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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham

Grenade!!!!

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

Give me an example, Dick.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am spreading joy wherever I go currently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Grenade!!!!"

I may just throw myself on it. Not to save the team but to end my experience of FAB

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"I am spreading joy wherever I go currently "

Does Joy mind being spread for all and sundry??

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Uh oh

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Grenade!!!!"

Are forums not about speaking up ?

Saying things that are on your mind

Airing opinion

Or are they about saying what people want to hear for mutual adulation?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am spreading joy wherever I go currently

Does Joy mind being spread for all and sundry?? "

I have to keep her gagged to stop the bloody moaning, but Im sure she loves it really

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"Grenade!!!!

Are forums not about speaking up ?

Saying things that are on your mind

Airing opinion

Or are they about saying what people want to hear for mutual adulation?"

Personally I use them for light hearted banter, humour and mild sarcasm ... but each to their own crusades

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Grenade!!!!

Are forums not about speaking up ?

Saying things that are on your mind

Airing opinion

Or are they about saying what people want to hear for mutual adulation?"

True. But people will also respond in their own enimatble way. Noone can control or predict responses on here!

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By *apiomanMan  over a year ago

Shipley

Jeez, haven’t been on the forums for ages and this comes up as predictably as ever.

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By *adbod74Man  over a year ago

Dudley

Hold on!!! Let me just grab the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Jeez, haven’t been on the forums for ages and this comes up as predictably as ever. "

If it bores you so

1. Why look

2. Why post

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By *ady23Woman  over a year ago

Coventry


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

Give me an example, Dick. "

??????

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By *ady23Woman  over a year ago

Coventry


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

Give me an example, Dick.

??????"

as in laughing here.

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who’s a victim? I’m not.

Got any examples of what you’re saying op?

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple  over a year ago

Warwick

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Op please don't tar all women with the same brush!,

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who’s a victim? I’m not.

Got any examples of what you’re saying op?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who’s a victim? I’m not.

Got any examples of what you’re saying op?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If someone declined or wasnt polite, its a filter.

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to. "

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind? "

Behive yourself

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham

Anyone else hear the cicadas in here?

Anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just probably fed up, I tend to return the attitude I am given.

For example:

Read the profile, send polite original message, get a polite response.

Dont read the profile, send crude message, I will either delete without opening or respond in a very twat like manner

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By *ulahlollipopWoman  over a year ago

Reading/London

I’m seeing more and more Dicks acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about females behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The dick isn’t quite the victim he wants people to believe ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can you elaborate OP?

With examples please?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe we're just sick of the tedious bullshit

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By *reya73Woman  over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Posting this kind of thing without context is just vague.

A teacher of mine used to say "what is it you really want to say.. the important thing that wants to be expressed, the thing that doesn't involve anyone or anything else"

That will be more to the point and something we can constructively comment on maybe? But please don't have a general go at "women round here"

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By *FcoupleCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind? "

Wait...there's a hive mind?

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

Give me an example, Dick. "

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

Behive yourself "

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby


"Maybe we're just sick of the tedious bullshit "

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

Wait...there's a hive mind? "

It's the cicadas I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

Wait...there's a hive mind? "

I think I missed that memo too

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By *FcoupleCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Liverpool

[Removed by poster at 15/07/20 22:15:14]

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By *FcoupleCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

Wait...there's a hive mind?

It's the cicadas I tell ya"

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By *ed-monkeyCouple  over a year ago

Hailsham


"[Umbrage,outrage and poor attitude removed by poster at 15/07/20 22:15:14]"

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By *FcoupleCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

Wait...there's a hive mind?

I think I missed that memo too "

Oh good.. I'm not alone!

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By *FcoupleCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Liverpool


"[Umbrage,outrage and poor attitude removed by poster at 15/07/20 22:15:14]"

Hahaha!

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

Wait...there's a hive mind?

I think I missed that memo too

Oh good.. I'm not alone! "

I'll hook you up ladies!

