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"So basically I can eat all the cake and sit on my arse all day and still have a chance that someone will find me attractive...interesting "
Given that different people like different things, someone may find you attractive if you eat all the cake or not! |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one  "
They don't need to worry about us running off with someone else (and I think they prefer the term women)  |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one
Not all of us are bothered about body types, some of us are attracted to the person rather than just their aesthetics  
Personally I prefer a bigger bodied bloke, I like to grab fleshy bits and bite chunky bums, I want something to get my arms around, slim/toned doesn’t give me that feeling  "
Well put hun xx much better, hate hard body's x |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one "
my friend loves dad bods. Where I love althetic. She explained her reasons. She not happy with her body, she's middle aged overweight woman who just feel inadequate and inferior if her lover was this gym junkie type. Dad bod men with a big belly is nice to cuddle, makes her feel secure as he is less likely to run off... her words.. not mine |
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My response about men's bodies. I'm althetic, I want someone to keep up with me. I love the feel of muscles holding me tight, its super sexy, I love a firm stomach I can run my hands all over. big muscley men can give great cuddles too. I love to lick and feel a guy all over so want a good firm body I can do that with a stamina of an althete in bed as I love to have sex at least 2 times and over a good number of minutes. Plus good fit body looks great in fitted jeans and shirt.  |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one
You really have no idea how a woman's mind works do you! X"
A woman's mind? Is that some kind of slang for tits or ass? |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one "
In the same way some men prefer larger women, BBW or however you want to phrase it over slim/fit women.
Attraction is not limited to body size, shape, condition.
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one
In the same way some men prefer larger women, BBW or however you want to phrase it over slim/fit women.
Attraction is not limited to body size, shape, condition.
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I kinda thought that this thread was to state that dad bods are more attractive |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one
In the same way some men prefer larger women, BBW or however you want to phrase it over slim/fit women.
Attraction is not limited to body size, shape, condition.
I kinda thought that this thread was to state that dad bods are more attractive "
No, it's just people expressing a preference.
Your body will be attractive to some who wouldn't even consider meeting me because I dont have abs. It works the other way to.
Plenty of people out there for every body shape |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one "
Just because you’re fit does not always equate to you being top of the list as more likely to attract a date! I personally think it very arrogant of you to assume your fit bod is the no1 attraction here.... How wrong is your assumption |
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If i might add its different strokes for different folks. Everyone has likes and preferences. What i DONT like is people who feel the need to be disparaging about other peoples body types just because they arent into that particular aesthetic |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one
Just because you’re fit does not always equate to you being top of the list as more likely to attract a date! I personally think it very arrogant of you to assume your fit bod is the no1 attraction here.... How wrong is your assumption "
I wouldn’t say that’s true tbh with you hun I’ve been skinny, chubby and fit, but I’ve never been top of the list whatever that means, my fitness does mean a lot to me though and I think I look good regardless of my success to get a date and I’m cool with that, could be a dominants thing? Maybe dad bods are a bit more submissive and that’s what attracts you? A cuddly man to do do as he’s told lol meaning no offence |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one "
I find it strange that anyone would be so body confident that they feel the need mention size & weight along with assuming they have any idea what all women are attracted to..seriously dude ease up on the mass assumption about women. its clear you consider you to be well fit & therefore might go after an athletic girl. i like variety its the spice of life & tbh i always find bigger lady means more leg to rub & more boob to enjoy. again tho thats just one of my likes. i also find a slim lady looks amazing lying on ones bed naked. its the person & what youre doing thats fun at the time that counts. not everything based on visual & presets for everyone. |
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I prefer health and general fitness. As long as you look like you care about your body and exercise then that’s fine by me. Six pack is nice, but not mandatory. X |
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"I find so strange that some girls would prefer an overweight male to a fit one
Just because you’re fit does not always equate to you being top of the list as more likely to attract a date! I personally think it very arrogant of you to assume your fit bod is the no1 attraction here.... How wrong is your assumption I wouldn’t say that’s true tbh with you hun I’ve been skinny, chubby and fit, but I’ve never been top of the list whatever that means, my fitness does mean a lot to me though and I think I look good regardless of my success to get a date and I’m cool with that, could be a dominants thing? Maybe dad bods are a bit more submissive and that’s what attracts you? A cuddly man to do do as he’s told lol meaning no offence "
A hot body with a face and personality I am not attracted to, doesn't work for me... An unfit body with a face and personality I do find attractive does... Dominance has bugger all to do with anything, regardless of not being submissive nor dominant myself ... I have found ALL men do as they are told though |
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"Maybe dad bods are a bit more submissive and that’s what attracts you? A cuddly man to do do as he’s told lol meaning no offence "
Way way way off the mark |
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What I find funny here is the people trying to understand attraction. It’s different for everyone. The concept of liking a man with a bit of timber because he may well be submissive is way off the mark though. There are various reasons to find a bit (Or a lot) of a cushion attractive but sexual roles have very little to so with it in my eyes. |
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Whilst I can appreciate the aesthetics of a well defined, muscular, gym body with a 6 pack etc, I don't actually find them a turn on.
Personality, eyes and smile are far more important to me than body shape.
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Horses for courses. In the same way I like ladies of all shapes and sizes. It's the connection for me more than anything. Sex with someone you are relaxed with is so much better for both of you (or all three or four etc ).
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