"Do you have to be a attracted to someone to sleep with them?
I did this thread this morning  didn’t see it "
Headed 'physical attraction' its ok, people said different things and threads are easy to miss |
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In the past I've been guilty of having sex with guys I wasn't really into. The reasons varied from me just needing sex or intimacy, boredom, agreeing to it beforehand and not wanting to back out and at times just for the thrill of it. Some really stupid reasons in there and I look back and realise I made some weird choices.
Nowadays I wouldn't consider having sex with someone I wasn't attracted to.
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"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry."
tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule |
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"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry.
tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule "
Oh no! You’ve mistaken my point.
Just because someone doesn’t immediately attract you doesn’t mean that they might not at the right time or with time to chat/know each other. But that’s still attraction.
You’re still attracted to that person, even if they aren’t your type or it wouldn’t happen at all between you.
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"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry.
tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule "
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"Of course. No attraction means no chemistry.
tbf i was attracted to someone who wasn't my usual type. usually i just past on by if i saw him on the street. our sexual chemistry was amazing.. there's exception to every rule
Oh no! You’ve mistaken my point.
Just because someone doesn’t immediately attract you doesn’t mean that they might not at the right time or with time to chat/know each other. But that’s still attraction.
You’re still attracted to that person, even if they aren’t your type or it wouldn’t happen at all between you.
I hope that makes sense? X"
Yes weirdly, he did initially attract me.. i met this guy in person whilst on a job. We had afew things in common. but normally looks wize, i go for the total opposite. Recently it happened to me twice. Both men surprised me in bed. But I ended up finding them very attractive. But I can't be brave enough to think like that online. if i don't have that initial physical attraction, i find it difficult to converse online |
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