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry you feel that way OP.

In my experience there are entitled eejits of both sexes on here, as there are in the wider world.

I tend to do a good job of avoiding them

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By *FcoupleCouple (FF)  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

SOME women may act awfully, SOME may have a victim complex, SOME may moan about men. Guess what? They aren't all the the same women!

Also, it may be a skewed perception cos MANY women don't act/respond in the way SOME men want us to.

You mean you're not tapped in to the hive mind?

Wait...there's a hive mind?

I think I missed that memo too

Oh good.. I'm not alone!

I'll hook you up ladies! "

Why thank you

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By *wentMan  over a year ago

blackpool

Live life and don’t let people annoy you with their behaviour or attitude. If men or women are anyway not nice then you do not need to engage.

Lots of people display good qualities as well.

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By * and R cple4Couple  over a year ago

swansea


"Sorry you feel that way OP.

In my experience there are entitled eejits of both sexes on here, as there are in the wider world.

I tend to do a good job of avoiding them "

Very true ..

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By *ouanna JoWoman  over a year ago

A little village


"Who’s a victim? I’m not.

Got any examples of what you’re saying op?"

This. I don’t feel like a victim on here nor do I wish to be seen as one. Not sure what you mean ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hope you get some sex soon OP.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Both men and women can be blind to the ways they act as co-conspirators in their own demise

Saying that the other should change may have some truth, but it won't get you anywhere

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I wouldn't know OP - I tend to focus on those that do interest me, and who don't act in any of the ways you describe, rather than worrying about those that do behave that way, I find it makes for a far more positive experience.

I don't doubt there are *some* who are as you suggest, but I also put forward that there are a lot of men who behave awfully too - who are entitled, think the site owes them a shag and more.

Why worry about people that don't interest you though?

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By *ickygirl41Woman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

Admiral Ackbar

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

There does seem to be a lot of status updates about the behaviour and attitude of some men on here.

Move on. There’s plenty of good guys on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry you feel that way OP.

In my experience there are entitled eejits of both sexes on here, as there are in the wider world.

I tend to do a good job of avoiding them "

Yep.

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By *olden RatioWoman  over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Just use it to your advantage as a filtering device... job done, everyone happy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good poor attitude everyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good poor attitude everyone "

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Could you elaborate a bit further please Op, I’ve seen none of this, but then I guess I’m not looking for it ?!

Thanks in advance, all the best to you and yours X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Grenade!!!!

I may just throw myself on it. Not to save the team but to end my experience of FAB "

Lmfao

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By *B69Woman  over a year ago

Wiltshire

Nothing wrong with my attitude, never seen a problem with anyone else’s either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone seen Dick about ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good poor attitude everyone

This "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with my attitude, never seen a problem with anyone else’s either"

I thinks it's subjective, I had a brief scroll and couldn't see any example from OP other than "YES".

Being a dick on fab isn't isolated to women on here OP, and some men enjoy acting like a victim too.

I guess the men just make a threads about instead of saying it privately.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess OP it’s due to the unbalanced sex ratio on these kinds of websites. Some ‘dating’ sites and dating apps frequently have 10 men to each woman, so generally most messages sent will be from men to women, so women get more choice, were as men struggle to even get a reply, never mind a message from a woman he never messaged first. It’s just the way it is I guess. Look at it this way, most relationships from the internet don’t last. In fact studies have shown that only a handful of marriages happen from internet dating, and nearly all of them fail within a few years. Meeting people in face to face circumstances is still the best way to go, as long as it’s not in nightclubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find it sad, Dick, that you've been here a mere three weeks but have already formed that view.

I can assure you that there are plenty of polite, funny, friendly women on here, but perhaps they're avoiding men with such negative status updates and headlines.

C'est la vie..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My hotwife is definitely entitled ...

Oh wait, that’s how it’s meant to be!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

I like how clean your knees are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I only moan when I orgasm, OP.

I don't do it on here though.

