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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman so can I ask all you supposed “ straight men “ what’s the deal with looking at ts/tv profiles all day and messages I must get round 100 a day from straight men looking for fun but on profiles it says only looking for woman |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating "
But there’s a difference bwee looking once and looking 4-5 times a day 7 days a week and multiple messages |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"I look at different profiles....I find it fascinating
But there’s a difference bwee looking once and looking 4-5 times a day 7 days a week and multiple messages
Means they are interested then  "
Sometimes to themselves as well. Denial is more than a river... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe you were on their "looked at me list"."
That is completely impossible as my when I look a filter my search to men who are looking for ts/tv and tick the bi/ guy button at the bottom so there is no way I could possibly look at they profile if they set to stright and only looking for woman |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You get 100 messages per day? I'm jealous."
Around about that yes give or take 10 a day and I wish it was something to be jealous off but sadly 90% off them are all from stright guys looking for woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get 100 messages per day? I'm jealous.
Around about that yes give or take 10 a day and I wish it was something to be jealous off but sadly 90% off them are all from stright guys looking for woman "
Must be my filters. Oh well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of men say straight and openly want to meet me, alone for sex, found it odd at first, then realised how many single women say no to a bi man. Just keeping themselves in the game I suppose.  |
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"Lots of men say straight and openly want to meet me, alone for sex, found it odd at first, then realised how many single women say no to a bi man. Just keeping themselves in the game I suppose. "
This,I get more messages from straight men than any other gender combo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll do it - doesn’t make me gay/bi?
I see an attractive man, I’ll click and be like ‘damn, he’s a good looking man’ then leave - there’s nothing to it....
Plus there’s a few TS on here that are very very attractive...
Because I pick up a toy, doesn’t mean I’m going to play with it |
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"can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman so can I ask all you supposed “ straight men “ what’s the deal with looking at ts/tv profiles all day and messages I must get round 100 a day from straight men looking for fun but on profiles it says only looking for woman "
Alot will say that they are straight as they don't fancy men or tvs and don't want a relationship with one. So yeah they are 100 per cent straight but just love sucking cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman... "
It's simple, the woman here are in short supply and often hard to get, so guys look for the next best thing - a guy that looks like a lady and enjoys taking it in the ass. Simples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab straight until they are comfortable in their own skin the maybe bi but it’s their adventure not ours so we say enjoy but your lack of honesty is not for us.
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I never question those that look, it’s nice to know that in some way I’ve interested them enough to glance at me or on occasion ‘fab’ a picture or two. But unless it’s followed up with a wink or a message I’ll leave it.
Yes I get messages everyday off straight guys but due to Covid or not the best time for me to dress (got my kids over, working or just being lazy) the majority of the time it comes to nothing.
That’s Fab for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stacey Dooley covered some of this in her programme Sex In Strange Places.
In Turkey a lot of self described 'straight, family men' sleep with transexual prostitutes. Some of the reasons are because they are cheaper - not allowed to work in the state run brothels, better at satisfying a man than the women, they are not cheating on their wives because they are not sleeping with a woman, or they are actually gay.
It's well worth a watch if it's on iPlayer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My question too. I'm getting the same people looking everyday with nothing new to see on my profile. I need them all to shoot their shot, I'm nice I promise |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business."
Couldn't agree more (I was having a dig at myself btw) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business."
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig |
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business."
Exactly this which is why I always reply telling Male and TV/TS profiles which send me a message that I am straight and not interested in them that way personally but hope they find what they are looking for. |
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"can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman so can I ask all you supposed “ straight men “ what’s the deal with looking at ts/tv profiles all day and messages I must get round 100 a day from straight men looking for fun but on profiles it says only looking for woman "
I looked at a Reliant Robin once. I dont want one though.
Sometimes people are just following a veri trail. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They're not straight but like to think they are.
It's hot though "
It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x |
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"They're not straight but like to think they are.
It's hot though
It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x"
It is a good reason to be concerned as it has happened to me, luckily it didn’t get too violent but the amount of abuse I got and threat has made sure I now only meet guys with verifications and generally in a public place like a club.
It wasn’t on this site by the way, but believe me if you’ve been in the position, you won’t go back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With no disrespect to the OP maybe it’s out of blatant curiosity that they look, I’ve no interest in TV/TS on here or anywhere else but looking to see how feminine you are may be the only reason to look, there’s some TV/TS that you’d have to take a second look to know they were once men and there’s others that look like Steve from the bowling club who’s put on his wife’s flowery dress.
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business.
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig "
Why would you assume things would turn nasty?
I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.
I think your looking too deeply into this.
If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You get 100 messages per day? I'm jealous.
Around about that yes give or take 10 a day and I wish it was something to be jealous off but sadly 90% off them are all from stright guys looking for woman "
I don't get many views or messages so it's diffiy to see from your perspective....but if you go on a website designed to help people look at each other......?
Maybe you'll be the one to persuade them.....try and see it as a compliment rather than something to moan about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With no disrespect to the OP maybe it’s out of blatant curiosity that they look, I’ve no interest in TV/TS on here or anywhere else but looking to see how feminine you are may be the only reason to look, there’s some TV/TS that you’d have to take a second look to know they were once men and there’s others that look like Steve from the bowling club who’s put on his wife’s flowery dress.
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Hit hit escots if you don’t believe me just go look at aw you find 100s off profiles that are on fab escoting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business.
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig
Why would you assume things would turn nasty?
I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.
I think your looking too deeply into this.
If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.
