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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
This sudden rash of threads on fun mature and BBWs leads me here.
Reasons to meet:
1. Skin is still lovely and tight
2. Should be good for more than one go
Reasons not to meet:
1. Puppies - lots of enthusiasm and not much skill
2. They speak a different language
Any you'd like to add? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually scary met a younger guy and I dont think I act any older than him. (in fact freaked me the other night he said that music today just isnt proper music) -- thats the kinda shite u say when ur old!!!!!! Even I dont say that.
And have been with older men who have been immature as fuck.
Guess its you cant brand everyone the same, as the whole threads with black cock, bbw and everything else.
Its down to the individual person!!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"sweeping generalisation methinks"
Aw sorry hun. Present company excepted of course!
But honestly, the messages I receive from the younger men aren't exactly eloquent. However, their pictures more than make up for it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sweeping generalisation methinks
Aw sorry hun. Present company excepted of course!
But honestly, the messages I receive from the younger men aren't exactly eloquent. However, their pictures more than make up for it. "
so i'm an exception? i see hat you're all saying but i'm sure theres plenty of us out there |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"sweeping generalisation methinks"
Of course, just like the other threads.
My 11 year old nephew is more mature than the 53 year old idiot I got involved with recently. We all have reasons why we will and won't meet different people. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"sweeping generalisation methinks
Aw sorry hun. Present company excepted of course!
But honestly, the messages I receive from the younger men aren't exactly eloquent. However, their pictures more than make up for it.
so i'm an exception? i see hat you're all saying but i'm sure theres plenty of us out there "
I agree, but you're not all messaging me now are ya!  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"sweeping generalisation methinks"
It probably not that it sucks....(conversation) but maybe more that at different times i your life you ... anybody has different life experience and interests?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sweeping generalisation methinksIt probably not that it sucks....(conversation) but maybe more that at different times i your life you ... anybody has different life experience and interests?"
people can live their whole lives and not experience the same as someone else might've done in thir first 18 years |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"sweeping generalisation methinksIt probably not that it sucks....(conversation) but maybe more that at different times i your life you ... anybody has different life experience and interests?
people can live their whole lives and not experience the same as someone else might've done in thir first 18 years"
True, I was more referring to the normal progression from starting to have a family, raising kids, having a mortgage to kids leaving school, leaving home, elderly relatives etc.. all those transitions and more just put people in different "age" brackets". Now you could argue in swinging this should not be an issue and for some it is totally ok, for others it is not. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Please do, it will be less of a torment mentally as we dont fit into that bracket.You have an awesome profile! Really funny and good to read
Thank-you kindly..we're not all bad are we"
Nope, not at all - I d say if Carlberg made profiles for younger people, they d have stiff competition in you two xx |
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
Castleford |
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You both sound very amusing. Good luck with your search."
And you also, may it be more fruitful than ours.
"Nope, not at all - I d say if Carlberg made profiles for younger people, they d have stiff competition in you two xx"
I wouldnt mind a pint actually speaking of Carlsberg, infact I may even let you buy us one if you play you're cards right.   |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
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You both sound very amusing. Good luck with your search.
And you also, may it be more fruitful than ours.
Nope, not at all - I d say if Carlberg made profiles for younger people, they d have stiff competition in you two xx
I wouldnt mind a pint actually speaking of Carlsberg, infact I may even let you buy us one if you play you're cards right. "
You re on You made an elderly lady smile...;-) xx |
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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago
the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands |
"This sudden rash of threads on fun mature and BBWs leads me here.
Reasons to meet:
1. Skin is still lovely and tight
2. Should be good for more than one go
Reasons not to meet:
1. Puppies - lots of enthusiasm and not much skill
2. They speak a different language
Any you'd like to add?"
3 They have to ring home and ask mummy to come and pick them up after |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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3 They have to ring home and ask mummy to come and pick them up after "
That is not far from the truth with one young man I met! It's one of the reasons I don't meet the young ones. |
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
Castleford |
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You both sound very amusing. Good luck with your search.
And you also, may it be more fruitful than ours.
Nope, not at all - I d say if Carlberg made profiles for younger people, they d have stiff competition in you two xx
I wouldnt mind a pint actually speaking of Carlsberg, infact I may even let you buy us one if you play you're cards right. You re on You made an elderly lady smile...;-) xx"
Elderly? Bah! You aren't ready for your pension yet my dear - Not if this government has got anything to do with it anyway.
Although the old saying comes into play at this point - You are as young as the person you are feeling, or could be feeling? ... 
'Feel up a young 'un today and you too could feel like me'...Apparently. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
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You both sound very amusing. Good luck with your search.
And you also, may it be more fruitful than ours.
