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I’m not mad bdsm , but spreader bars defo appeal..discuss pros and cons

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By *cottt27 OP Man over a year ago

Bothwell

Love the idea of the vulnerability and acces

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

If you're both up for it I can't see many cons.

The only con we found was bringing it home on a crowded train after we bought ours.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

They fit in a snooker cue bag, just saying

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"They fit in a snooker cue bag, just saying

Didn't have one handy at the time

. The nice man in the shop wrapped it in bin liners for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are great with a little imagination, rope and obviously, control.

Make them. At least then you can choose the length

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They fit in a snooker cue bag, just saying

Didn't have one handy at the time

. The nice man in the shop wrapped it in bin liners for us"

Haha

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By *cottt27 OP Man over a year ago

Bothwell

Haha snooker cue case is genius

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can make your own out of a wooden broom handle and a couple of screw in hooks. Total cost from Wilko under a fiver iirc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It have done the same as above before now, I have a friend that grows his own bamboo and I harvest that these days, gives it a more ‘Japanese’ feel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love them and have made 2 myself. One is out of a sweeping brush that twists to extend. Its so exciting when a Dom uses one on me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha ha we had some 2inch chrome clothes rail things ,I went to wrk on those she loves them ! Nice n weighty with a nice sound when the ankle cuffs ching on them

I did say if I hang a few I could do some tubular bells malarkey lol

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Would love to try a spreader bar

Mrs Blasphemy

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"You can make your own out of a wooden broom handle and a couple of screw in hooks. Total cost from Wilko under a fiver iirc"

What do you pilot around the ankles to attach the wood to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can make your own out of a wooden broom handle and a couple of screw in hooks. Total cost from Wilko under a fiver iirc

What do you pilot around the ankles to attach the wood to? "

Have a look at screw in hooks and eyes on screwfix

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can make your own out of a wooden broom handle and a couple of screw in hooks. Total cost from Wilko under a fiver iirc

What do you pilot around the ankles to attach the wood to? "

Leather ankle cuffs of your choice. I use snap hooks to clip them to the bars. All can be gotten for cheap on eBay

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By *hilliandspiceMan over a year ago

Wimborne

"They fit in a snooker cue bag, just saying

And also then very handy for crop/cane etc

Totally innocuous walking into a hotel with.

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS over a year ago

Cliss

I have enjoyed being tied in spreader bars but my new favourite is the anal hook, although I’m tempted by the CellMate chastity device with app release.

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By *abasaurus RexMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Love the idea of the vulnerability and acces"

I’ve got one. A con I hadn’t thought about is the logistics of the bar being in the way whilst attempting to fornicate.

Absolutely brilliant bit of kit for tied up teasing though, and with a little forethought you can overcome many of the fornication issues.

I would say though, spend some money. I bought a cheap-ish one and whilst it’s sturdy, I wish I’d spent more on a higher quality item.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How posh ......

I had a bloke message me a few weeks ago in which he recalled me trying to tie him to a broom pole. In your room in the roof he said....

Scaredy cat.......

It was a new broom pole ffs....... nice curtain cords.

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