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over a year ago
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Ex-girlfriend got dropped off by friends at my house after she'd had a night out.
I was all ready to go to bed when the doorbell went. She came in. Was d*unk. And wanted sex.
It just really pissed me off - I really like my own space. Eventually we went to bed in different bedrooms and she tried to leave the next morning without waking me but set the burglar alarm off. |
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I usually turn it down simply because I don’t fancy getting jiggy with that person at that time!
One guy was definitely ‘getting it’ until he started talking about his BNP membership.
Ignorance, racism, homophobia - a few of the things that are a major no no for most of us I imagine. X |
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"I usually turn it down simply because I don’t fancy getting jiggy with that person at that time!
One guy was definitely ‘getting it’ until he started talking about his BNP membership.
Ignorance, racism, homophobia - a few of the things that are a major no no for most of us I imagine. X"
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I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
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over a year ago
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
"
Wow, how vile is your story. You can't be calling someone a slag for sleeping with another adult who both are on a swingers site. You're also on here arranging to meet people so does that make you one too? Don't be so judgmental and maybe tone down the jealousy |
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"Because I feel it was not right for them. Either for emotional or health reasons. Sometimes they are looking for the wrong thing in the wrong place x"
I think that quite a lot on here to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
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This! |
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"Because I feel it was not right for them. Either for emotional or health reasons. Sometimes they are looking for the wrong thing in the wrong place x
I think that quite a lot on here to be honest "
Sometimes a chat and a cup of tea better for them than any play. You soon pick up on this if you are prepared to listen xx |
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over a year ago
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Old colleage who used to flirt. I was a bit more taken than him. He was d*unk after a night out and came into our bar for closing time. We lived close so we shared a taxi home and I took him inside to make sure he got in ok. He asked me to stop and watch a film and tried it on with me and it was the hardest no I've ever given! Knowing I wanted to but actually he'd probably either regret it or not see it as a big deal when I would absolutely have wanted more. |
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99% of times for most people fall into these six reasons :-
Attached at the time
Not attracted to them
They were d*unk
They were on the rebound
They wanted a revenge shag
Not worth the drama
...or a mixture of some or all of the above if the proposition was made after 2am at the afters of a wedding  |
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Ever my now and again when I’m DJing, there’s a young lad who looks about 15 and weasel-like who comes up to me with his hands down his jogging bottoms and asks if he’s going to get to see those titties tonight. He just stares at my chest like it’s an endless valley of treasure when he talks. |
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"Ever my now and again when I’m DJing, there’s a young lad who looks about 15 and weasel-like who comes up to me with his hands down his jogging bottoms and asks if he’s going to get to see those titties tonight. He just stares at my chest like it’s an endless valley of treasure when he talks. "
Sorry about that , but your a great DJ! |
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"Ever my now and again when I’m DJing, there’s a young lad who looks about 15 and weasel-like who comes up to me with his hands down his jogging bottoms and asks if he’s going to get to see those titties tonight. He just stares at my chest like it’s an endless valley of treasure when he talks. "
Smooth operator !
A weasel never gives up, bless his little trainers. |
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"Because I feel it was not right for them. Either for emotional or health reasons. Sometimes they are looking for the wrong thing in the wrong place x"
A lot of people treat fab like a dating site, get too involved and then cannot detach .... always ends up in tears .. |
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Because I’d been friends with the lady for 20 years and I knew our friendship could recover from me disappointing her but having sex would have been terminal for said friendship. She was tipsy and grieving and God I wanted her but after a couple of awkward chats we are back on track. We even joke about it now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally its because I've found its too last minute to make it stress free. Either they didn't want me staying overnight even though it was an hours drive each way for what might turn out to be only 30 minutes of fun, or there was too much rushed planning making it impossible to get ready properly.
I don't like turning up not being able to shower or still dressed from work. Even though some women like the scruffy tradesman like scenario of the guy 'come to fix the plumbing'
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
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you need to have a word with yourself |
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
"
Why is she a slag? |
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
Why is she a slag?"
