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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

If that is your preference then yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah why not, if thats what you are looking for!

This is a swinging site not a Politically correct party political broadcast site... I know hard to tell the difference sometimes!

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

Why not if that is what you are looking for.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All the women on here have their shopping lists so of course you can.

I chose to see a person rather than a skin colour tho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely. Why not. Its not abusive its a preference.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

What about blue women? I like blue ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It does seem that the black men only thing carries with it all manner of racial undertones about cock size and exotic/wrong pleasures. It is no surprise that the couples who claim to only want black me have y looking makes, so how bad they must feel about themselves is anybodies guess.

And yes, I am jealous of black me on here and wish I was black! lol

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"What about blue women? I like blue ones."

You do waffle on at times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?"

If you put it in a manner you have a preference for then why not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I just fancy people as people, not colours, and some of the best looking people I have met have been terrible as sexual partners, so to have a 'type' is very limiting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol not all black men are hung like .... for some it's more about seeing the contrast in the skin tones or something(s) else.

I think if you have a preference put it on your profile; it's your profile after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh I know about the cock thing, loads of black mates, not one is as big as me, just so many cpls love black guys, and women also, and it has fuck ll to do with skin tone contrasts imho

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?"

Yes it would be and yes they do... Just as people say white men only, or white women only, or Asian men only, or Asian women only, or bi only, straight only, couples only, single people only, married people only ect ect ect......

Sorry... Your point is what? Or just another example of cheap point scoring at the expense of others???

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?

Sorry... Your point is what? Or just another example of cheap point scoring at the expense of others???"

How are the collated scores looking?

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"What about blue women? I like blue ones.

You do waffle on at times

That's so wrong..

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?

Sorry... Your point is what? Or just another example of cheap point scoring at the expense of others???"

Of course it is cheap point scoring. Read his follow up responses and you'll get where he's going.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?

Sorry... Your point is what? Or just another example of cheap point scoring at the expense of others???"

Don't really understand that last bit Fabio. How is it point scoring at the expense of others?

OP go for it, as others have said if its stating a preference or a fantasy and isn't said in a way that puts all othersskin comoyrs down there is no harm in it x

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By *ubbliciousWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Lol not all black men are hung like .... for some it's more about seeing the contrast in the skin tones or something(s) else.

For me, yes, I do like black men because of the tendency that they are well hung (although I have been disappointed on a few occasions) but I really love seeing a nice chocolatey skin tone next to my milky whiteness! Also, I like athletic men, and IME black men do tend to be more athletic. but then, with the options fab has to offer, I would choose to see the 'equipment' before i purchased!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're free to make the pool of people you meet as small as you like.

Might not do you that many favours though.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Oh I get it now!!! It wasnt an actual preference, he was wound up CIS he has reada few profiles requesting black men only!!!

I blame the paint fumes clouding my brain

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?"

Is it acceptable to say females only and couples only.... Since you do this in your profile?

P.s the answer to that question is going to be the same as the one you posed to others....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none.

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?

Sorry... Your point is what? Or just another example of cheap point scoring at the expense of others???

Of course it is cheap point scoring. Read his follow up responses and you'll get where he's going."

Is it the "keyboard warriors" syndrome?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none."

it is preference & choice not racism

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none."

How is it racism?

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By *ubbliciousWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none."

Racism?! What a crock of shite. Nothing racist about it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

oops, seems the nerves are being touched, wait for it I'll be called a Nazi next lol

If you don't think it is racist to exclude white people from your sexual reference, or the reverse of excluding black or `Asian, then good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You asked a question....you got told thats its perfectly ok to state only black women....which it is.

Nothing racist at all about preference. Dont try and make into what its not

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

you are 29, look in great shape, big cock and have written a good profile......

you will have fun on here, just focus on the people who will meet your type and sell yourself to them better.....

and not waste time focusing on people whose choice is not your type.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont like it when the grown ups argue

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I started it to elecit a response as it genuinely interests meas to why so many favour black men or don't play with non white people. forgive me for being new to this but is is not everyday you finf out things like this, lol, as it's not summat you really talk about at work is it?

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By *ubbliciousWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"oops, seems the nerves are being touched, wait for it I'll be called a Nazi next lol

If you don't think it is racist to exclude white people from your sexual reference, or the reverse of excluding black or `Asian, then good luck to you."

