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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago
Oo err Devon |
Spend time learning about yourself...
What do you do for fun...
What do you do for you...
I think when we lose or break up with someone we love.. We have to learn about the part of us that's left and heal... And for a really cheesy finish.. Regrow...and It takes time... X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.
I want to it just scared really"
It's ok to be scared of unknown. Even if you are scared of something, do try to tackle it, taking action, however small, putting yourself path is all what's needed sometimes to set us into a new good direction. Persevering at is a different chapter though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to. "
 perfect and you won't really move on, despite all the advice until you decide you want to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.
I want to it just scared really
What is it that scares you? "
Being hurt again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better |
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.
I want to it just scared really
What is it that scares you?
Being hurt again"
OK. You can move on from your old relationship without starting a new one. How are you doing with being single? Do you have supportive friends? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.
I want to it just scared really
What is it that scares you?
Being hurt again
OK. You can move on from your old relationship without starting a new one. How are you doing with being single? Do you have supportive friends? "
Not really she made sure I didn’t have any before she destroyed me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better "
I do I just have no self esteem left |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better "
It’s almost like you knew her lol |
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.
I want to it just scared really
What is it that scares you?
Being hurt again"
Then do not fall in love again. That is how i cope. My guard is up from now on and i will happily remain single. |
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.
I want to it just scared really
What is it that scares you?
Being hurt again
OK. You can move on from your old relationship without starting a new one. How are you doing with being single? Do you have supportive friends?
Not really she made sure I didn’t have any before she destroyed me "
Start from there then. It'll be difficult during this current time but as things move forward maybe work on building some friendships. Self esteem is something I can't help you with, that comes from within you have to believe you're worth it |
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
I do I just have no self esteem left"
Work on yourself. I've been where you are. Loving yourself means you can withstand these blows |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
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"I don't think anyone can tell you how to move on. The first step is wanting to.
I want to it just scared really"
Life is full of risk
What are you gonna do.... Live your life indoors and alone?
Love is supposed to be scary. Opening yourself up to be loved is an act of vulnerability. It's how trust grows in a relationship.
There are shitty people in this world and not so shitty people. But youll never know if you only inside your thoughts
Strap a pair on head out the door an hold on for the ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
It’s almost like you knew her lol"
I’ve just had similar experience with a man x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
It’s almost like you knew her lol I’ve just had similar experience with a man x"
Care to chat privately ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Frame them for a crime they didn't commit, punishable by death.... 
Witchcraft for example....
Dunk that bitch! "
It seems she is dunked lol just left me ruined |
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better "
That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons."
No she was cruel and unkind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons."
true. People come and go. How they leave stays with you forever though. |
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.
No she was cruel and unkind "
But you still loved her? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.
Yes I did
No she was cruel and unkind
But you still loved her?"
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.
Yes I did
No she was cruel and unkind
But you still loved her?"
Well you need to do some soul searching and realise you deserve better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
That is rather harsh. People fall out of love which is just life. Does not mean that person is cruel or unkind. It would have been cruel to stay for the wrong reasons.
Thank you for your words
Yes I did
No she was cruel and unkind
But you still loved her?
Well you need to do some soul searching and realise you deserve better. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t mean to sound harsh but just think of all the pain & misery they caused you & what sort of person even does that anyway & you deserve to be treated better
It’s almost like you knew her lol I’ve just had similar experience with a man x
Care to chat privately ?"
OP I rather not sorry I’m trying to forget about it but thanks anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Move on with your life. It's difficult at the moment but in the future find new interests,you willm make new friends. For now take the time to work out what you want in life, what your interests are.
We can all offer advice but only you can act on it |
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