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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
Ever wish you could fab someone’s profile?
Sometimes I can’t fab the pics - there aren’t any public ones, or I’m not a fan of the ones they are showing, but they have a really great profile. Don’t necessarily want to start a dialogue either...but I just want to say I like or appreciate their personality.
Be a good new feature...  |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Message them to say so without starting a conversation "
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!  |
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over a year ago
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?! "
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you  "
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities..... |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule "
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat. "
So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ?
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities....."
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Ever wish you could fab someone’s profile?
Sometimes I can’t fab the pics - there aren’t any public ones, or I’m not a fan of the ones they are showing, but they have a really great profile. Don’t necessarily want to start a dialogue either...but I just want to say I like or appreciate their personality.
Be a good new feature... "
That's quite interesting actually. A novel idea though i'm not sure if it would work well. People might be tempted to fab it more to try to get attention rather than actually finding it pleasing.
Some people have messaged me out of the blue just to compliment me on mine. Very flattering that is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?! "
I would have no problem doing that |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat.
So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ?
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Exactly. I didn’t know about the ‘unspoken rule’...but there’s a lot I don’t know
Tbh, if I messaged someone to say I like their profile and they just said ‘cheers’...I might think they were a bit...erm...arrogant...sorry!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often message women to say, look don’t get the wrong idea, but I admire your inner beauty and the way you’ve styled your photos, but in no way am I interested in you in any other Capacity, I repeat no other capacity. They usually just block me |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Ever wish you could fab someone’s profile?
Sometimes I can’t fab the pics - there aren’t any public ones, or I’m not a fan of the ones they are showing, but they have a really great profile. Don’t necessarily want to start a dialogue either...but I just want to say I like or appreciate their personality.
Be a good new feature...
That's quite interesting actually. A novel idea though i'm not sure if it would work well. People might be tempted to fab it more to try to get attention rather than actually finding it pleasing.
Some people have messaged me out of the blue just to compliment me on mine. Very flattering that is "
You’d hope that they’d read it...or at least more likely they’ve read it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they? "
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat.
So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ?
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Reread your comment...no...if I like the pic, I fab the pic. I want to be able to fab the profile, without opening up a dialogue at that point. |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
I would have no problem doing that "
Send me a paragraph I can cut and paste |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?! "
Could just say you admire their style! I’m sure most will just appreciate that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule
I do sometimes message, for example, after a good thread post, and that’s kind of self limiting, unless you chat further. And I would (and have) messaged to say saying I like your profile. I’d just like the option to fab.
If I message, it’s usually because I want to chat.
So you want to message ppl to compliment them on pictures without starting a conversation but when you message it is because you want to chat ?
Reread your comment...no...if I like the pic, I fab the pic. I want to be able to fab the profile, without opening up a dialogue at that point. "
But if the pic doesn't let you fab it.... |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x"
No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule "
This ^ xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule "
This is exactly whay I do - I put in my title "No reply required" and then put the compliment in the text box.
Only once I have never had a reply to thank me or a bit of a conversation. It then fizzles out or we have found a friend |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Message them to say so without starting a conversation
Yeah...but that feels rubbish...going out of my way to say I like your personality but I don’t want to talk to you?!
When I get compliments I just reply thank you and if they want to start a convo they would message again otherwise I leave it at that and I assume it is the untold rule "
I do this as well. I might offer some praise of my own in turn if their profile is good and leave it there. I've no way of knowing if the purpose of the message was just a complement or to serve simultaneously an ice breaker. I'll reply with just enough to allow them to re engage if the latter was the case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often write to people to tell them I really enjoyed reading their profile. There doesn't have to be an ulterior motive. It's always appreciated by the recipients |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x
No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough "
So would there be a page for top wording? I think that'd be better than the nonsense we have with top pics. A thousand words can paint a pretty genuine picture.... |
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x
No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough
So would there be a page for top wording? I think that'd be better than the nonsense we have with top pics. A thousand words can paint a pretty genuine picture.... "
I reckon this could drive some great profile wording...all the people who want a bit of connection and personality would have somewhere to start!
Tho maybe not 1000 words  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just fabbed yours btw OP....
Not my profile tho...and that was my point.
But thank you
I know, but some ppl want to be discreet or anonymous and only receive contact from certain ppl. Some dudes for example (not me) already have hang ups about fabs from ppl of different sexualities.....
Would it be different to fab a profile vs fabbing pics? And if your profile explicitly said you were straight, people probably wouldn’t fab it, would they?
Oh they do, I'm cool with that and I take it as a compliment, half of my fans are from gay guys but so what. I do get a little creeped out by some ppl who view or fab repeatedly, but not because of sexality. Often there are just some really creepy folk who set up new accounts every week so you can't block them, and I'm just a lowly middle aged man....
Isn't what you're talking about already available with the wink function...? x
No...I mean their actual profile wording, not the entire profile. Sorry...maybe I wasn’t clear enough
So would there be a page for top wording? I think that'd be better than the nonsense we have with top pics. A thousand words can paint a pretty genuine picture....
I reckon this could drive some great profile wording...all the people who want a bit of connection and personality would have somewhere to start!
Tho maybe not 1000 words "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I got more fabs, and tend not to message people who fab (out of consideration)
DO you think woman/couples don't fab because they are in Stealth Mode and don't want to reveal their cloaking you ...
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By *abon OP Woman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"You can appreciate my personality anytime, OP 
You just need to write another 990 words and then I will
Sometimes words are not needed..  "
Ok...I got no words now x |
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