You have hit a nerve, because some people, like myself, who have a decent brain and not a racist bone in their bodies, recognise that you are just shit stirring. Clearly you are bored, go have a wank!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cup of tea anyone?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

when guys don't want to suck my cock, I dont think of them as homophobic.... just straight

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"Cup of tea anyone?"

please, black no sugar, ta.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"oops, seems the nerves are being touched, wait for it I'll be called a Nazi next lol

If you don't think it is racist to exclude white people from your sexual reference, or the reverse of excluding black or `Asian, then good luck to you."

My nerves are perfectly untouched thanks, I just think its ridiculous that anyone thinks a preference for wanting NSA sex with certain groups within a society is racist.

So now, every person you turn down for a meet can accuse you of some sort of discriminatio. If you turn down a disabled person, can they have you under the dda, if you turn down a bi man who wants to suck your cock can he denounce you as homophobic???

Get real

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

haha, fair enough, nuff said

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

sexuality is not based on race but gender, is it not. A bit different love x

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By *ubbliciousWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"oops, seems the nerves are being touched, wait for it I'll be called a Nazi next lol

If you don't think it is racist to exclude white people from your sexual reference, or the reverse of excluding black or `Asian, then good luck to you.

My nerves are perfectly untouched thanks, I just think its ridiculous that anyone thinks a preference for wanting NSA sex with certain groups within a society is racist.

Get real"

Well bloody said!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont think its racist at all to state preferences..

Cali

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"sexuality is not based on race but gender, is it not. A bit different love x"

Omg you learn.something new every day on these here forums. Here was me, a mere uneducated female thinking that all bi men were black. Well blow me down with a feather

Read it again sweatheart, I never said that someone being bi was because of their race.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I dont think its racist at all to state preferences..

Cali "

Cali, what a gorgeous woman you are. Great eyes. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cup of tea anyone?

please, black no sugar, ta. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

striking a nerve on a Thursday afternoon...priceless

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"Cup of tea anyone?

please, black no sugar, ta.

I accepted politely, i said please and ta ( yorky speak for thank you )

I expressed a personal preference and yet i get googly eyed.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"striking a nerve on a Thursday afternoon...priceless"

Just don't like being patronize by someone who has no idea what they are talking about

Plus am a bit bored from decorating all day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"striking a nerve on a Thursday afternoon...priceless

Just don't like being patronize by someone who has no idea what they are talking about

Plus am a bit bored from decorating all day

"
ohhh can you come help me decorate here after lol.. I have the paper, the paint... and just keep thinking.. I will do it next week lol

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

oo, strong stuff from an untouchable

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By *ubbliciousWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"oo, strong stuff from an untouchable"

You may wish to use the quote button so that people know what comment you are directing your comments at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

you guessed well enough sweetie x

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By *ubbliciousWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

If that was directed at me, I don't see why you would see me as an untouchable?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"What about blue women? I like blue ones.

You do waffle on at times

That's so wrong..

and what is so wrong with blue waffles?

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"What about blue women? I like blue ones.

You do waffle on at times

That's so wrong..

and what is so wrong with blue waffles?"

Are they untouchable?

They should be.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"What about blue women? I like blue ones.

You do waffle on at times

That's so wrong..

and what is so wrong with blue waffles?

Are they untouchable?

They should be. "

How tall are you? I keep them on the top shelf.

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By *ubbliciousWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that."

I'm not sure of your point?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i know a very nice lady who is black.

but i dont consider this, to me she is a lovely friend and a human being.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"i know a very nice lady who is black.

but i dont consider this, to me she is a lovely friend and a human being.

Has she got nice bewbs as well?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nowt wrong with sexually prefferring a specific race for whatever reason if is say i only want to meet women am i discriminating men??? prob doing them a favour lol haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"i know a very nice lady who is black.

but i dont consider this, to me she is a lovely friend and a human being.

good point, and great abs

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none."

Since when has personal preference been classed as racism?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id be gratefull to meet a black and white striped lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none.

Since when has personal preference been classed as racism?

this thread has clearly gone over some peoples heads, bless em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

CALM DOWN PEOPLE!

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none.

Since when has personal preference been classed as racism?

this thread has clearly gone over some peoples heads, bless em"

You were the one that brought up 'racism'......never went over my head.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"CALM DOWN PEOPLE!"