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"Straight" men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a trans woman or TV is super common, men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a man happens -- internalised homophobia has a lot to answer for. Someone who appears keen but doesn't acknowledge his attraction to TS/TG is entirely an unknown quantity in this respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business.
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig
Why would you assume things would turn nasty?
I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.
I think your looking too deeply into this.
If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.
"Straight" men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a trans woman or TV is super common, men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a man happens -- internalised homophobia has a lot to answer for. Someone who appears keen but doesn't acknowledge his attraction to TS/TG is entirely an unknown quantity in this respect."
Yes it is and 1000% I glad someone understands the fears x |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business.
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig
Why would you assume things would turn nasty?
I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.
I think your looking too deeply into this.
If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.
"Straight" men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a trans woman or TV is super common, men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a man happens -- internalised homophobia has a lot to answer for. Someone who appears keen but doesn't acknowledge his attraction to TS/TG is entirely an unknown quantity in this respect."
That is awful. And understandably worrying.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm straight but often look at an attractive woman's profile. I can appreciate beauty even if I'm not sexually attracted to it.
Sometimes it's the quality of the photo, sometimes I'm just being nosey
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business.
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig
Why would you assume things would turn nasty?
I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.
I think your looking too deeply into this.
If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.
"Straight" men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a trans woman or TV is super common, men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a man happens -- internalised homophobia has a lot to answer for. Someone who appears keen but doesn't acknowledge his attraction to TS/TG is entirely an unknown quantity in this respect.
That is awful. And understandably worrying.
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And this is why I am asking the this exact question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're not straight but like to think they are.
It's hot though
It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x"
They know perfectly who you are. But always stay safe xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They're not straight but like to think they are.
It's hot though
It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x
They know perfectly who you are. But always stay safe xx"
Thanks and I will x |
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business.
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig
Why would you assume things would turn nasty?
I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.
I think your looking too deeply into this.
If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.
"Straight" men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a trans woman or TV is super common, men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a man happens -- internalised homophobia has a lot to answer for. Someone who appears keen but doesn't acknowledge his attraction to TS/TG is entirely an unknown quantity in this respect."
When you say "super common" I'd have to know what you mean by that.
TV/TS make up a tiny percentage of the population, so any sexual encounter they have, isn't common.
And of these encounters between TV/TS and men, what kind of percentage of these encounters becomes violent. Super common by my interpretation, would be what say 50% of these or more, and I don't honestly believe that's the case. If it was anywhere near that high I doubt any TS would ever agree to meet.
Im sure these things do happen, but they are not super common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People csn still be interested to find out about somebody even if they are not sexually attracted to them can't they?
There's a diffence between looking at your profile and coming on to you. "
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"Does it matter?
They like what they see. That’s all that matters.
Peoples sexuality is their own business.
It matters when things could turn nasty when reality sets in that I am just a guy in a dress with a bit off makeup on and a wig
Why would you assume things would turn nasty?
I'd imagine they would lose interest and maybe send a mean message, but we all get those.
I think your looking too deeply into this.
If you genuinely fear for your safety on here then perhaps fab isn't the best place.
"Straight" men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a trans woman or TV is super common, men getting violent after having a sexual encounter with a man happens -- internalised homophobia has a lot to answer for. Someone who appears keen but doesn't acknowledge his attraction to TS/TG is entirely an unknown quantity in this respect.
That is awful. And understandably worrying.
And this is why I am asking the this exact question "
It's quite a leap between looking at some pictures and having a post sexual encounter violent episode. Not suggesting it doesn't happen, but unless you agree to meet one of the fab straight guys who have been looking at your profile... So can keep away from straight profiles if you choose to. Not sure we really need to judge people for looking at a publicly visible profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They see the pictures and pounce. They don't really engage with the profile, so they forget till the next time, and do the same thing again. The loop doesn't close. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you say "super common" I'd have to know what you mean by that.
TV/TS make up a tiny percentage of the population, so any sexual encounter they have, isn't common.
And of these encounters between TV/TS and men, what kind of percentage of these encounters becomes violent. Super common by my interpretation, would be what say 50% of these or more, and I don't honestly believe that's the case. If it was anywhere near that high I doubt any TS would ever agree to meet.
Im sure these things do happen, but they are not super common. "
You're right! Let's move on from your dismissive "why would you assume things would turn nasty" and my overcorrecting "super common" into agreeing this is a potentiality the OP has to consider, and therefore a valid concern for them, though obviously not a concern for you or me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can someone help me understand what’s with straight men looking at tv/ts profiles and when you look at there they got they profile set to straight and only looking for woman so can I ask all you supposed “ straight men “ what’s the deal with looking at ts/tv profiles all day and messages I must get round 100 a day from straight men looking for fun but on profiles it says only looking for woman "
I was chatting to a guy who insisted he was straight as he only meets TVs on Fab "as they're easy and only want to please the man, when they're dressed up I consider them women". A selfish lover to avoid i think, whatever your preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think someones fishing for likes on their photos a little here. Go on then lets have a look"
Wasn’t fishing for likes it was a legitimate question that’s all infact I would prefer to stay off the hot page to be honest with you as it just brings more unwanted attention to my profile |
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"They're not straight but like to think they are.
It's hot though
It could be maybe I just sacred in case they turn viloint when reality sets in that I am guys a man in dress with makeup and a wig on x
It is a good reason to be concerned as it has happened to me, luckily it didn’t get too violent but the amount of abuse I got and threat has made sure I now only meet guys with verifications and generally in a public place like a club.
It wasn’t on this site by the way, but believe me if you’ve been in the position, you won’t go back. "
Im sorry that you had to go through that, must have been very scary |
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