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By *apsloc OP Man
over a year ago
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I’ve only been a fab member a couple of months and it’s so difficult to get a woman to even read the first message. What am I doing wrong. I’m tall handsome and have a fantastic sense of humour  it’s so easy for women, us blokes are tripping over each to get to meet you and I’m getting nowhere . It must be the social distancing because I’m such a good catch!!  |
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Let's ask you a question.
In what way do you stand out on here? Consider your profile text, gallery and introduction messages. What do you think are the points about you that you convey with those that would lead women to want to reply?
That's a serious question. You may be a great guy, but what do Fabbers see in you from what you share? |
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Here's another piece of advice you almost certainly won't take because I've only ever known one person who has.
Post an example message of yours to establish contact. Most of the messages we get are absolutely awful. You need to make sure your messages are worth replying to. We'll give you some feedback if you give us an example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been told before I’m handsome I like to think I’m fun to be around.. Oh and I’m a devil in the bedroom department!!  "
Aren't we all? Except me I've been told I'm not fun to be around |
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By *apsloc OP Man
over a year ago
Stockton on tees |
"Let's ask you a question.
In what way do you stand out on here?
I think that's where a lot go wrong...they try far too hard for this "
My point is most of times my first message isn’t even read . I don’t even get chance to charm the ladies  |
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By *apsloc OP Man
over a year ago
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"You need to have a cock pic as your profile pic then the ladies will be literally fighting over you  x"
I have a dick pic in my friends only photo’s . It’s my dick getting devoured by a lady friend I have. Personally I think it’s rude to send a pic of my pork sword unless I’m asked! |
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It takes time o/p for us single guys it could seem like forever lol. Just be patient and enjoy making new friends. Anything else is a bonus really. Join in with the forum posts and cam room chats. Be polite. Good luck! |
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I don't suppose you realalise their is a lock down for covid19 at the mo and no meets are happening at present. Not much point in reading messages all day long when you cannot meet at the mo. You have one picture that when clicked on is so small you cannot make anything out too so think you need to upload a few more. |
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By *apsloc OP Man
over a year ago
Stockton on tees |
"I don't suppose you realalise their is a lock down for covid19 at the mo and no meets are happening at present. Not much point in reading messages all day long when you cannot meet at the mo. You have one picture that when clicked on is so small you cannot make anything out too so think you need to upload a few more. "
I always send a clear face pic with a introductory message. I’m just not getting the message read in the first place. The ladies are not giving me chance to weave my web of charm ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't suppose you realalise their is a lock down for covid19 at the mo and no meets are happening at present. Not much point in reading messages all day long when you cannot meet at the mo. You have one picture that when clicked on is so small you cannot make anything out too so think you need to upload a few more.
I always send a clear face pic with a introductory message. I’m just not getting the message read in the first place. The ladies are not giving me chance to weave my web of charm ! "
too many single men on here women and couples can pick and choose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't suppose you realalise their is a lock down for covid19 at the mo and no meets are happening at present. Not much point in reading messages all day long when you cannot meet at the mo. You have one picture that when clicked on is so small you cannot make anything out too so think you need to upload a few more.
I always send a clear face pic with a introductory message. I’m just not getting the message read in the first place. The ladies are not giving me chance to weave my web of charm ! "
I have 197 unread messages, so it takes a while for ladies to read through, more so if you get caught up in a conversation thread with someone (or two....three....). Half the time I don't even see messages pop in if i'm chatting with someone. |
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By *apsloc OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't suppose you realalise their is a lock down for covid19 at the mo and no meets are happening at present. Not much point in reading messages all day long when you cannot meet at the mo. You have one picture that when clicked on is so small you cannot make anything out too so think you need to upload a few more.
I always send a clear face pic with a introductory message. I’m just not getting the message read in the first place. The ladies are not giving me chance to weave my web of charm !
I have 197 unread messages, so it takes a while for ladies to read through, more so if you get caught up in a conversation thread with someone (or two....three....). Half the time I don't even see messages pop in if i'm chatting with someone. "
Wow 197 unread messages!!! I think I’m wasting time on here .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't suppose you realalise their is a lock down for covid19 at the mo and no meets are happening at present. Not much point in reading messages all day long when you cannot meet at the mo. You have one picture that when clicked on is so small you cannot make anything out too so think you need to upload a few more.
I always send a clear face pic with a introductory message. I’m just not getting the message read in the first place. The ladies are not giving me chance to weave my web of charm ! "
....and I look at the profile first, so if it doesn't pique my interest, I won't read the message and i'll discreetly delete it a few weeks later when the sender has forgotten he's messaged me  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Most ladies will click on the profile first before opening the message.
If they don't like what they see and don't have their interest piqued, message will probably go unread and be deleted. Next. |
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By *apsloc OP Man
over a year ago
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"Most ladies will click on the profile first before opening the message.
If they don't like what they see and don't have their interest piqued, message will probably go unread and be deleted. Next."
I’ve checked on whose looked at me and it’s blank most days. It must be a combination of social distancing and to many single males on the site. |
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"I don't suppose you realalise their is a lock down for covid19 at the mo and no meets are happening at present. Not much point in reading messages all day long when you cannot meet at the mo. You have one picture that when clicked on is so small you cannot make anything out too so think you need to upload a few more.
I always send a clear face pic with a introductory message. I’m just not getting the message read in the first place. The ladies are not giving me chance to weave my web of charm !
I have 197 unread messages, so it takes a while for ladies to read through, more so if you get caught up in a conversation thread with someone (or two....three....). Half the time I don't even see messages pop in if i'm chatting with someone.
Wow 197 unread messages!!! I think I’m wasting time on here . "
No, you just need to stand out to someone looking at your profile. No point hiding your face with a pixilated image, show a photo of your clothed torso instead, or whatever - get creative! |
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"Most ladies will click on the profile first before opening the message.
If they don't like what they see and don't have their interest piqued, message will probably go unread and be deleted. Next.
I’ve checked on whose looked at me and it’s blank most days. It must be a combination of social distancing and to many single males on the site. "
Many messages are so short that we can see all of them without opening them. I don't know if that's you or not but it's a mistake many people make. If somebody write "Hi hru?" to us then it will get binned without opening it.
Many people (us included) switch off the function that tells people we've looked at their profile. Your list being blank definitely does not mean nobody has looked at you.
So what will people see about you that could get them interested in finding out more about you when they view your profile? Do you think you present yourself well in your photos and text? |
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