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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Done.
My wee brother has autism (he’s nineteen months younger than me). I can remember him being young very well"
thanks queenie had a melt down over not wanting to eat his dinner last night started hitting me over and over again hit me in the bits 3 times and the face at least 8 times I've got scratches on my arms and 1 on my cheek so hard not to lose temper and keep calm when it's like that and all the whole the other children start playing up making it 10 times worse  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chin up fella, remember after bad times come good times and just be patient, do some exercise today if you can and you'll feel better i guarantee it! X"
exercise dont you gym fit bods swear at me lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chin up fella, remember after bad times come good times and just be patient, do some exercise today if you can and you'll feel better i guarantee it! X exercise dont you gym fit bods swear at me lol"
Seriously mate, even if its just a walk, it releases the right hormones to make you feel great! Just trust me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Chin up fella, remember after bad times come good times and just be patient, do some exercise today if you can and you'll feel better i guarantee it! X exercise dont you gym fit bods swear at me lol
Seriously mate, even if its just a walk, it releases the right hormones to make you feel great! Just trust me x"
I'll be exercising with that got 3 ton of materials to move |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve sent you a message 
This will also release feel good hormones
You’ve not seen the message  "
Maybe seeing your name in his inbox will do the job. Im just assuming as im out your age range and would never know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chin up fella, remember after bad times come good times and just be patient, do some exercise today if you can and you'll feel better i guarantee it! X exercise dont you gym fit bods swear at me lol
Seriously mate, even if its just a walk, it releases the right hormones to make you feel great! Just trust me x I'll be exercising with that got 3 ton of materials to move"
Perfect pal! If you need anything, ask pal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done.
My wee brother has autism (he’s nineteen months younger than me). I can remember him being young very well thanks queenie had a melt down over not wanting to eat his dinner last night started hitting me over and over again hit me in the bits 3 times and the face at least 8 times I've got scratches on my arms and 1 on my cheek so hard not to lose temper and keep calm when it's like that and all the whole the other children start playing up making it 10 times worse "
Jeez hugs wookie x
Hope it's a better day, today |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Chin up fella, remember after bad times come good times and just be patient, do some exercise today if you can and you'll feel better i guarantee it! X exercise dont you gym fit bods swear at me lol
Seriously mate, even if its just a walk, it releases the right hormones to make you feel great! Just trust me x I'll be exercising with that got 3 ton of materials to move
Perfect pal! If you need anything, ask pal"
cheers falla  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wookiedad if I smiled I’d cause people psychological damage, so instead I’ll just say respect to you brother, not had the opportunity yet myself but being a Dad must be the hardest job in the business and I have nothing but respect for you to be able to deal with your situation the way you do and give your kid all the love and support they need. Keep the chin up brother, as long as you have friends here you’ll never walk alone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Done.
My wee brother has autism (he’s nineteen months younger than me). I can remember him being young very well thanks queenie had a melt down over not wanting to eat his dinner last night started hitting me over and over again hit me in the bits 3 times and the face at least 8 times I've got scratches on my arms and 1 on my cheek so hard not to lose temper and keep calm when it's like that and all the whole the other children start playing up making it 10 times worse
Jeez hugs wookie x
Hope it's a better day, today "
thank you xxx |
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No, we can't be having a sad W.D!
Come in here for a big cwtch! I'll be the big spoon this time!
You're doing amazing. It might not feel like it, but simply being there, being "dad the rock" is enough.
Sending lovely, caring, cuddly love your way xxx |
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"Chin up fella, remember after bad times come good times and just be patient, do some exercise today if you can and you'll feel better i guarantee it! X exercise dont you gym fit bods swear at me lol"
You can always have sexercize put smile on faces XX  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Chin up fella, remember after bad times come good times and just be patient, do some exercise today if you can and you'll feel better i guarantee it! X exercise dont you gym fit bods swear at me lol
You can always have sexercize put smile on faces XX "
no one here to help me with that sadly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done.
My wee brother has autism (he’s nineteen months younger than me). I can remember him being young very well thanks queenie had a melt down over not wanting to eat his dinner last night started hitting me over and over again hit me in the bits 3 times and the face at least 8 times I've got scratches on my arms and 1 on my cheek so hard not to lose temper and keep calm when it's like that and all the whole the other children start playing up making it 10 times worse "
Sending big hugs and smiles. This is something nobody can understand unless they live this life. I do live this life but absolutely cannot imagine dealing with it with 4 other children and no partner in your life too. I’ve really really struggled these past few months and I only have 2 children and their dad is always around. you’re a fuckin hero WD and I mean that. Keep strong and you know where I am if you need someone that gets it  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Done.
