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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft.  |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I would love to know this! "
I see some beautiful, beautiful larger ladies in fantastic items (there’s a lady who escorts on a well known site who I’m obsessed with for her lingerie and her size) but lord knows where they get them from, I’ve even imported from US to try some items!! |
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"Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft. "
I'm dribbling. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft.
I'm dribbling. "
Oh I’m down with my size, obviously, just pissed off the choice of wrapping paper is limited. |
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"Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft.
I'm dribbling.
Oh I’m down with my size, obviously, just pissed off the choice of wrapping paper is limited. "
I was just keep you abreast of my situation. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft.
I'm dribbling.
Oh I’m down with my size, obviously, just pissed off the choice of wrapping paper is limited.
I was just keep you abreast of my situation. "
It was noted. 
And appreciated. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft. "
I going to have to start thing that way and embrace my fabulous folds of fat x |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft.
I going to have to start thing that way and embrace my fabulous folds of fat x "
Do it! You can be working on healthy stuff, and seeking to lose a few curves and swerves but hell you have to love every single part of yourself right now - life’s too short and it all makes up you and you are a wonderful, sexy, beast of primal horny orgasm and love and quite simply amazagorge. |
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When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it. |
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So with you on the op, half the problem is, is that they just size up their normal range so it just doesn't fit right. Or they use materials that can't withstand the gravity of my boobs. Curvy Kate are ok though I've had some fails and elomi have some nice bits too. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it. "
That’s really useful, thank you. I shall investigate Elomi further, and I may just write to some brands and ask some questions/make some suggestions. Act, don’t moan.  |
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"When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it. "
Elomi Matilda bras are my every day one most comfortable bra ever |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"So with you on the op, half the problem is, is that they just size up their normal range so it just doesn't fit right. Or they use materials that can't withstand the gravity of my boobs. Curvy Kate are ok though I've had some fails and elomi have some nice bits too."
Yes. It’s sometimes even more frustrating when you find a brand and a product that fits and then they discontinue it and the new products don’t fit - it’s the inconsistency with brand that gets me too.
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"So with you on the op, half the problem is, is that they just size up their normal range so it just doesn't fit right. Or they use materials that can't withstand the gravity of my boobs. Curvy Kate are ok though I've had some fails and elomi have some nice bits too.
Yes. It’s sometimes even more frustrating when you find a brand and a product that fits and then they discontinue it and the new products don’t fit - it’s the inconsistency with brand that gets me too.
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Elomi tend to have the same bras each season just the pattern or the colour changes. They are the most consistent manufacturer although my size does vary between the styles. But once I cracked the sizes I can buy a bra from them knowing it'll fit when it arrives. Belle lingerie is the cheapest place I've found them |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it.
Elomi Matilda bras are my every day one most comfortable bra ever "
Nods. I have good everyday and nice bras - Elomi, Goddess, Panache etc. It’s more the lingerie items of corsets, camisoles, baby dolls, suspenders, jumpsuits, teddies etc that never seem to be scaled properly or with care. Don’t people realise that larger, lusty, lush ladies have insatiable sexual appetites too?! |
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"When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it.
Elomi Matilda bras are my every day one most comfortable bra ever
Nods. I have good everyday and nice bras - Elomi, Goddess, Panache etc. It’s more the lingerie items of corsets, camisoles, baby dolls, suspenders, jumpsuits, teddies etc that never seem to be scaled properly or with care. Don’t people realise that larger, lusty, lush ladies have insatiable sexual appetites too?! "
It was specifically their babydolls the Elomi designer was talking to me about. Might be worth a go if you haven't tried them already  |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it.
Elomi Matilda bras are my every day one most comfortable bra ever
Nods. I have good everyday and nice bras - Elomi, Goddess, Panache etc. It’s more the lingerie items of corsets, camisoles, baby dolls, suspenders, jumpsuits, teddies etc that never seem to be scaled properly or with care. Don’t people realise that larger, lusty, lush ladies have insatiable sexual appetites too?!