Nope, not at all - I d say if Carlberg made profiles for younger people, they d have stiff competition in you two xx
I wouldnt mind a pint actually speaking of Carlsberg, infact I may even let you buy us one if you play you're cards right. You re on You made an elderly lady smile...;-) xx
Elderly? Bah! You aren't ready for your pension yet my dear - Not if this government has got anything to do with it anyway.
Although the old saying comes into play at this point - You are as young as the person you are feeling, or could be feeling? ...
'Feel up a young 'un today and you too could feel like me'...Apparently."
Lovely to see you are holding your own... (in which every way you want to take that |
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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago
the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands |
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3 They have to ring home and ask mummy to come and pick them up after
Not really I just get the bus, although I do give 3 rings to say im on the way back."
OH? you've had your BMX locked in the shed this half term? shame...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not interested, never fancied anyone outside my age as I grew up and I am not going to change now, the thought of some young body next to mine, really doesn't turn me on at all, more turn my stomach  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"i suppose people dont want to meet young guys because of experience.
but how the hell is someone suppose to get experience if no one gives him a chance?"
Thats a very good point, agreed. Bit like in the job market where they want a young person with a string of qualifications and experience... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had the same problem in youth I refered wine to beer and enjoyed and still do listening to classical opera and gregorian chant
Now however Im just old |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I had the same problem in youth I refered wine to beer and enjoyed and still do listening to classical opera and gregorian chant
Now however Im just old "
Nice to see there is still plenty of diversity in taste PS I happen to love opera, adore gregorian chant and appreciate wine - so you are not alone xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the same problem in youth I refered wine to beer and enjoyed and still do listening to classical opera and gregorian chant
Now however Im just old
Nice to see there is still plenty of diversity in taste PS I happen to love opera, adore gregorian chant and appreciate wine - so you are not alone xx"
I love nothing more than sitting in darkness gregorian chant playing glass of wine in hand and letting the flow of music take over my body |
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Bad enough bar staff asking my adult daughter for id, I can do without that on a social meet.
My step sons are 36 and 37 and my future son-in-laws both 25...would feel so wrong!
Reasons to? Hmmm...erm...well they can...no, that's dogs, aah, huh...let me think, oh yes...nope, that's dogs too.
As you were, give me s moment to ponder young flesh and I'll get back to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a young guy and think it depends on the individual, as I've been told before I'm a lot more mature than a lot of guys older than me on here. Unfortunately not many people give guys like me a chance on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a young guy and think it depends on the individual, as I've been told before I'm a lot more mature than a lot of guys older than me on here. Unfortunately not many people give guys like me a chance on here "
well said young man |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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As you were, give me s moment to ponder young flesh and I'll get back to you! "
Does that mean you are perving young profiles seeking a reason?
My guess is you'll find the reasons will still be dogs.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like younger guys, a lot
I like the fact that we are mainly on different pages, the fact they (generally) look good and the fact they have that mix of over enthusiasm and innocence that I find totally endearing.
I rarely (very rarely) engage in penetrative sex with any bloke, so it doesn't bother me that they have yet to perfect their hip rhythms
The only ones that 'freak' me out a bit are the ones that want to call me Daddy or Sir. I am uncomfy with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have not read whole thread but:
1. have a tendency to be intimidated
2. cum very very quickly with very little stimulation
3. expect you to teach them how to do it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have not read whole thread but:
1. have a tendency to be intimidated
2. cum very very quickly with very little stimulation
3. expect you to teach them how to do it..."
those are all also reasons why i like em
when i say younger btw - i mean 20-25, not teens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sweeping generalisation methinksIt probably not that it sucks....(conversation) but maybe more that at different times i your life you ... anybody has different life experience and interests?
people can live their whole lives and not experience the same as someone else might've done in thir first 18 years"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My reason for not desiring younger men (generally) ....a lot of them don't think preferences exsist in the swinging world and therefore spit their dummies when "instashag" doesn't occur.
However, there are one or two younger guys that have gone against the grain (and I fancy having them against my groin subsequently) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met and spoken to mature younger guys and immature older guys.... and vice versa... it has more to do with the person than the age
Main reason why I like younger men? I love their bodies and enthusiasm. I also don't feel my age and for some reason most older men creep me out. I definitely don't have a daddy complex!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to meet younger gents, as they usually have less hang ups and less likely to be clingy, needy and emotional.
At my age, most gents on here are younger than me!
One of my fantasies is to pop the cherry of a young, fit gent!  