My wee brother has autism (he’s nineteen months younger than me). I can remember him being young very well thanks queenie had a melt down over not wanting to eat his dinner last night started hitting me over and over again hit me in the bits 3 times and the face at least 8 times I've got scratches on my arms and 1 on my cheek so hard not to lose temper and keep calm when it's like that and all the whole the other children start playing up making it 10 times worse
Sending big hugs and smiles. This is something nobody can understand unless they live this life. I do live this life but absolutely cannot imagine dealing with it with 4 other children and no partner in your life too. I’ve really really struggled these past few months and I only have 2 children and their dad is always around. you’re a fuckin hero WD and I mean that. Keep strong and you know where I am if you need someone that gets it xxx"
thanks Nora and I'm so so pleased to see you back on fab that alone has brightened my day right up xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Mate it comes to us all and sometimes it’s needed. It’s not normal to be constantly happy.
Believe me because I’m not normal.  "
your a good guy fiddles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that mate, chin up, Hopefully today will be better a better day for you,  "
cheers bud all your messages on here are making me feel much better your a sound group at least most of you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welsh cwtches have been sent your way, when they get to you just let them wrap around you, you will instantly relax and snuggle in to them...enjoy WD
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Welsh cwtches have been sent your way, when they get to you just let them wrap around you, you will instantly relax and snuggle in to them...enjoy WD
Her x"
thanks sweet xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WD, I feel your pain. It’s hard work being a single parent, add autism into the mix and it’s harder. Hope he’s settled today, just remember he’s had his meltdown and let it out because he knows he’s loved whatever he does.
Sending you a big ((((hug)))) x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I feel you WD I have a 16yr old son who's autistic. Its hard but you're doing great!
Big huggles to my favorite man bear "
thank you and I love your new profile picture xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"WD, I feel your pain. It’s hard work being a single parent, add autism into the mix and it’s harder. Hope he’s settled today, just remember he’s had his meltdown and let it out because he knows he’s loved whatever he does.
Sending you a big ((((hug)))) x "
thanks sweet xxx |
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I’m feeling your frustrations, my son is Autistic too he’s now 22, still have difficult times especially on a haircut day (yesterday) but good times far out way the bad and his cuddles are just the best!
Smile through the tears and delight in the laughs and hugs, I do! Sending you a big hug! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m feeling your frustrations, my son is Autistic too he’s now 22, still have difficult times especially on a haircut day (yesterday) but good times far out way the bad and his cuddles are just the best!
Smile through the tears and delight in the laughs and hugs, I do! Sending you a big hug! Xx"
thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hugs I know how hard it is as a parent with a autistic/ADHD child it is very hard work but I wouldn't change him for the world. I hope he is more settled today my inbox is open if you ever need to talk xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hugs I know how hard it is as a parent with a autistic/ADHD child it is very hard work but I wouldn't change him for the world. I hope he is more settled today my inbox is open if you ever need to talk xx"
thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hugs I know how hard it is as a parent with a autistic/ADHD child it is very hard work but I wouldn't change him for the world. I hope he is more settled today my inbox is open if you ever need to talk xx thank you xxx "
You are very welcome xx |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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WD I don’t usually have my face public but just for you for today I will.
I found it tough being a single parent to 3 kids and none with autism. You are a star!
Hope the rest of your day goes more smoothly.
Mer xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"WD I don’t usually have my face public but just for you for today I will.
I found it tough being a single parent to 3 kids and none with autism. You are a star!
Hope the rest of your day goes more smoothly.
Mer xx "
thank you and a lovely smile you have x |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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For being a good dad even in difficult times I shall offer a dad joke...
It's inappropriate to make a 'dad joke' if you're not a dad. It's a faux pa.
Sorry if you are now groaning! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For being a good dad even in difficult times I shall offer a dad joke...
It's inappropriate to make a 'dad joke' if you're not a dad. It's a faux pa.
Sorry if you are now groaning! why did the beach laugh??
