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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
This little check in visit is to tell you all to take care - look after yourselves. Even if I don't actually love you someone does. People will miss you, will hurt if you're hurting and will keep your secrets after you've gone.
Don't take for granted that you are appear to be physically fit. If you have any unexplained aches and pains, or feel odd, get it looked at. MEN, I speak especially to you here.
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"This little check in visit is to tell you all to take care - look after yourselves. Even if I don't actually love you someone does. People will miss you, will hurt if you're hurting and will keep your secrets after you've gone.
Don't take for granted that you are appear to be physically fit. If you have any unexplained aches and pains, or feel odd, get it looked at. MEN, I speak especially to you here.
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Those words are going to make a big difference to alot of people who read them , really thoughtful OP x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx"
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
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Sending you hugs Lickety. Wise words as always and so beautifully written x |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
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Oh gosh. Sorry to hear this. Why not (with discretion) tell us about what you will remember about them, celebrate them to us and into the ether? If you need/want/fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those words hit home reading them I've took time away from fab last week until today as old school friend who i thought was always happy fucker like me took his own life i can't get my head around it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
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I don't know you but your words resonate strongly. May you also take care xx |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
Oh gosh. Sorry to hear this. Why not (with discretion) tell us about what you will remember about them, celebrate them to us and into the ether? If you need/want/fancy. "
Thank you.
They were crap in bed but adored my body and we could talk for hours. Twas he of the sexting story (I can't remember the thread title).
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Those words hit home reading them I've took time away from fab last week until today as old school friend who i thought was always happy fucker like me took his own life i can't get my head around it "
I'm sorry you lost someone this way. There was a meme a few years ago showing a picture of depression - it was a smiling face.
Remember the good times and don't beat yourself up trying to work out what was going on. Keep yourself open to other friends who may want to reach out to you.
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
Oh gosh. Sorry to hear this. Why not (with discretion) tell us about what you will remember about them, celebrate them to us and into the ether? If you need/want/fancy.
Thank you.
They were crap in bed but adored my body and we could talk for hours. Twas he of the sexting story (I can't remember the thread title).
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Here’s to Mr Sext, he had good taste, and was an ace communicator! RIP. |
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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"This little check in visit is to tell you all to take care - look after yourselves. Even if I don't actually love you someone does. People will miss you, will hurt if you're hurting and will keep your secrets after you've gone.
Don't take for granted that you are appear to be physically fit. If you have any unexplained aches and pains, or feel odd, get it looked at. MEN, I speak especially to you here.
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Such very wise words...especially the reference to men. My lovely husband kept ignoring me when I told him to go to the doctors about his aches and pains, then when he finally did go to the doctors he got a diagnosis we weren’t expecting and died less than seven weeks later. It’s his second anniversary on Thursday...don’t take anything for granted, x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"This little check in visit is to tell you all to take care - look after yourselves. Even if I don't actually love you someone does. People will miss you, will hurt if you're hurting and will keep your secrets after you've gone.
Don't take for granted that you are appear to be physically fit. If you have any unexplained aches and pains, or feel odd, get it looked at. MEN, I speak especially to you here.
Such very wise words...especially the reference to men. My lovely husband kept ignoring me when I told him to go to the doctors about his aches and pains, then when he finally did go to the doctors he got a diagnosis we weren’t expecting and died less than seven weeks later. It’s his second anniversary on Thursday...don’t take anything for granted, x"
I will send you positive thoughts and strength on Thursday.
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"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
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I’m really sorry to hear this.
The reality of being or having a secret lover is something that many of us can relate to. If they die we probably wouldn’t know until it was too late, then we have nobody to grieve with and nobody to share thoughts with.
A virtual hug probably won’t help much, but you’re welcome to one. |
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"It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
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I'd never actually leave here without saying goodbye to you |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Hey Lickety, good to see you and wise words indeed. Hope it’s not sprung from worries your end? xx
Sadly, a former secret lover.
It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
I’m really sorry to hear this.
The reality of being or having a secret lover is something that many of us can relate to. If they die we probably wouldn’t know until it was too late, then we have nobody to grieve with and nobody to share thoughts with.
A virtual hug probably won’t help much, but you’re welcome to one."
Thank you.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It made me think of all the people we connect with here, that we love at some level. Those we don't get to say goodbye too and can never publicly mourn their death.
I'd never actually leave here without saying goodbye to you "
Technically, I did a very long goodbye with all of you. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you lickety.
I love you too.
From
Sam x
(We sat and waffled shite for quite sometime in an upstairs bar in Manchester last year which I enjoyed greatly and took many positives from the conversation) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m sorry to hear of your loss lickety.
Your post had made me think a bit tho. I’m having my somewhat delayed op in about a month, all being well. I’m not just having downstairs fixed I’m having my boobs messed with too (not implants).
If I’m not here mid August..... you know I had a problem xx
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Thank you lickety.
I love you too.
From
Sam x
(We sat and waffled shite for quite sometime in an upstairs bar in Manchester last year which I enjoyed greatly and took many positives from the conversation)"
I specialise in waffling. I'm glad you got something positive from it. I always do from every waffling interaction.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I’m sorry to hear of your loss lickety.
Your post had made me think a bit tho. I’m having my somewhat delayed op in about a month, all being well. I’m not just having downstairs fixed I’m having my boobs messed with too (not implants).
If I’m not here mid August..... you know I had a problem xx
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I have every confidence there won't be a problem but if there is... you have been a joy to know.
I'll make a note to check in on Fab in mid August to see that you're ok and enjoying your new body.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sorry to hear of your loss lickety.
Your post had made me think a bit tho. I’m having my somewhat delayed op in about a month, all being well. I’m not just having downstairs fixed I’m having my boobs messed with too (not implants).
If I’m not here mid August..... you know I had a problem xx
I have every confidence there won't be a problem but if there is... you have been a joy to know.
I'll make a note to check in on Fab in mid August to see that you're ok and enjoying your new body.
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I doubt it’ll be particularly enjoyable by then but I’ll have a lot of time on my hands as I recover from such major surgery.
You’ve been a joy to know too. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello Lickity, what a lovely surprise. Sorry to hear you news my lovely but even more reason to celebrate life and current lovers. Sometimes worrying about the future makes us forget to treasure what we have in the present. Take care until your next check in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This little check in visit is to tell you all to take care - look after yourselves. Even if I don't actually love you someone does. People will miss you, will hurt if you're hurting and will keep your secrets after you've gone.
Don't take for granted that you are appear to be physically fit. If you have any unexplained aches and pains, or feel odd, get it looked at. MEN, I speak especially to you here.
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Wow weird. Strange. Morbid |
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"This little check in visit is to tell you all to take care - look after yourselves. Even if I don't actually love you someone does. People will miss you, will hurt if you're hurting and will keep your secrets after you've gone.
Don't take for granted that you are appear to be physically fit. If you have any unexplained aches and pains, or feel odd, get it looked at. MEN, I speak especially to you here.
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Well said, and sorry to hear you have lost someone special. I think this lockdown has made me realise how much I need to be around other people, to support them and to feel supported.
Lots of love to you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This little check in visit is to tell you all to take care - look after yourselves. Even if I don't actually love you someone does. People will miss you, will hurt if you're hurting and will keep your secrets after you've gone.
Love this and thanks for sharing xxx
Don't take for granted that you are appear to be physically fit. If you have any unexplained aches and pains, or feel odd, get it looked at. MEN, I speak especially to you here.
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