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By *oxychicWoman  over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Maybe it's the women you pick

Raise the bar x

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple  over a year ago

Warwick


"My hotwife is definitely entitled ...

Oh wait, that’s how it’s meant to be! "

Quite right !

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By *elle xWoman  over a year ago

Doire Theas

Oh no he didn’t

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By *ic_khan2341Man  over a year ago

Manchester


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

Yes many on here have issues themselves. Just ignore them.

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby

Sorry i got lost , can anyone help me ? here is the exit door ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more Dicks acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about females behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The dick isn’t quite the victim he wants people to believe ?"

Case in point

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

If this is the case from your perspective...you don’t have to be here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I do it's because they know they can tho

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more Dicks acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about females behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The dick isn’t quite the victim he wants people to believe ?

Case in point "

But so true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Make love not war

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is what it is. I've been in here long enough to know that men far outweigh women in here so they can afford to be Picky.

I'm courteous in messages, and how that my humour comes through. If I don't get a response, it's onwards and upwards. If I do, it's happy days.

Spending time in the forums is a good way to let your personality shine through.

Results out = effort in. It's as easy as peas.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

I once saw a woman walk straight into

Tesco and buy a loaf. I was fucking outraged.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

I'm not a victim, I'm a fucking survivor. Yeah I have a smart mouth and a shitty attitude..... towards those that warrant it.

I'm not sure I could be any clearer about what I will and won't tolerate, the kind of folks I like to be around and the fact that I'm just a little bit massively fucked up. Entitled? Yeah, actually I am.

I think I'm entitled to walk my path of fab without having my profile text ignored and spoken to like I'm some kind of free prostitute, does it happen? Nope... so then, I'm entitled to hit the block button, or I'm entitled to express my disdain, despair or just plain disappointment.

I'm entitled to express my views and people are entitled to disagree. Tis life and we are all different after all.

I'm entitled to say no. I'm entitled to decide for myself if something is for me or not without being pressured into it.

So yes, I AM entitled.

Do I think I'm entitled to have any man/woman/bit of both fall at my feet and kiss my arse? Absolutely not, as they too are entitled to all of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a victim, I'm a fucking survivor. Yeah I have a smart mouth and a shitty attitude..... towards those that warrant it.

I'm not sure I could be any clearer about what I will and won't tolerate, the kind of folks I like to be around and the fact that I'm just a little bit massively fucked up. Entitled? Yeah, actually I am.

I think I'm entitled to walk my path of fab without having my profile text ignored and spoken to like I'm some kind of free prostitute, does it happen? Nope... so then, I'm entitled to hit the block button, or I'm entitled to express my disdain, despair or just plain disappointment.

I'm entitled to express my views and people are entitled to disagree. Tis life and we are all different after all.

I'm entitled to say no. I'm entitled to decide for myself if something is for me or not without being pressured into it.

So yes, I AM entitled.

Do I think I'm entitled to have any man/woman/bit of both fall at my feet and kiss my arse? Absolutely not, as they too are entitled to all of the above.

"

Yep. This.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a victim, I'm a fucking survivor. Yeah I have a smart mouth and a shitty attitude..... towards those that warrant it.

I'm not sure I could be any clearer about what I will and won't tolerate, the kind of folks I like to be around and the fact that I'm just a little bit massively fucked up. Entitled? Yeah, actually I am.

I think I'm entitled to walk my path of fab without having my profile text ignored and spoken to like I'm some kind of free prostitute, does it happen? Nope... so then, I'm entitled to hit the block button, or I'm entitled to express my disdain, despair or just plain disappointment.

I'm entitled to express my views and people are entitled to disagree. Tis life and we are all different after all.

I'm entitled to say no. I'm entitled to decide for myself if something is for me or not without being pressured into it.

So yes, I AM entitled.

Do I think I'm entitled to have any man/woman/bit of both fall at my feet and kiss my arse? Absolutely not, as they too are entitled to all of the above.