Because the sea we.e.d"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always take heart when its said that kids act up with the ones they love the most or where they are most secure, as they feel safe to release the rage. Not much help when you feel like crying over it all but have a hug from me too. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always take heart when its said that kids act up with the ones they love the most or where they are most secure, as they feel safe to release the rage. Not much help when you feel like crying over it all but have a hug from me too. X"
thanks hun xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Chin up Wookie. Good days outnumber the bad usually.
Currently going through the process of autism assessment with my youngest so i get where you're coming from.
Always smiles and support for you big fella. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Chin up Wookie. Good days outnumber the bad usually.
Currently going through the process of autism assessment with my youngest so i get where you're coming from.
Always smiles and support for you big fella. "
and you mate if you ever need a chin wag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chin up Wookie. Good days outnumber the bad usually.
Currently going through the process of autism assessment with my youngest so i get where you're coming from.
Always smiles and support for you big fella. and you mate if you ever need a chin wag"
Cheers squire. A true gentleman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I sent a poem to WD that shows ADHD from a child's perspective I'm not gonna lie I cried when I read it as it described my boy to a T if anyone wants to see it I can DM it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr vyper -chin up bro ,consolation the dog got castrated Thursday his nut sack is swollen like a rugby ball it’s a 70kg mastiff if he works out I booked it I’m gonna lose a leg !  |
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"I sent a poem to WD that shows ADHD from a child's perspective I'm not gonna lie I cried when I read it as it described my boy to a T if anyone wants to see it I can DM it xx"
Pretty please, I’m thinking about looking into a diagnosis for me so this may make the idea a bit more appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sent a poem to WD that shows ADHD from a child's perspective I'm not gonna lie I cried when I read it as it described my boy to a T if anyone wants to see it I can DM it xx
Pretty please, I’m thinking about looking into a diagnosis for me so this may make the idea a bit more appealing. "
I'll send it now xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need cheering up last night was a realy shitty night as a single parent of a child with autism. I went to bed angry and sad all at once and woke up not feeling much better. So I ask all you wonderful people of fab can you set your profile pictures as a smile and bring some cheer back on this wet miserable day and bring my sunshine back please 
I can totally relate hon, my daughter is struggling so much with no outside support so I get the fallout. Sending you massive hugs xx
She’s starting saying mummy when she wants me now so that’s progress, and we have moments of hugs, smiles and giggles so it can be beautiful too xx"
Good morning those moments are the best feeling in the world I did try to DM you the poem but unfortunately can't xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need cheering up last night was a realy shitty night as a single parent of a child with autism. I went to bed angry and sad all at once and woke up not feeling much better. So I ask all you wonderful people of fab can you set your profile pictures as a smile and bring some cheer back on this wet miserable day and bring my sunshine back please
I can totally relate hon, my daughter is struggling so much with no outside support so I get the fallout. Sending you massive hugs xx
She’s starting saying mummy when she wants me now so that’s progress, and we have moments of hugs, smiles and giggles so it can be beautiful too xx thanks viv and I'm always there if you want a chat xx"
How were things yesterday WD xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I need cheering up last night was a realy shitty night as a single parent of a child with autism. I went to bed angry and sad all at once and woke up not feeling much better. So I ask all you wonderful people of fab can you set your profile pictures as a smile and bring some cheer back on this wet miserable day and bring my sunshine back please
I can totally relate hon, my daughter is struggling so much with no outside support so I get the fallout. Sending you massive hugs xx
She’s starting saying mummy when she wants me now so that’s progress, and we have moments of hugs, smiles and giggles so it can be beautiful too xx thanks viv and I'm always there if you want a chat xx
How were things yesterday WD xx"
all good last night and this morning butter wouldnt melt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need cheering up last night was a realy shitty night as a single parent of a child with autism. I went to bed angry and sad all at once and woke up not feeling much better. So I ask all you wonderful people of fab can you set your profile pictures as a smile and bring some cheer back on this wet miserable day and bring my sunshine back please
I can totally relate hon, my daughter is struggling so much with no outside support so I get the fallout. Sending you massive hugs xx
She’s starting saying mummy when she wants me now so that’s progress, and we have moments of hugs, smiles and giggles so it can be beautiful too xx thanks viv and I'm always there if you want a chat xx
How were things yesterday WD xx all good last night and this morning butter wouldnt melt "
Good news xx |
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