It was specifically their babydolls the Elomi designer was talking to me about. Might be worth a go if you haven't tried them already "
Maybe I need to find someone to help me measure myself.  |
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"When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it.
Elomi Matilda bras are my every day one most comfortable bra ever
Nods. I have good everyday and nice bras - Elomi, Goddess, Panache etc. It’s more the lingerie items of corsets, camisoles, baby dolls, suspenders, jumpsuits, teddies etc that never seem to be scaled properly or with care. Don’t people realise that larger, lusty, lush ladies have insatiable sexual appetites too?!
It was specifically their babydolls the Elomi designer was talking to me about. Might be worth a go if you haven't tried them already
Maybe I need to find someone to help me measure myself. "
I would volunteer if you weren't so far away  |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I feel you!
Also why do they make pretty sets crotchless. I don't want crotchless! "
I know right?!!!
That annoyed me too, I mean to be fair once I’ve put it on and moved like a graceful elephant across the room to throw myself like an overly enthusiastic walrus on the bed, I’ll have accidentally ripped the crotch anyhow. But yes, I want my vagina held up not revealed through the slit like sausage meat being squeezed out of its skin. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"When I was at uni I interned for Eveden (now taken over by Wacoal) who own most of the major plus fit lingerie brands in the UK and I sat with each of their design teams for a while. From what I could see, the Elomi brand really put hell of a lot of thought in to catering to the fuller figure rather than simply making their designs in a bigger size. As I'm only mildly curvy myself, I can't really comment on how successful they are in achieving this but I was impressed with the thought they put into it.
Elomi Matilda bras are my every day one most comfortable bra ever
Nods. I have good everyday and nice bras - Elomi, Goddess, Panache etc. It’s more the lingerie items of corsets, camisoles, baby dolls, suspenders, jumpsuits, teddies etc that never seem to be scaled properly or with care. Don’t people realise that larger, lusty, lush ladies have insatiable sexual appetites too?!
It was specifically their babydolls the Elomi designer was talking to me about. Might be worth a go if you haven't tried them already
Maybe I need to find someone to help me measure myself.
I would volunteer if you weren't so far away "
Awwww thank you! |
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"I feel you!
Also why do they make pretty sets crotchless. I don't want crotchless!
I know right?!!!
That annoyed me too, I mean to be fair once I’ve put it on and moved like a graceful elephant across the room to throw myself like an overly enthusiastic walrus on the bed, I’ll have accidentally ripped the crotch anyhow. But yes, I want my vagina held up not revealed through the slit like sausage meat being squeezed out of its skin. "
You paint such vivid and appealing descriptions of yourself. Fortunately I have seen your photos and I don't fall for it. I know you are considerably more beautiful than you think you are. You can't fool me. So there. Luke |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I feel you!
Also why do they make pretty sets crotchless. I don't want crotchless!
I know right?!!!
That annoyed me too, I mean to be fair once I’ve put it on and moved like a graceful elephant across the room to throw myself like an overly enthusiastic walrus on the bed, I’ll have accidentally ripped the crotch anyhow. But yes, I want my vagina held up not revealed through the slit like sausage meat being squeezed out of its skin.
You paint such vivid and appealing descriptions of yourself. Fortunately I have seen your photos and I don't fall for it. I know you are considerably more beautiful than you think you are. You can't fool me. So there. Luke "
I’m not saying I’m not beautiful, thank you for the compliment btw, I’m very clear I’m large and graceless though! My dear friend, a forumite here, has the injuries to prove my point, and calls me “clumsy lady” frequently whilst I’m making my moves and being sexy. |
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Great thread OP.
I agree that finding babydolls and similar for a larger lady or just a larger bust is bloody difficult.
The crotchless thing is another bug bear of mine too.
Having a larger hourglass shape seems to make it worse 
Strangely Primark bodysuits in a large fit me well...