"

No more words needed just this

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan  over a year ago

Close By


"I am spreading joy wherever I go currently "

Pop down the road and spread her near me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Grenade!!!!

Are forums not about speaking up ?

Saying things that are on your mind

Airing opinion

Or are they about saying what people want to hear for mutual adulation?"

The latter.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

So then Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

So then Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

Etc etc etc

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By *attooBBWWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh

Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm not a victim, I'm a fucking survivor. Yeah I have a smart mouth and a shitty attitude..... towards those that warrant it.

I'm not sure I could be any clearer about what I will and won't tolerate, the kind of folks I like to be around and the fact that I'm just a little bit massively fucked up. Entitled? Yeah, actually I am.

I think I'm entitled to walk my path of fab without having my profile text ignored and spoken to like I'm some kind of free prostitute, does it happen? Nope... so then, I'm entitled to hit the block button, or I'm entitled to express my disdain, despair or just plain disappointment.

I'm entitled to express my views and people are entitled to disagree. Tis life and we are all different after all.

I'm entitled to say no. I'm entitled to decide for myself if something is for me or not without being pressured into it.

So yes, I AM entitled.

Do I think I'm entitled to have any man/woman/bit of both fall at my feet and kiss my arse? Absolutely not, as they too are entitled to all of the above.

No more words needed just this "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check. "

Isn't it less angsty to just ignore any of that kinda nonsense on here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So this is where all the hot redheads are hiding

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By *iamondGeezerMan  over a year ago

Bar Hill

[Removed by poster at 16/07/20 19:16:16]

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By *attooBBWWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Isn't it less angsty to just ignore any of that kinda nonsense on here?"

Like I said, the vast majority of times I do. But, sometimes it’s so off that I feel I need to call people out on their really bad attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Isn't it less angsty to just ignore any of that kinda nonsense on here?

Like I said, the vast majority of times I do. But, sometimes it’s so off that I feel I need to call people out on their really bad attitudes. "

But you can call people out without being 'a total asshole '

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

So then Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

So then Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

Etc etc etc"

Ssh, that's supposed to be a secret

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check. "

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

So then Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

So then Men act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way. Women get pissed off and act in an arrogant, entitled, rude, disrespectful way.

Etc etc etc

Ssh, that's supposed to be a secret "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely "

Using the term women loosely

Nice

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely "

I think I see the problem here.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Horsham


"Anyone else hear the cicadas in here?

Anyone? "

No, but I hear the crickets

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely "

Do these threads ever fail to reveal the truth about the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Could it be that men out number females and couples.

A percentage of those men don't message, talk or treat the ladies with respect, then after a while the attitude will be returned with interest to everyone.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

I think I see the problem here. "

Me too.

I'm not even wearing my clown hat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice"

Maybe means he mails tv's.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

I think I see the problem here.

Me too.

I'm not even wearing my clown hat "

Would your wear it for a tenner?

Ooooft.

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By *mateurRosaWoman  over a year ago

L

I've been accused of being arrogant by many men on here because I simply choose to delete their message when they have clearly not read my profile. If they had they'd see they are not what I am looking for.

If I reply and say please read my profile then I get abuse for either being picky and knowing what I want or "I don't want to read a fucking essay".

Knowing what I want doesn't make me arrogant. Deleting your message because you can't spend a few minutes reading what I want doesn't make me arrogant.

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

I sense the green arrow of a theme.......

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By *attooBBWWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely "

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

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By *attooBBWWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I've been accused of being arrogant by many men on here because I simply choose to delete their message when they have clearly not read my profile. If they had they'd see they are not what I am looking for.

If I reply and say please read my profile then I get abuse for either being picky and knowing what I want or "I don't want to read a fucking essay".

Knowing what I want doesn't make me arrogant. Deleting your message because you can't spend a few minutes reading what I want doesn't make me arrogant."

I’m with you 100%

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By *ic_khan2341Man  over a year ago

Manchester


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

"

Yes, they have their issues. Best to ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything! "

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice

Maybe means he mails tv's. "

Nope he’s all yours ladies, I’d ignore him as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice

Maybe means he mails tv's.