Because we're the sweeney son, and we haven't had any breakfast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually turn it down simply because I don’t fancy getting jiggy with that person at that time!
One guy was definitely ‘getting it’ until he started talking about his BNP membership.
Ignorance, racism, homophobia - a few of the things that are a major no no for most of us I imagine. X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She was a Tory 
Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views  I found it quite amusing .
I'll shag ANYONE.... "
Get your fine arse to Kent then ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She was a Tory
Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .
I'll shag ANYONE....
Get your fine arse to Kent then ! "
You always say that but then never follow through..... 
(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind..... ) |
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"She was a Tory
Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .
I'll shag ANYONE....
Get your fine arse to Kent then !
You always say that but then never follow through.....
(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)"
I don’t think we’d be discussing politics |
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"She was a Tory
Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .
I'll shag ANYONE....
Get your fine arse to Kent then !
You always say that but then never follow through.....
(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)
I don’t think we’d be discussing politics "
i take it this is L answering lol |
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"She was a Tory
Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .
I'll shag ANYONE....
Get your fine arse to Kent then !
You always say that but then never follow through.....
(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)
I don’t think we’d be discussing politics i take it this is L answering lol"
I'd have them both! |
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"I once cancelled a date as I was semi addicted to Last of Us.. It was very good"
Opening night of celebrity get me out of it!!! Husband reminded me later that we could have just watched it on catch up...... (you’d think seen as he hates it anyway he’d have reminded me before it started!) |
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"She was a Tory
Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .
I'll shag ANYONE....
Get your fine arse to Kent then !
You always say that but then never follow through.....
(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)
I don’t think we’d be discussing politics i take it this is L answering lol"
What makes you say that ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She was a Tory
Lol I had a person cancel a meet as I wouldn’t tell them my political or religious views I found it quite amusing .
I'll shag ANYONE....
Get your fine arse to Kent then !
You always say that but then never follow through.....
(don't ask me for my political position on anything though unless it comes up in natural discussion - I actually find that tribal shit quite rude and narrow minded and I like to be surrounded by difference myself because I see that as a way to grow my tiny mind.....)
I don’t think we’d be discussing politics i take it this is L answering lol
I'd have them both! "
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"She was d*unk and, even though she was adamant she wanted to play, I felt she wasn't really fit to give consent."
Bravo for you that situation can really lead to a lot of trouble. I saw that happen between two colleagues a few years ago. Needless to say it didn’t end well |
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"She was d*unk and, even though she was adamant she wanted to play, I felt she wasn't really fit to give consent.
Bravo for you that situation can really lead to a lot of trouble. I saw that happen between two colleagues a few years ago. Needless to say it didn’t end well "
What she said^
There's always tomorrow when you're both sober |
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I was invited to a couples house for an evening of adult fun and games.
I arrived at the Abode and knocked on the door to find a chap in a pair of tracky bottoms and aged football shirt standing before me. On entry my fears were realised that this house had not been cleaned in a long time. The lady took my two bottles of wine to the kitchen. I realised that my loins would not be stirred in the slightest so like a good news of the world reporter I made an excuse and left.
I suppose the two seater chesterfield sofa in the garden should have been fair warning but I managed to escape unscathed but minus two bottles of a rather nice Chilean Merlot. |
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At a social when an older guy came up to me. He's known for setting up clubs & services in the past so whether he thought this gave him a free pass I've no idea.
He came and sat next to me and said
"don't leave because I'm fucking you tonight". Wasn't even said in a jokey chat up way.
Arrogance at its highest - cheeky shite and no he didn't! !
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"I was invited to a couples house for an evening of adult fun and games.
I arrived at the Abode and knocked on the door to find a chap in a pair of tracky bottoms and aged football shirt standing before me. On entry my fears were realised that this house had not been cleaned in a long time. The lady took my two bottles of wine to the kitchen. I realised that my loins would not be stirred in the slightest so like a good news of the world reporter I made an excuse and left.
