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over a year ago
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It’s their choice what they do with messages once it hit their in box! Some women will state that they are getting through messages! It’s just the way it goes I suppose! |
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Coz I can't be arsed to read them half the time. I even state in my profile I rarely read them.
The forum threads to me are like a group social.
Messages in my inbox are a 1 on 1. I'll have a 1 on 1 convo when I feel like it, not just because there are messages sat there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say it's because of the sheer number of low quality messages and the fact that some think your attractive and therefore will engage in conversation and others are either not interested but dont want to appear rude or simply are on the fence, with options they prefer. Just imagine having an inbox spammed constantly by guys leaving 3-4 messages unanswered and just having to many messages to deal with, it would be pretty daunting never mind tedious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because some ladies got hundreds more messages a day than others. Who the fuck has a spare 6 hours a day to answer them all?? Fab is meant to be fun not constant admin."
Exactly that!!
Plus some of us have full time jobs and a life away from the site! Imagine getting 100s and 100s of mails per day - you’d feel the same, OP!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because some work and some do not. Some have kids and some do not. Some spend all day on fab but others lead busy lives."
This.
And also some guys have no chat and I don’t want to talk to them. |
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It’s rare I get a message, it’s very blissful now the days of hundreds of mindless nonsense hitting the inbox has stopped.
As for why some can just easily flow and others don’t, that’s really simple it’s called a connection. Works both ways, it’s got to be natural and easy flowing dialogue not forced, couple of word fakeness.... it’s like pulling teeth why would you bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say it's because of the sheer number of low quality messages and the fact that some think your attractive and therefore will engage in conversation and others are either not interested but dont want to appear rude or simply are on the fence, with options they prefer. Just imagine having an inbox spammed constantly by guys leaving 3-4 messages unanswered and just having to many messages to deal with, it would be pretty daunting never mind tedious. "
Hmm...
I rarely fancy men on here for no reason other than it’s not what I seek... but I fancy you.
Just thought I’d tell you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say it's because of the sheer number of low quality messages and the fact that some think your attractive and therefore will engage in conversation and others are either not interested but dont want to appear rude or simply are on the fence, with options they prefer. Just imagine having an inbox spammed constantly by guys leaving 3-4 messages unanswered and just having to many messages to deal with, it would be pretty daunting never mind tedious.
Hmm...
I rarely fancy men on here for no reason other than it’s not what I seek... but I fancy you.
Just thought I’d tell you."
Well I've got to say the feelings mutual... just thought I'd let you know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some just find it's not the most important part of their existence OP
Don't stress yourself trying to work out the mind of a woman, its pointless!
We are not all the same as each other anyway
Jo"
Who’s stressing ?
I’m asking a question
That’s kinda how forums work isn’t it ? |
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Everyone is different here - their motivations, interests, lifestyles. Each of these change over time too.
During the pandemic things are particularly different. Obeying the law is 1 thing, though people also have responsibilities and women disproportionately to men are engaged in more care work, often with vulnerable people. Studies have shown that men are greater risk takers and research during the pandemic have highlighted younger men to be engaging, or wanting to engage, in behaviours that are more potentially dangerous than women at the moment.
The motivations behind the messages from men are more often than not different from those that women have here. People learn from their experiences, so there's a deterrent effect when messages are truly unfit for purpose, to a high degree. |
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"I'd say it's because of the sheer number of low quality messages and the fact that some think your attractive and therefore will engage in conversation and others are either not interested but dont want to appear rude or simply are on the fence, with options they prefer. Just imagine having an inbox spammed constantly by guys leaving 3-4 messages unanswered and just having to many messages to deal with, it would be pretty daunting never mind tedious.
Hmm...
I rarely fancy men on here for no reason other than it’s not what I seek... but I fancy you.
Just thought I’d tell you.
Well I've got to say the feelings mutual... just thought I'd let you know "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say it's because of the sheer number of low quality messages and the fact that some think your attractive and therefore will engage in conversation and others are either not interested but dont want to appear rude or simply are on the fence, with options they prefer. Just imagine having an inbox spammed constantly by guys leaving 3-4 messages unanswered and just having to many messages to deal with, it would be pretty daunting never mind tedious.
Hmm...
I rarely fancy men on here for no reason other than it’s not what I seek... but I fancy you.
Just thought I’d tell you.
Well I've got to say the feelings mutual... just thought I'd let you know "
Unfortunately I cant message you though I'm a little younger than your preference  |
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