or even look much at winks. They are just a way of randoms attempting lazy contact and then it would left to me to laboriously check each profile.
Read and respect profiles. Send a message if you match and then forget about it.
Either you'll get a reply or you wont. |
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By *ljamMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
They're too easy. I sometimes get one or send one to ladies I know as a little hello, but generally, as an icebreaker or introduction, they can be done with so little thought and in so much volume that they have little value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely look at my winks, but I will say, I did once wink at someone which has led to something beautiful.
They are a good option for me, but not the only option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I disagree. I think a wink can come later. If everybody winks straight off, it is like a coin dropping exercise.
Surely far better to wrap something up in a bow.....send it with a kiss (yes it takes more effort), but it can open the mind....not just a photo tick box. Too one dimensional approach for me (IMMHO.....LOL) |
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I rarely look at winks, in fact it's usually only when someone puts a post on the forums about winks that I even remember they are there! Don't think I personally have ever winked at anyone, although maybe M has.
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
From what I've seen on the site so far winks are unwanted / disliked / ignored / blocked by most women and couples. And seeing as the site already tells you if you've been viewed, fab'd or message sent (which are all indicators of interest), the whole wink option just seems a bit... superfluous. Especially if more often than not it's going to be received negatively, makes me wonder why Fab don't just get rid of it, to be honest. |
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"I think that winks should be one option, rather than the way it 'should' be done.
I agree with that and if you get a wink back it’s a nice little opener "
Why wink is my opinion if your interested please send a message instead.
Why should I start a pm just because you cant be bothered sending the first message. |
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