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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the subject says.
Yep of course they are, lots have been meeting through lockdown judging by the statuses put up and pics we’ve seen.
Who’s to say the pics wasn’t before lockdown? "
We have had invites to parties then coincidentally the same profiles have pics up of play the day after the date they have asked us to attend, doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work it out, but yeah we don’t know for certain.
However what we do know is there are thousands of swingers on here, it’s a numbers game so the odds of no one meeting would be ridiculous. We have chosen not to till we are told we can but we aren’t everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not yet. When clubs think its safe then maybe....i respect my bubble my health my family my job.
Can’t wait for the clubs to re open "
Some are opening this weekend but for socials only.
People shouldn't be meeting unless they are in an exclusive bubble without social distancing.
Unfortunatly social distancing is gonna be a thing for quite sometime.
So yes some are meeting and keeping the social distance and others are just ignoring it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you OP? Are you looking to? Do you wish you could? Are you jealous? Looking to shame others....? 
Are you lonesome tonight?..... 
Yeah, faf?  "
Thought you'd never ask  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you OP? Are you looking to? Do you wish you could? Are you jealous? Looking to shame others....?
Are you lonesome tonight?.....
Yeah, faf?
Thought you'd never ask "
Am I wearing you down....? |
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"As the subject says.
Yep of course they are, lots have been meeting through lockdown judging by the statuses put up and pics we’ve seen.
Who’s to say the pics wasn’t before lockdown?
We have had invites to parties then coincidentally the same profiles have pics up of play the day after the date they have asked us to attend, doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work it out, but yeah we don’t know for certain.
However what we do know is there are thousands of swingers on here, it’s a numbers game so the odds of no one meeting would be ridiculous. We have chosen not to till we are told we can but we aren’t everyone else."
That makes sense |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
A couple of months ago, most statuses had anti meet comments suggesting anyone offering or hinting at it would likely be blocked. This has changed completely over the past month and more hint at meeting rather than chastising those who wish to meet. Once pubs, restaurants and hotels are open for business, expect to see objectors dwindle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "
I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal.  |
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing
I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal. "
Yeah I agree. These things are being opened up on the proviso of social distancing. You can't have sex at 1m+.
People seem to think it's over but it certainly won't be if everyone switches back to normal straight ways. We're already seeing spikes. |
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing
I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal. "
Ditto. Apologies for giving a damn about myself, my community, and the NHS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "
What will be different in October? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing
What will be different in October?"
I thought the same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.
Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else. |
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i get way more requests to meet from last week. I just keep reporting as we not out of lockdown yet.
so if you're reading this and want to ask me to meet. The answer is no. I still got my family and friends, the elderly to think about |
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "
There maybe a second wave by then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing
There maybe a second wave by then?"
I'm thinking this too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing
I have been viewed as an extremist, paranoid crackpot for taking a strict stance. I try to do the right thing yet I get questioned and labelled by those around me as if I am strange and abnormal. "
I judge the people cramming together on beaches, in pubs, fucking around etc as strange and abnormal.  |
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"I have a meet arranged for Saturday with a very beautiful woman and thinking of postponing it ."
if you can meet safely, why not? When i suggest this to men on fab, they stop talking. A true gent would go for nice walk in a park to see how you communicate with eachother. Great sex starts with communication |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing
What will be different in October?"
Another 3 months to make a more educated decision lol.
I have mine and my daughters birthday in october, plus halloween of course 
So will observe and wait.
Of course if nothing has changed or things are worse by then, then I will stay put, but I think another 3 months is being more than cautious enough |
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My stance is, any change in public policy will take 2-4 weeks for new cases, and 6 weeks to show the immediate death toll. I'll make any decisions on whether to change my behaviour no sooner than 6 weeks after restrictions are relaxed. |
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By *slite1Man
over a year ago
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"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.
Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else."
Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case |
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"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.
Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.
Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case"
This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.
Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area. |
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"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing
What will be different in October?"
That’s when it will start to get worse...! |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Most are ignoring it all now tbh, because many are of the "well everyone else is so why not" mentality.
I will not be swinging until october, regardless of what others are doing "
Wonder why October is the date you have chosen.
End of oct onwards is when the cold and flu season starts and covid has the similar trates to flu.
No, I'm not meeting, others can do as they feel is correct for them. |
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"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.
Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.
Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case
This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.
Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area."
This is how it all starts again
People are just selfish cunts why don’t they just have a wank ffs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the reality is that a lot of people no longer care about Covid-19 or are just accepting the risks it poses to them (selfishly ignoring the more vulnerable?) because they are bored of lockdown and are 'over it'.
We've all seen mass gatherings on the news and social media with no regard to social distancing so why not just follow the flock and extend it into do what we want rather than do what we feel is right?
I'm not condoning it, just observing. |
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"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.
Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.
Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case
This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.
Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area.
This is how it all starts again
People are just selfish cunts why don’t they just have a wank ffs "
And the thing is, it'll be them who will be kicking off moaning that we're having to go back into lockdown! |
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"Haha there are some hypocrites in the forums when you read lot of threads about meets during lockdown. And when you see they play the innocent but you know they are not.
Each to their own. It's your life. Your choice if you're gonna meet or not. But don't be a hypocrite and pretend you're something else.
Well said. It is personal preference. And there are a lot of hypocrite on this site. We all know the risk and if that's the game you want to play your choice no one else's. Do we all use a condom on a meet, I rest my case
This isn't a simple matter of personal preference. If you increase your risk to yourself, you also increase your risk to everyone around you, who then are higher risk to everyone around them.
Australia have seen a spike in cases and they've traced it all, or almost all of it, to two people relaxing physical distancing. I think it's now hundreds of cases (they were approaching elimination) in one small area.
This is how it all starts again
People are just selfish cunts why don’t they just have a wank ffs "
It's not even stopped here yet. And we're opening... |
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