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Not wanting or needing sex.

By *adbod74 OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

I get this thought and feeling a lot, being a single parent the sex drive has all but gone, but I do miss just chilling in bed, having that closeness of holding a woman sad sad life or maybe I'm just too polite to inbox and say hey fancy a bit of fun

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

Yeah I crave intimacy lots. I’m going to change that soon though.

Good luck, you should reach out to people - who knows? Nothing to lose.

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By *adMerWoman over a year ago

Sandwich

"I get this thought and feeling a lot, being a single parent the sex drive has all but gone, but I do miss just chilling in bed, having that closeness of holding a woman sad sad life or maybe I'm just too polite to inbox and say hey fancy a bit of fun "

Awww chin up sure you will find it again eventually. There must be plenty of women looking for this. I prefer my men curled up on the floor at the foot of my bed exhausted, like a dog after a really long walk

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

There are lots of different levels of sex drive and what you want, sounds like you’re towards the asexual end.

Don’t feel bad about it, just know that it’s ok to be honest and try and find a match

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By *ouanna JoWoman over a year ago

A little village

It’s definitely not always about sex. Sometimes I just want the cuddle and closeness too. And having kids is definitely a libido killer at times. Sending good thoughts your way ...

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

More often than not i just want a fella to hold me tight, stroke my hair and rest his knob on my bum as he spoons me.

It’s not always about sex. In my case it’s all about getting some sleep

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By *ady23Woman over a year ago

Coventry

"More often than not i just want a fella to hold me tight, stroke my hair and rest his knob on my bum as he spoons me.

It’s not always about sex. In my case it’s all about getting some sleep

I agree. It's about total trust and quality time. Intimacy is not just about sex for sure

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

What's a sex drive? I think mine eloped with my sanity

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I wish it was more socially acceptable for people to seek out non-sexual intimacy. Its such a big need for so many yet many are severely lacking it in their lives

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By *adbod74 OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

Thanks everyone love n hugs all comong your ways

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Sometimes all you need is to snuggle up to someone.

Reach out OP you never know she may think the same

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

If that’s how you feel about someone OP, then tell them, what’s the worst that could happen?!?

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

"Thanks everyone love n hugs all comong your ways "

I love a cuddle the best thing in the world

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By *adbod74 OP Man over a year ago

Dudley

Nowt better than just a cuddle and films, anyways thanks to all who replied

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's quite normal to feel that your sex drive has gone if you aren't actively craving it, especially if having sex soon isn't on the horizon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The power of a hug is a wonderful thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I crave intimacy, feeling someone cuddle up to you, looking at you stroking your skin, talking about random shit or how your day was none of that has to lead to sex its just nice to feel close to someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think sex drive waxes and wanes. Sometimes it's all I can think about and crave it like anything. Other times its meh take or leave it, what's sex. It's just a part of who I am not the whole.

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