Joking aside, they need to be what I would consider as "exceptional", and what constitute towards being exceptional is for me to know and for the young gents to find out!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume there are a lot of closet cougars on here - women who would love to meet with a younger guy but are quite intimidated by going ahead with it "
its not intimidating for me its knowing my limits and at my age with having kids so yes i have stretch marks and saggy bits im just going to look a twat, to put it blunt, meeting some guy young enough to be my kid or there abouts
The thought of it seems quite sad to me |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I assume there are a lot of closet cougars on here - women who would love to meet with a younger guy but are quite intimidated by going ahead with it "
LOL, it's highly likely they'll be the ones who are intimidated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just feel someone my own age or older isnt going to be perfect himself so less likely to look down his nose at mine inperfections
Guess it all comes down to how you feel about yourself, if im going to be honest i just dont feel im good enough to get naked next to a 21 year old and its as honest and simple as that |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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3 They have to ring home and ask mummy to come and pick them up after
Not really I just get the bus, although I do give 3 rings to say im on the way back."
You're an oldie masquerading as a young 'un......a proper youngster would text "3 rings" to mum's mobile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i suppose people dont want to meet young guys because of experience.
but how the hell is someone suppose to get experience if no one gives him a chance?"
Easy, they go out clubbing and pick girls up like their mates do instead of looking for older women to teach them, pure laziness and is just a box to tick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume there are a lot of closet cougars on here - women who would love to meet with a younger guy but are quite intimidated by going ahead with it "
No there aren't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume there are a lot of closet cougars on here - women who would love to meet with a younger guy but are quite intimidated by going ahead with it
its not intimidating for me its knowing my limits and at my age with having kids so yes i have stretch marks and saggy bits im just going to look a twat,
to put it blunt, meeting some guy young
enough to be my kid or there abouts
Surely it depends on the individual? If you're mature then a guy of 18 could have the mentality of a 38 year old, whereas men in their twenties, thirties and forties could have the metality of a teenager. Surely then this idea of looking like a twat is irrelevant as anyone could share the same opinion, regardless of age.
The thought of it seems quite sad to me"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I assume there are a lot of closet cougars on here - women who would love to meet with a younger guy but are quite intimidated by going ahead with it
No there aren't "
Well there has already den someone saying their body is putting off meeting younger guys for looking like a twat. I've had people say similar things to me in messages aswell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be honest, I don't think people on here would hide their fantasies e.g. as you suggested, meeting younger men. Your friends/family don't have to know about it. This site is made for making your fantasies come true and talk about them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't actively look for suitable gents to meet, young or mature, they have a way of finding me even when I am not searchable.
I have never felt intimidated by the thought of meeting younger gents, as I am not one that is easily intimidated.
The youngest I have met and played with was 23.
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Blimey...I love younger men! I am pretty chubby and nearly fifty and I have met some very sexy young guys that absolutely love my body...I'm obviously not going to be everyone's cup of tea, for sure, but the whole experience has done wonders for my self esteem... and by young, I mean late twenties upwards... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blimey...I love younger men! I am pretty chubby and nearly fifty and I have met some very sexy young guys that absolutely love my body...I'm obviously not going to be everyone's cup of tea, for sure, but the whole experience has done wonders for my self esteem... and by young, I mean late twenties upwards..."
same here, obviously I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I've met some amazing younger men. My preference would be early 30s but the youngest I've had fun with was 24 - there was no need for any complaints whatsoever. Wonderful conversation and great fun in bed too! |
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"i just feel someone my own age or older isnt going to be perfect himself so less likely to look down his nose at mine inperfections
Guess it all comes down to how you feel about yourself, if im going to be honest i just dont feel im good enough to get naked next to a 21 year old and its as honest and simple as that"
I'm probably twice your size and I've never been with someone just because I don't feel good enough. Don't get me wrong, I'm under no delusion about my body and I've yet to meet anyone that would make me feel like you.
My oh is a marathon runner and is depressed because at 6ft he weighs 12st 6lbs and he's in his 50s. Not all older blokes have let themselves go...there are plenty of fit looking older men and soft bodied younger guys.
Most of your threads appear self loathing...sad and painful to read.
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"Please do, it will be less of a torment mentally as we dont fit into that bracket."
I have to say ...you guys have the best profile ive ever read on fab ( and we've been here a few yrs lol)had me chuckling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of us are quite mature for our age. I certainly am and a lot of people I've met have commented on it.
Plus we are mire energetic, sex is a young persons game lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of us are quite mature for our age. I certainly am and a lot of people I've met have commented on it.
Plus we are more energetic, sex is a young persons game lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume there are a lot of closet cougars on here - women who would love to meet with a younger guy but are quite intimidated by going ahead with it
No there aren't
Well there has already den someone saying their body is putting off meeting younger guys for looking like a twat. I've had people say similar things to me in messages aswell."
But she always says that and you will always get women saying that as their reason for not wanting to meet a younger male, I find it easier to set the message filters to stop them contacting me.
The point I was trying to make was with the regards to the comment on closet cougars. Cougars actively seek out younger males and don't seek their own age group. No-one that has commented is a closet cougar as its common knowledge they like the younger males |
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