Try a club, you'd be pleasantly surprised!! They're so liberating and freeing, and so fun!! You don't have to do anything you don't want, I'm not an exhibitionist so I'd have a laugh and meet people and go back to my hotel, however I do play on premises now.
I had a couple of years doing private meets from fab, then this time last year tried my first club entirely alone as a single female and never looked back! I met my bf soon after so only play with him but we still went a couple of times a month before all this corona nonsense!
It's a very different experience for single guys obviously, but so is fab. Defo try your local when it's safe to do so, I can't wait for us to be able to go back!!    xx
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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago
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Clubs, organised socials & 121 meets from here too...pre covid.
Clubs are great fun, socials are brilliant for meeting new people that I'd probably never have met otherwise but prefer 121 meets. |
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I prefer 1 on 1 meets.
I have been to a few group socials, and they haven't been the best experiences I've had, but I did meet some nice people.
I've been to clubs, but I find them a bit tacky, especially as a single (perhaps I've been to the wrong clubs).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both.
If I attend clubs alone, it's often to socialise, catch up with friends and sometimes make new ones. I've made arrangements to meet people more intimately once our paths have crossed at a club. I love the no pressure feel that comes with attending clubs. If someone floats my boat, we can take it from there.
Now and again I'll attend clubs as a couple with another guy (or if I'm VERY lucky, two guys) and make full use of the facilities. Jump in the hot tub, use the massage tables, sex swing, fetters wheel, dentist chair....
I do love a more intimate encounter if I'm meeting someone regular but it's also fun to venture to clubs, be watched and maybe find others to join us |
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I finally got to venture to a MLS last Summer and that was great fun. I find busy social situations a bit overwhelming at times but everyone was so friendly and welcoming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We started our swinging journey going to clubs. Came on fab after a recommendation from the bar staff at pleasures. Had already been swinging for about 5 years before we were on here |
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Never been to a club or group social, I've been asked to go by a number of fab ladies, it just doesn't appeal.
Much prefer a more intimate social/sexual evening here. Music drinks and great food have always made for some fantastic evenings.
Maybe I'd like the club scene, one day I'll maybe venture out |
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I attended an all female social which was really lovely! The larger organised social I went to was awful. There was definitely a clique and I felt looked down on for my age. I went with another 'Fab' female luckily. Wouldn't attend again. (Sorry but just my experience). I don't mind a club environment for the odd night out but again - feel my age is an issue there too. The last club I went to no one spoke to me the whole night other than a couple I'd chatted to beforehand and had planned to see there. So for me private meets are definitely my preference! |
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"I attended an all female social which was really lovely! The larger organised social I went to was awful. There was definitely a clique and I felt looked down on for my age. I went with another 'Fab' female luckily. Wouldn't attend again. (Sorry but just my experience). I don't mind a club environment for the odd night out but again - feel my age is an issue there too. The last club I went to no one spoke to me the whole night other than a couple I'd chatted to beforehand and had planned to see there. So for me private meets are definitely my preference! "
Why is your age an issue? I've been attending clubs since I was 21 with no issue. |
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Attended clubs in the past with my then partner.not done the big club since I have a been single did a bi night a small sauna otherwise recently it's been odd 1-2-1 before lockdown.
I'm thinking once restrictions are lifted and I have been off the scene for a while I will have to do socials and clubs to get back in the swing as it were. |
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