Nope he’s all yours ladies, I’d ignore him as well "

An attempt by you to put me down I can only laugh at

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

"

Have you taken the time to read the site FAQ's? No reply means no interest. It's not rude, it's the way it is.

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple  over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

I blame the parents

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

"

Why?

Genuinely curious.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

Why?

Genuinely curious."

Coz he thinks he's...... entitled to it *chortle*

Who's the entitled one now Mr Ranty?

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By *tingly ByronMan  over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

Why?

Genuinely curious.

Coz he thinks he's...... entitled to it *chortle*

Who's the entitled one now Mr Ranty?"

You "might" be right.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice

Maybe means he mails tv's.

Nope he’s all yours ladies, I’d ignore him as well

An attempt by you to put me down I can only laugh at "

OP, you asked last week why some women on here are so poor at " getting through" their msgs

Just a hunch, but I would suspect its cos they have jobs, children and grown up responsibilities

Now you are saying that polite msgs deserve reciprocation

Do you think you are coming across a tad entitled?

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By *attooBBWWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

"

MY attitude??!!! It’s not my ‘attitude’ to decide who I reply to and how I deal with people who aren’t what I’m looking for. That’s not entitlement, it’s just my right to choice.

I had a guy earlier message to actually tell me to meet him for a drink. When I declined, I had several messages of abuse the last of which was a very twisted and aggressive message about how I looked even though he’d never seen me. I didn’t owe him anything, yet I cannot win. This is about human interaction and politeness.

Quite frankly, if a guy is pushy, unable to read signals of no interest, I’m sure as heck not interested in meeting!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

MY attitude??!!! It’s not my ‘attitude’ to decide who I reply to and how I deal with people who aren’t what I’m looking for. That’s not entitlement, it’s just my right to choice.

I had a guy earlier message to actually tell me to meet him for a drink. When I declined, I had several messages of abuse the last of which was a very twisted and aggressive message about how I looked even though he’d never seen me. I didn’t owe him anything, yet I cannot win. This is about human interaction and politeness.

Quite frankly, if a guy is pushy, unable to read signals of no interest, I’m sure as heck not interested in meeting!!!! "

You could have blocked him after his first abusive message

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice

Maybe means he mails tv's.

Nope he’s all yours ladies, I’d ignore him as well

An attempt by you to put me down I can only laugh at

OP, you asked last week why some women on here are so poor at " getting through" their msgs

Just a hunch, but I would suspect its cos they have jobs, children and grown up responsibilities

Now you are saying that polite msgs deserve reciprocation

Do you think you are coming across a tad entitled?"

Entitled to polite behaviour?

We all are

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By *attooBBWWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"You could have blocked him after his first abusive message "

Not really sure why you particularly have it in for me! That’s the second time you’ve tried to call me out in this thread for no apparent reason.

FYI, I don’t sit on Fab checking my messages all day. When I logged in, he’d sent me 4 messages getting worse after I didn’t reply.

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

It's all a test guys! As is most things women say to us.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You could have blocked him after his first abusive message

Not really sure why you particularly have it in for me! That’s the second time you’ve tried to call me out in this thread for no apparent reason.

FYI, I don’t sit on Fab checking my messages all day. When I logged in, he’d sent me 4 messages getting worse after I didn’t reply. "

It's not personal

Think of it as a different perspective that might lead to a more positive fab experience

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By *ngeldreamsWoman  over a year ago

close to you

Couldn’t put this any better

Thank you

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By *omesticflightMan  over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice

Maybe means he mails tv's.

Nope he’s all yours ladies, I’d ignore him as well

An attempt by you to put me down I can only laugh at

OP, you asked last week why some women on here are so poor at " getting through" their msgs

Just a hunch, but I would suspect its cos they have jobs, children and grown up responsibilities

Now you are saying that polite msgs deserve reciprocation

Do you think you are coming across a tad entitled?

