Been crossdressing for a little while now but there is a part of me that wants to explore a BDSM side of myself.
I'm completely new to it and a touch worried that if I put it out there on here i will be inundated with all the usual arseholes that messaged when I first joined here as a tgurl
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How do you find a good dominant male that knows what he's doing and not some chancer who thinks he is a expert.
I know that's an impossible question to answer but any help would be appreciated.
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"Been crossdressing for a little while now but there is a part of me that wants to explore a BDSM side of myself.
I'm completely new to it and a touch worried that if I put it out there on here i will be inundated with all the usual arseholes that messaged when I first joined here as a tgurl
.
How do you find a good dominant male that knows what he's doing and not some chancer who thinks he is a expert.
I know that's an impossible question to answer but any help would be appreciated.
Xxx
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I'll see if I can find you one. |
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"Hiya, there are so many different kinds of Dom and play. You need to figure out what it is you're looking for so that you'll be successful in finding what you are looking for  "
That's the problem I don't have a clue, not into pain that much but restraints do interest me. |
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One of your pictures has lockers in the background, so it looks like you’ve been to a club. Some of them do have dungeons so when they reopen maybe do a little playat the club or sauna as you find your feet, in the BDSM world  |
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"Hiya, there are so many different kinds of Dom and play. You need to figure out what it is you're looking for so that you'll be successful in finding what you are looking for
That's the problem I don't have a clue, not into pain that much but restraints do interest me."
Well that's where you need to start your research. Maybe look into riggers and rope bunnies, if you like the thought of being bound. We all start somewhere, just take what it is that piqued your interest and then read read and read some more |
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or maybe not necesarrily go straight for a dom male
maybe find a friend who you can try things with to see what you like and then give you a better idea
some of my first experiences were with friends or fellow subs where we would try things with each other just to give the experience |
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"or maybe not necesarrily go straight for a dom male
maybe find a friend who you can try things with to see what you like and then give you a better idea
some of my first experiences were with friends or fellow subs where we would try things with each other just to give the experience"
This is a good idea also |
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