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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" if you moved home and went to your new local, you'd need to make an effort, right….? "
Agreed
"I also think people have a tendancy to generalise and oversimplify the social relationships
within any group which are on the whole rather complex because... Humans!
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Agreed
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I'm happily outspoken about my controversial kinks or defend others for theirs and get a lot of flack for going against the grain of popular opinion"
and
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"Do I belong here.. not a swinger so no.Do I enjoy the forums .. at times yes.Do I cause harm by being somewhere I don't belong .. no"
I'm not a swinger either. I use the forum/fora/whatever as an insight into the human mind… "
This bit.
We talk about belonging, on a swinging site, and then some will say they are not a "swingers". There are many different types of swingers, and seemingly none-swingers using the forum.
Would it be FaB / forum be a better place if we would more clearly identify or or display a Badges (or tagline) to identify our CLAN or AFFILIATIONs (like the movie Ready-Steady-One), and if so what would your default group be?
Personally, I think I am a member of
ALWAYS-KEEP-IT-SEXY
ITS-ALL-ABOUT-THE-FILTH, and
PLEASE-IGNORE-MY-POOR-JOKES
( P.S. Dearest Nippy, I was always only joking when I said I was going to roast you! Soz! xx's ).
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