Entitled to polite behaviour?

We all are "

Dude dude dude, you're STILL entitled to read the fab rules and FAQ's where it says "no reply is NOT rude"

Did mention it earlier but you impolitely skipped past that precious nugget of info

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely "

You do know that women and men heck anyone using the site do not need to reply back? I've been polite and said no thanks then get a shitty msg back so what i tend to do now if I don't like the look of someone I will delete the msg. Does that make me nasty? And how you have conr across you wonder why people don't answer you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice

Maybe means he mails tv's.

Nope he’s all yours ladies, I’d ignore him as well "

xx

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS  over a year ago

Cornwall


"Op please don't tar all women with the same brush!,

"

I'd just spank 'em with the back of my hair brush

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only about 20% of my messages get read by women and of those that are read only about 20% of those ever reply.

Then again, if you look at my profile you’ll see why. lol

I imagine every woman’s inbox (no metaphors intended) is overflowing with messages on a daily basis and so, I’m sure it would impossible for her to engage with every correspondent.

I think ween should be more understanding of the pressures that women face in here.

God, what an ass-licker, I hear you mutter - and, with the right woman, I am! lol

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By *heLaserGuyMan  over a year ago

Coventry


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

Some are very nice, some are nice, and some are cunts, same goes for us men too

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By *nked_kittenWoman  over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

So, if you messaged me and I wasn’t interested, if generally delete and move on. I’m not here to chat so if there’s no attraction, I’m not entering a debate. I do not have to justify myself to anyone. I do not have to meet anyone’s demands of ‘reply, even if it’s a no’, there’s no point wasting time. If you can see it’s deleted, you can establish you’re not for me. I don’t owe anyone anything!

Your attitude is everything that’s gone sour on here

You owe me nothing I agree

But if I show you respect in a polite message

That should be reciprocated

"

I and all the other people on this site owe you and everyone else nothing

The only people I owe respect to are my customers at work because I get paid to be friendly and polite. Doesn’t mean I actually respect them but I will at least pretend to.

I don’t however get paid to answer messages on here so if I’m not interested I won’t.

Just because someone chooses to message me does not mean I choose to message them back

See....it’s not about respect or politeness on here. It’s about CHOICE

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I won't aim this at anyone or any gender.

I've been shocked at some of the views expressed on these types of threads, but then when I sit back and think about it, knowing that this is how some people think, a lot of the crap behaviour starts to make sense

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan  over a year ago

Torquay

Got blocked for a wink the other day, guess it says not interested but it's only a wink, should be seen as a complement i think but maybe they thought it was a come on

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire


"Absolutely, I can be arrogant and a total asshole. But only of that attitude is directed at me in the first place!! If I get a message talking to me like a £2 a handjob hooker that’s sitting about waiting for business, I’ll give you a piece of my mind.

I’ve personally found that there’s been an influx of people join the site, a lot of whom have no idea what it’s about and have clearly lost all ability to communicate with other humans during lockdown. I try to just delete and move on, but sometimes people need a reality check.

Ok

So if I messaged you politely

Finding something your profile that sparks a conversation

I attach a face pic

Then I’m immediately blocked

Would you see why guys get pissed off?

That happens daily

100% if you a shitty message

Give it back

But honestly

It’s a joke how women act here

Using the term women loosely

Using the term women loosely

Nice

Maybe means he mails tv's.

Nope he’s all yours ladies, I’d ignore him as well

xx"

He’ll be UNLOS soon

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I’m seeing more and more females acting really poorly towards people

Very entitled

Very arrogant

Yet moan about guys behaviour here

Do you think maybe

Just maybe

The women aren’t quite the victims they want people to believe ?

"

OP. Totally agree, think the responses you have received bare witness to your sentiment.

Thank goodness real women are not trolled or trollesses.

Read the positive, discard the negative.

They say men are keyboard warriors, nothing like the plastic Amazons on here.

You could have phrased it better though Op.

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