I suppose the two seater chesterfield sofa in the garden should have been fair warning but I managed to escape unscathed but minus two bottles of a rather nice Chilean Merlot."
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
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Wow. I think he made the correct decision to see "the slag".
Your jealousy is extremely high. And I'm sure "the slag" is on this site doing exactly what you are. Does this make you a SLAG |
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I rarely turn it down but have done in the past because of
1. Didn't find them attractive
2. They were too d*unk
3. Unpleasant smell downstairs (it does happen even in this day an age) oh the good old finger test lol.
4. I'd had sex too many times already that day |
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"I rarely turn it down but have done in the past because of
1. Didn't find them attractive
2. They were too d*unk
3. Unpleasant smell downstairs (it does happen even in this day an age) oh the good old finger test lol.
4. I'd had sex too many times already that day "
I am intrigued by reason 3.
How does one extricate oneself on completion of the “finger test”
Is that not past the point of no return? |
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"I rarely turn it down but have done in the past because of
1. Didn't find them attractive
2. They were too d*unk
3. Unpleasant smell downstairs (it does happen even in this day an age) oh the good old finger test lol.
4. I'd had sex too many times already that day
I am intrigued by reason 3.
How does one extricate oneself on completion of the “finger test”
Is that not past the point of no return?"
Its easier than you think. I personally find smells to either be a turn on or turn off. And a smelly vag is enough for me to say not today love.
Hygiene ia important and i really don't fancy putting my penis in something that its owner hasn't looked after.
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Not really no
I havent got over 200 veris on my account like she has
Plus he was all too cocky for himself anyway afterwards the way he was talking to me later making out as tho he was gods gift
She just looks a right one |
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"Not really no
I havent got over 200 veris on my account like she has
Plus he was all too cocky for himself anyway afterwards the way he was talking to me later making out as tho he was gods gift
She just looks a right one "
Charming |
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over a year ago
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Because it was my sons mother asking me to sleep with her whilst her daughter was in the bed.total disrespect and I feel to fat shame her as she has no pity for herself making calls to numerous men whilst her wayward partner has no idea what she is upto |
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An ex girlfriend quite a few years ago, we got together to discuss dividing our stuff we bought together. Offered to cook me dinner I turned up to see she was dressed in a way that she knew turned me on.
It was awkward as I was starting to feel randy, but we had previously so many issues I was trying to keep my mind on why I wanted to leave her. But I was struggling.
Eventually I had to leave early and get out of there, it was too much and she was really obviously playing with me.
She didn’t come straight out with going upstairs but I knew from previously in our relationship, what she was insinuating.
So happy now that I didn’t as afterwards she was a right bitch. |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
Living by the motto of “do no harm”
And the 3 conversations I was having when there was only 2 of us there, set off alarm bells. Politely made my excuses and left, feeling incredibly sorry for the person :’( |
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"Because it was my sons mother asking me to sleep with her whilst her daughter was in the bed.total disrespect and I feel to fat shame her as she has no pity for herself making calls to numerous men whilst her wayward partner has no idea what she is upto"
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"I was planning to meet someone which we had arranged
But then he let me down cos he suppodifly double booked his plans and was shaggin someone else booked into a hotel who is on here
Gloated it all on here who he was fucking with piccys with 'HER THE SLAG' name all on his piccys ,
Then msgd me after he had fucked her thst afternoon
Then asking me to meet him the next weekend instead
Cheeky 2faced sly bastard he was
Then tryin to apologise to me said he just wanted to see me from then on
Needles to say i called him fit to burn
Made him feel a shit
So thanks to that certain slag
We are no longer freinds
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why is she a slag?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple wanted me to meet them in a carpark and jump in the back of their van for sex. Have to say that triggered a few red flags as they weren't verified. |
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