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Yes I do. It's not completely set in stone, and if I like everything else about someone I can go with it, but tall men are definitely what I prefer. Height is part of my overall attraction to somebody. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am more attracted to a man who is taller than me. I am 6'1 when wearing stilettos and I like that I am at eye level or shorter than a guy.
Although this isn't a total deal breaker as I have previously had a fb for a few years who was shorter than me, and he enjoyed that I was taller than him.
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"Yes I do. It's not completely set in stone, and if I like everything else about someone I can go with it, but tall men are definitely what I prefer. Height is part of my overall attraction to somebody. "
Be careful what you wish for, Chewie wanted a tall man and now has a brood of Children who are taller than her before they hit high school  |
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Yes. No. Kind of.
I tend to like shorter women, but to me it's not a deal breaker to someone's sexiness if they are not short.
If she's hot and tall, she's still hot.
Even if tall is not what I would enter into the weird science 80s movie machine.
So I see being short as just a nice bonus. |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
Leicester / London |
Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back
Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.
The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.
And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above
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"Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back
Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.
The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.
And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above
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A common misconception that the height in itself is important when shagging.
I'm my head I'd know you are short, short men have a negative effect on my desire for them.
We are NOT all the same size laying down. |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
Leicester / London |
"Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back
Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.
The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.
And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above
A common misconception that the height in itself is important when shagging.
I'm my head I'd know you are short, short men have a negative effect on my desire for them.
We are NOT all the same size laying down."
That's not misconception....that's your personal perception. Which of course you are entitled to
With boots on which I wear pretty much without exception...most people perceive me to be 6ft.
But that only because their concept of height is so out of whack with real measurements.
I'm all about undersell and overdeliver so I just take their compliment and move to something my perception of desire ranks higher. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I prefer taller than me, I like to reach up to kiss but this happens rarely!
And it does make a difference having sex, for example genital alignment during a 69 or doggy, or standing are all affected.
Its not a deal-breaker, but it Is a strong factor x |
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It matters only indirectly.
I am not very tall, so I will most likely not make it on the shortlist of a number of the ladies here.
And as much as I like, talking to a significant taller lady feels strange when all I can see are here breasts. But that difference is no longer important once we go horizontal.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I prefer taller than me, I like to reach up to kiss but this happens rarely!
And it does make a difference having sex, for example genital alignment during a 69 or doggy, or standing are all affected.
Its not a deal-breaker, but it Is a strong factor x"
You can reach up to kiss md anytime  |
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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago
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I'm very short for a guy 
At a conservative estimate I'd say my height means at least 75% of females or couples on here would automatically click the delete button
It bothered me when I was a youngster but now I don't really worry about it
It's just a fact of life that attraction is almost always physical first, and if you don't pass that test no manner of other positive attributes would make you attractive
Happy with my lot in life though....if you can't accept yourself for what you are you will never be happy in the one life that you have |
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"I'm very short for a guy
At a conservative estimate I'd say my height means at least 75% of females or couples on here would automatically click the delete button
It bothered me when I was a youngster but now I don't really worry about it
It's just a fact of life that attraction is almost always physical first, and if you don't pass that test no manner of other positive attributes would make you attractive
Happy with my lot in life though....if you can't accept yourself for what you are you will never be happy in the one life that you have"
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"Does it matter how tall you are when you are horizontal on your back
Depends if you are using a fab measuring tape....Which conveniently adds and subtract 2 inches where needed.
The amount of women I've met that say they ar 5'6 or 5'8 and are barely 5'5... the height of the average women in the uk.
And most men are well under 5'9/5'10. But I'm sure the stats on here look like a basketball team where most are 6'2 and above
A common misconception that the height in itself is important when shagging.
I'm my head I'd know you are short, short men have a negative effect on my desire for them.
We are NOT all the same size laying down.
That's not misconception....that's your personal perception. Which of course you are entitled to
With boots on which I wear pretty much without exception...most people perceive me to be 6ft.
But that only because their concept of height is so out of whack with real measurements.
I'm all about undersell and overdeliver so I just take their compliment and move to something my perception of desire ranks higher."
The only people I ever hear quote 'we are all the same size laying down' are men because to the vast majority of them, it doesn't matter and as you can see here to women, especially the tall ones, it does so to dismiss our desires by stating that speaks volumes.
If I got naked with a man who deceived me with his height in someway, he would be gone. Short men have a hugely negative impact on my libido.
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Not at all.
I find it odd that most women replying are saying it's important, and most men are saying it's not important.
I wonder what it is that makes it so important for women.
Why does a man need to be taller than you? |
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By *r.HMan
over a year ago
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I'm a short arse but just make the most of it, I know I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea but fuck it there's plenty of people out there and what isn't right for someone could be perfect for someone else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 5ft 11...and a half. So height is really important to me when looking for a man. Don’t want to feel like a giant. I generally go for guys 6ft 2 and over. I find taller women attractive too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never used to look actually before meeting, for a one off I wouldnt be overly bothered. If I am going to fall in love with you, I'd rather you were taller. |
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