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When you meet people ... I don’t necessarily mean from here but in general or in the past... how do you come on to people? I’m just looking at whether people use the similar methods or if there is a way you start things off?
How do you show someone you like them? How do you make the first move? It’s all the same question really but I was just wondering how people do it if you are both shy?
I’m quite forward so I’m not looking for answers I just wondered how different people approach it....
For example I met a guy once years ago and I didn’t know if he liked me or not... but when I turned around he was starkers and in my
face... that was quite a forward method to be fair...  |
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"It's all in the eyes, facial expressions and body language. Words are not needed as you just know as you can feel the chemistry building up."
I literally have to sit on my hands as I have wandering hands... I just wondered how people progress from the eyes to more ... maybe other people just have wandering hands like me  |
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over a year ago
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I’m not sure but my both my wife and girlfriends have said I have a smouldering kinda look and tend to touch my mouth with a finger a lot when talking.
Kinda like a love sick puppy. |
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"I’m not sure but my both my wife and girlfriends have said I have a smouldering kinda look and tend to touch my mouth with a finger a lot when talking.
Kinda like a love sick puppy."
Oh god I’m liking these replies  I put this on to calm me down not make me worse ha |
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"When you meet people ... I don’t necessarily mean from here but in general or in the past... how do you come on to people? I’m just looking at whether people use the similar methods or if there is a way you start things off?
How do you show someone you like them? How do you make the first move? It’s all the same question really but I was just wondering how people do it if you are both shy?
I’m quite forward so I’m not looking for answers I just wondered how different people approach it....
For example I met a guy once years ago and I didn’t know if he liked me or not... but when I turned around he was starkers and in my
face... that was quite a forward method to be fair... "
I think my approach varies depending who it is and how I read the situation.
Mostly I just sit there and hope I look sexy enough that they will make the first move and grope my boob  |
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"I get very tactile - start with arm touches that last a little too long to be innocent, progress onto leg touches, all while giving the look and flirting like crazy.
I'm not shy...or subtle  "
I think I have pre cum reading this |
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"When you meet people ... I don’t necessarily mean from here but in general or in the past... how do you come on to people? I’m just looking at whether people use the similar methods or if there is a way you start things off?
How do you show someone you like them? How do you make the first move? It’s all the same question really but I was just wondering how people do it if you are both shy?
I’m quite forward so I’m not looking for answers I just wondered how different people approach it....
For example I met a guy once years ago and I didn’t know if he liked me or not... but when I turned around he was starkers and in my
face... that was quite a forward method to be fair...
I think my approach varies depending who it is and how I read the situation.
Mostly I just sit there and hope I look sexy enough that they will make the first move and grope my boob "
Just had a quick look through your pics .... think I’d be up for playing with them ... husband agrees too |
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"I get very tactile - start with arm touches that last a little too long to be innocent, progress onto leg touches, all while giving the look and flirting like crazy.
I'm not shy...or subtle
I think I have pre cum reading this "
I know I had to look away for a bit... it’s turning me on too much ha |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
" When you meet people ... I don’t necessarily mean from here but in general or in the past... how do you come on to people?
How do you make the first move?
if you are both shy?
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I'm way to shy to even think someone might be interested in me (but ever hopeful). I don't pick up on flirting to well and I,m never really sure or not.
Hopefully they will send a message while flirting so I can realise. Perhaps a neon flashing sign? |
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" When you meet people ... I don’t necessarily mean from here but in general or in the past... how do you come on to people?
How do you make the first move?
if you are both shy?
I'm way to shy to even think someone might be interested in me (but ever hopeful). I don't pick up on flirting to well and I,m never really sure or not.
Hopefully they will send a message while flirting so I can realise. Perhaps a neon flashing sign? "
I like shy boys .... I like to bring them out their shell .... as long as they aren’t shy all night haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about serendipity with me.
If I get talking to someone I just know if there is a mutual attraction.
I can feel the electricity and mutual sexual tension. If it's there then I'll get tactile, touching them on the arm, leg, moving closer then that look you have between you a few seconds before you kiss.
I like it happen quite naturally rather than forced.  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
I have no moves whatsoever. I am totally shit. Not only this, I am awful at reading the signs or responding to them. The worst thing is I always realise this when I get home and lay in bed and then it dawns on me what had happened. And then I torment myself thinking how dumb I am just standing there like a lemon. My knee has been touched by four different women in the past year. Next time someone touches my knee I am gonna jump on em. Is there such a thing as a knee tease or do ladies mean something by it when they touch you there? Two of them I knew reasonably well but the other two I have only met a couple of times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont...I dont feel confident in a come on kinda way but I am confident with myself..so if I chat at all its just banter with no trying to do anything. More time than not if I talk at all its very much a transient conversation in that I can choose the entry and exit point. Im used to my own company. I wouldn t recognise someone coming on to me..again
.I dont expect so I dont see  |
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