Will have a look at Elomi.
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Great thread OP.
I agree that finding babydolls and similar for a larger lady or just a larger bust is bloody difficult.
The crotchless thing is another bug bear of mine too.
Having a larger hourglass shape seems to make it worse
Strangely Primark bodysuits in a large fit me well...
Will have a look at Elomi.
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Ohhh I hadn’t tried Primark, thanks for the tip. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Chubby girl here. Elomi is a massive no for me, it's like slightly prettier scaffolding and that's dull. I want the sexy velvet that caresses my curves, the delicate lace that hints at what's below.
I've mentioned this brand a few times but Playful Promises. I bought a silk teddy in my favourite colour and it's absolutely beautiful - sexy, perfectly cut to show my waist.
Asos have some nice lingerie pieces in now and again, you do have to keep an eye out though as they sell out quickly.
I'm sorely tempted by an item from Fashion Nova at the moment but shipping I'm not sure of. They have some really sexy lingerie pieces. Prettylittlething does as well.
You're right though, there needs to be sexier things for bigger women. The US have far more options, we've either got the option of squeezing ourselves into casing and doing our best squeezed sausage impression or some floaty number which we should perform Wuthering Heights in.  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"You mean there’s a gap in the market, maybe I can get on Dragons Den again after they rejected my see through toaster idea ?!
There really is a gap. "
I see a business opportunity here |
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" My dear friend, a forumite here, has the injuries to prove my point, and calls me “clumsy lady” frequently whilst I’m making my moves and being sexy. "
Happy to come with you to A&E the next time an injury like that needs to be explained |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Chubby girl here. Elomi is a massive no for me, it's like slightly prettier scaffolding and that's dull. I want the sexy velvet that caresses my curves, the delicate lace that hints at what's below.
I've mentioned this brand a few times but Playful Promises. I bought a silk teddy in my favourite colour and it's absolutely beautiful - sexy, perfectly cut to show my waist.
Asos have some nice lingerie pieces in now and again, you do have to keep an eye out though as they sell out quickly.
I'm sorely tempted by an item from Fashion Nova at the moment but shipping I'm not sure of. They have some really sexy lingerie pieces. Prettylittlething does as well.
You're right though, there needs to be sexier things for bigger women. The US have far more options, we've either got the option of squeezing ourselves into casing and doing our best squeezed sausage impression or some floaty number which we should perform Wuthering Heights in. "
Preach!
I wholeheartedly agree, the day to day is fine. It’s the equivalent of Agent Provocateur deluxe pieces all texture and sensual and hinting of your other life as a high class prostitute or vintage sexy sculpted pieces from yesteryear allowing you to play out your Hollywood vamp best that I too crave.
Will check your choices - I scan ASOS, as you know, and have nice pieces from there. But fuck me, I want to open a brand that looks at the diversity of large and in charge body shapes out there and allows them to make their partner’s eyes pop out with sheer whore vibes when they undress. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
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" My dear friend, a forumite here, has the injuries to prove my point, and calls me “clumsy lady” frequently whilst I’m making my moves and being sexy.
Happy to come with you to A&E the next time an injury like that needs to be explained "
It’s his injuries not mine - but I’ll let him know you’re able to escort him to the hospital. |
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over a year ago
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I feel you.
I never used to have this issue when I was slimmer, but since gaining weight I feel like I have to spend a fortune for good everyday lingerie that's very basic when compared to the market for smaller boobs and slimmer women.
It sucks Estella. |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I feel you.
I never used to have this issue when I was slimmer, but since gaining weight I feel like I have to spend a fortune for good everyday lingerie that's very basic when compared to the market for smaller boobs and slimmer women.
It sucks Estella. "
I’ll suck you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel you.
I never used to have this issue when I was slimmer, but since gaining weight I feel like I have to spend a fortune for good everyday lingerie that's very basic when compared to the market for smaller boobs and slimmer women.
