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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton

Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is indeed an unjust world.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh "

Same reason women that like sex are sluts

But men are studs

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford


"Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh "

You’re talking about two different scenarios - the first is the (female) escort and the second is the customer.

Whichever it is, I wouldn’t go seeking out the judgement of other people, they can mostly fuck off

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh

Same reason women that like sex are sluts

But men are studs"

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I've only ever heard people talk about escorts in derogatory terms.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Life is full of double standards.

The worst one on here is bisexuality

Women are celebrated for exploring with other women. No one bat's an eyelid if they still put straight on their profile

A man does the same and people are out with their pitch forks!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've only ever heard people talk about escorts in derogatory terms. "

I don't understand why that's the only opinion.

For some yes, they may have no choice etc.

For others it is empowering, it might even be fun and lucrative too. Fair play to them

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've only ever heard people talk about escorts in derogatory terms.

I don't understand why that's the only opinion.

For some yes, they may have no choice etc.

For others it is empowering, it might even be fun and lucrative too. Fair play to them"

Indeed.

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By *ljamMan  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh "

I'd question both those assertions. Women who escort are often shamed for their choice, and I've seen guys get a pat on the back for visiting a prostitute.

Generally though, a lot of people get twisted up over sex. It's society's moral madness.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh

I'd question both those assertions. Women who escort are often shamed for their choice, and I've seen guys get a pat on the back for visiting a prostitute.

Generally though, a lot of people get twisted up over sex. It's society's moral madness."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh

You’re talking about two different scenarios - the first is the (female) escort and the second is the customer.

Whichever it is, I wouldn’t go seeking out the judgement of other people, they can mostly fuck off "

Yarp

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By *partharmonyCouple  over a year ago

Ruislip


"Why is it .... if a woman chooses to offer escort services to guys it's ok.

This with the veiled female empowerment that " it's her body ,she can do what she likes".... or " she enjoys sex so why not earn out of something she enjoys"....etc etc etc

Which I have no problem with.

Yet if I guy is to seek the services of a escort or admit that he has in past...

God help him , he,a a creep a sleazy weirdo just a loser...

Hhhuugggghh "

I don't entirely agree with your assessment. I think sex workers are often unfairly maligned and looked down on. It is becoming more socially acceptable but there is still a long way to go before people in general accept sex work as a legitimate profession.

The people who say sex work is a valid choice for a woman are usually (in our experience) the ones who also accept that paying for that type of service is also legitimate as long as everything is consensual and respectful.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I've only ever heard people talk about escorts in derogatory terms.

I don't understand why that's the only opinion.

For some yes, they may have no choice etc.

For others it is empowering, it might even be fun and lucrative too. Fair play to them"

It's not the only opinion. Others are expressed in this thread. I have never heard anyone I've spoken to one to one talk about escorting in anything other than derogatory terms. On fab women often say "I'm not a free escort" in an offended way.

As far as I'm personally concerned as long as it's the person's choice (all genders escort) I don't have a problem with it but for the vast majority it isn't a choice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've only ever heard people talk about escorts in derogatory terms.

I don't understand why that's the only opinion.

For some yes, they may have no choice etc.

For others it is empowering, it might even be fun and lucrative too. Fair play to them

It's not the only opinion. Others are expressed in this thread. I have never heard anyone I've spoken to one to one talk about escorting in anything other than derogatory terms. On fab women often say "I'm not a free escort" in an offended way.

As far as I'm personally concerned as long as it's the person's choice (all genders escort) I don't have a problem with it but for the vast majority it isn't a choice"

To be fair I get offended by some of those types of messages too. Purely because if I'm expected to meet someone at the drop of a hat who I'm not attracted to, I wouldn't do it for free!

However that's not to say escorts aren't also picky. I know a few who are and rightly so!

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Life is full of double standards.

The worst one on here is bisexuality

Women are celebrated for exploring with other women. No one bat's an eyelid if they still put straight on their profile

A man does the same and people are out with their pitch forks! "

Yeah... so true that...

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"I've only ever heard people talk about escorts in derogatory terms.

I don't understand why that's the only opinion.

For some yes, they may have no choice etc.

For others it is empowering, it might even be fun and lucrative too. Fair play to them

It's not the only opinion. Others are expressed in this thread. I have never heard anyone I've spoken to one to one talk about escorting in anything other than derogatory terms. On fab women often say "I'm not a free escort" in an offended way.

As far as I'm personally concerned as long as it's the person's choice (all genders escort) I don't have a problem with it but for the vast majority it isn't a choice"

hhhmm yes I understand . Then ..hey theres very few of us who earn a living in the job that we choose. Who am I to judge how others choose to earn there living to pay the bills. Still feel the uk has a long way to go in addressing social accept abilities and equality. As long as theres no coershion or exploitation involved.

Then perhaps if it did become acceptable and normal...Would it be so appealing? also as lucrative? Hmmm?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try to not think too much into it or it may kill your erection when you want to fuck an escort

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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Because people are judgemental I suppose. I’m just guessing there

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