Can someone somewhere anywhere please explain to me the latest craze of ghosting
Why invest time and effort into getting to know someone..
Sleep with them then ignore them
Anyone know the answer to this???  |
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"Can someone somewhere anywhere please explain to me the latest craze of ghosting
Why invest time and effort into getting to know someone..
Sleep with them then ignore them
Anyone know the answer to this??? "
Because some guys just want a one off so will say or do anything to get a shag, they are happy to con you into thining they want more, then after its easier to ghost you, and yes this is the male typing this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember reading on the Monzo forum where a guy was ghosting a girl.
He ignored all or her messages and phone call through all form of media.
She found that he was a Monzo account holder and sent his messages £1 at a time haha |
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"Because it’s easier than telling someone they don’t want to see someone again i guess, yes It’s cowardly And a shitty thing to do! "
This. It's not fun but people who do this aren't worth agonising over. Just concentrate on moving on and finding someone who has more respect for others. |
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over a year ago
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"As previously said ... males will tell you anything you want to hear to get your knickers off ... best policy is to have boundaries in place and also be aware of the same old crap they all say ... not saying they all like this but you have to dig around for the good ones ..... basically he got what he wanted and off he went .... he saw no news for an explanation he got what he wanted  "
This is spot on |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
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Because having lack of basic social skills and understanding of human interaction is seen as an accomplishment.
Instead of having a human conversation
People would rather described it as "awks" and turn their phone off.
As others have said be glad you have dodged a bullet. Its the sign of huge emotional immaturity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ach OP, Sorry this happened but welcome to the real world. Ghosting isn’t new, just easier online. Lie to get a meeting, have sex, job done and move onto the next one. Look at it this way. You’re worth more than that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been message ghosted twice this week 
What’s that ??"
Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol |
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"Who actually cares???
Move on, build a bridge and realise you weren’t for them/them for you?
Not as if you’re married, is it??  "
We're not married but I've been with my partner over 4 years and would be a little upset if he ghosted me. Though I'd also be slightly impressed considering we share a flat  . |
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"I've been message ghosted twice this week
What’s that ??
Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol "
Must admit I do that when I don’t like the face pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had been chatting two weeks, just added to friends list (i know i here you) she asked for face pic, was a bit reluctant at first, you go first, no you go first, so i did, and in pantomime villian style, gone from friends list and blocked, Yeah I may well be ugly and she just didn't fancy it, no worries, but i think, there's a way of doing things, just my opinion, im sure other people have other views  |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been message ghosted twice this week
What’s that ??
Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol "
Weird why would you do that maybe she accidentally winked you I done that once and got a mouthful from a man calling me a silly little girl |
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"I've been message ghosted twice this week
What’s that ??
Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol
Must admit I do that when I don’t like the face pic "
My face is my friends list only though so only one of the women saw it. Awk, it is what isn't |
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"I've been message ghosted twice this week
What’s that ??
Where a woman strikes up a conversation with you and then just randomly stops replying in the middle of a conversation. I also had a woman wink me last week and I liked her so I winked back and sent a message saying "thanks for the wink, I really like your profile bio and pictures" only to be blocked lol
Weird why would you do that maybe she accidentally winked you I done that once and got a mouthful from a man calling me a silly little girl "
Maybe it was an accidental wink, I actually hadn't thought about that |
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"I had been chatting two weeks, just added to friends list (i know i here you) she asked for face pic, was a bit reluctant at first, you go first, no you go first, so i did, and in pantomime villian style, gone from friends list and blocked, Yeah I may well be ugly and she just didn't fancy it, no worries, but i think, there's a way of doing things, just my opinion, im sure other people have other views "
My god wasn’t me was it .... thats My modus operandi ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who actually cares???
Move on, build a bridge and realise you weren’t for them/them for you?
Not as if you’re married, is it?? "
The person who’s been ghosted does, cause you tend to question what you did wrong, or whether it was something else you did. |
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It’s easy to say just move on, though when you’ve been speaking to someone for a considerable amount of time and suddenly nothing and for apparently no reason it isn’t nice. Just knowing why would be something. Still ultimately it’s their loss and realistically if they are the type of person to just disappear on you then quite frankly what ever you did or thought was there means nothing....still it can hurt  |
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"Who actually cares???
Move on, build a bridge and realise you weren’t for them/them for you?
Not as if you’re married, is it??
The person who’s been ghosted does, cause you tend to question what you did wrong, or whether it was something else you did. "
That right there . You do wonder wtf you did wrong... |
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"Ach OP, Sorry this happened but welcome to the real world. Ghosting isn’t new, just easier online. Lie to get a meeting, have sex, job done and move onto the next one. Look at it this way. You’re worth more than that. "
Thank you xxxx |
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"I had been chatting two weeks, just added to friends list (i know i here you) she asked for face pic, was a bit reluctant at first, you go first, no you go first, so i did, and in pantomime villian style, gone from friends list and blocked, Yeah I may well be ugly and she just didn't fancy it, no worries, but i think, there's a way of doing things, just my opinion, im sure other people have other views
My god wasn’t me was it .... thats My modus operandi ha ha "
Hahaha ni it wasn't you |
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"It’s easy to say just move on, though when you’ve been speaking to someone for a considerable amount of time and suddenly nothing and for apparently no reason it isn’t nice. Just knowing why would be something. Still ultimately it’s their loss and realistically if they are the type of person to just disappear on you then quite frankly what ever you did or thought was there means nothing....still it can hurt "
We'd been speaking for 8 months. Aside from the not knowing I miss the friendship.. but wipe your mouth and move on is going to be my mantra |
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