It sucks Estella.
I’ll suck you. "
*gets my left nipple out*
Or did you want the clit? |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I feel you.
I never used to have this issue when I was slimmer, but since gaining weight I feel like I have to spend a fortune for good everyday lingerie that's very basic when compared to the market for smaller boobs and slimmer women.
It sucks Estella.
I’ll suck you.
*gets my left nipple out*
Or did you want the clit? "
Gonna suck your face first. And jiggle your booblies with my hands. |
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"I feel you.
I never used to have this issue when I was slimmer, but since gaining weight I feel like I have to spend a fortune for good everyday lingerie that's very basic when compared to the market for smaller boobs and slimmer women.
It sucks Estella. "
I feel you. Anything under £30 is cheap for a bra. It's so annoying. Especially when they're not even as nice as the ones my smaller busted friends get for a third of the price! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does lingerie for larger ladies, ladies with big heaving bosoms, ladies with belly overhang of food joy, ladies with buttocks that dance to their own beat when thrusted from behind, always fail to be sturdy enough fabric to not feel you’re going to rip it first wear, always fail to have a strap that works well as they’re either so thin it cuts like wire or so chunky it feels like a scaffolding experiment, always fail to have enough length in the body to accommodate your fleshy, fabulous folds of fat?
Pfffft. "
Tell me about it, I always find my boobs fall out of it if I try to move. X |
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"Chubby girl here. Elomi is a massive no for me, it's like slightly prettier scaffolding and that's dull. I want the sexy velvet that caresses my curves, the delicate lace that hints at what's below.
I've mentioned this brand a few times but Playful Promises. I bought a silk teddy in my favourite colour and it's absolutely beautiful - sexy, perfectly cut to show my waist.
Asos have some nice lingerie pieces in now and again, you do have to keep an eye out though as they sell out quickly.
I'm sorely tempted by an item from Fashion Nova at the moment but shipping I'm not sure of. They have some really sexy lingerie pieces. Prettylittlething does as well.
You're right though, there needs to be sexier things for bigger women. The US have far more options, we've either got the option of squeezing ourselves into casing and doing our best squeezed sausage impression or some floaty number which we should perform Wuthering Heights in. "
Every time I go to the US I come back with a suitcase full of underwear. Hips and Curves used to ship to the UK but now only ship to the US and Canada, which is a pain.
If there's something specific you have in mind it's worth having a chat to a couple of traders on Etsy to see if they can make you what you want, handmade bespoke so guaranteed to fit. |
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Omg Everytime I buy a set off lovehoney the thing that comes with them is literally a bit of string the top part is ok but the things are just dreadful.
Love monif c on Instagram their stuff is unreal. Haven't ordered anything yet as always sold out |
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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Chubby girl here. Elomi is a massive no for me, it's like slightly prettier scaffolding and that's dull. I want the sexy velvet that caresses my curves, the delicate lace that hints at what's below.
I've mentioned this brand a few times but Playful Promises. I bought a silk teddy in my favourite colour and it's absolutely beautiful - sexy, perfectly cut to show my waist.
Asos have some nice lingerie pieces in now and again, you do have to keep an eye out though as they sell out quickly.
I'm sorely tempted by an item from Fashion Nova at the moment but shipping I'm not sure of. They have some really sexy lingerie pieces. Prettylittlething does as well.
You're right though, there needs to be sexier things for bigger women. The US have far more options, we've either got the option of squeezing ourselves into casing and doing our best squeezed sausage impression or some floaty number which we should perform Wuthering Heights in.
Every time I go to the US I come back with a suitcase full of underwear. Hips and Curves used to ship to the UK but now only ship to the US and Canada, which is a pain.
If there's something specific you have in mind it's worth having a chat to a couple of traders on Etsy to see if they can make you what you want, handmade bespoke so guaranteed to fit."
I have so much stuff from Hips and Curves!! |
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