Quick! Scarper everyone! It's the fuzz!!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"CALM DOWN PEOPLE!"

Your'e not on duty now....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

always on duty!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none."

wot a crock theres no racism atall ! being sexually attracted to someone of a certain colour is not racist, theres no malice, i prefer brunettes to blondes but that doesnt mean i have malicious predjudiced thoughts towards them. i hate it wen silly people with small I.Q's get on subjects that are clearly beyond their tiny grasp stick to the weights mate

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"always on duty!

Whatever gets you off.....

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"always on duty!

If I start singing old McDonald had a farm... Will I get in trouble????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"always on duty!

Whatever gets you off....."

if you want to give me a hand getting off........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"always on duty!

If I start singing old McDonald had a farm... Will I get in trouble????

not at all, the classics are always the best

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that."

The Admins would ban either sex for abuse.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"CALM DOWN PEOPLE!

Quick! Scarper everyone! It's the fuzz!!!

Lets hope he doesn't grab you by the fuzz

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont like it when the grown ups argue

me neither

...where's Frockers when ya need her?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"CALM DOWN PEOPLE!

Quick! Scarper everyone! It's the fuzz!!!

That made me laugh!

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

"Fabio, what exactly is your point?

I am not annoyed by profiles claiming black men only, just _iew it as yet more racism where there should be none.

Since when has personal preference been classed as racism?

I know right? Geez...so many grumpy people on the forum today. Must be the weather, lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of the main reasons I like black guys is cos their skin is so silky...

.xX Jo Xx.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone specifies a race or gender of potential playmates they prefer and I don't meet that criteria then that's someone I won't ever be having sex with.

Next.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"One of the main reasons I like black guys is cos their skin is so silky...

.xX Jo Xx."
My guys skin is silky also, hes not black

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My guys skin is silky also, hes not black

That's a bonus .. lucky him lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not enough black women on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One of the main reasons I like black guys is cos their skin is so silky...

.xX Jo Xx."

I'm flaking off skin flakes- U lie harharhar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that.

The Admins would ban either sex for abuse."

Yeah, Ok, likely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

black men mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread was started to garner the exact type of response it has achieved.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"This thread was started to garner the exact type of response it has achieved. "

With the exception of my blue waffle interlude!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread was started to garner the exact type of response it has achieved. "

with the exception its changed to black men being the subject lol

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"This thread was started to garner the exact type of response it has achieved. "

As I knew it would when I responded 19 hours ago.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

who gives a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"who gives a fuck

Horny people?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that.

The Admins would ban either sex for abuse.

Yeah, Ok, likely"

You are making yourself look really silly now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?"

yes

you wouldnt get many meets tho lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?"

Black men seeking black women ....fine

Asian men seeking black women.....fine

White men seeking black women....fine

Answer to your question ....Yes completely acceptable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would it be as acceptable for men to specify black women only?

Black men seeking black women ....fine

Asian men seeking black women.....fine

White men seeking black women....fine

Answer to your question ....Yes completely acceptable "

if only you said that yesterday it would've saved a lot of time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i smell a troll

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that.

The Admins would ban either sex for abuse.

Yeah, Ok, likely

aren't you an admin?

You are making yourself look really silly now."

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that.

The Admins would ban either sex for abuse.

Yeah, Ok, likely

aren't you an admin?

You are making yourself look really silly now."

I am guessing you already know that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"let's say I were to personally abuse you in this forum, would the admins be as kind to me as to you? I severely doubt that.

The Admins would ban either sex for abuse.

Yeah, Ok, likely

I don't know who the admins are, I just garnered a guess. x

aren't you an admin?

You are making yourself look really silly now.

I am guessing you already know that."

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By *kmale421Man over a year ago

wirral

"What about blue women? I like blue ones."

That should be an interesting search, to help you out I've found you one......... Miss Blue Angel.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just fancy people as people, not colours, and some of the best looking people I have met have been terrible as sexual partners, so to have a 'type' is very limiting"

Absolutely. I myself am also politically correct with a mind so open that the wind blows through it. So when a woman with a hump on her back, a luxuriant beard, one leg and a hook on her wrist instead of a hand made a pass at me, I slept with her so that no-one could call me lots of words that end with 'ist".

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

To quote Larry David 'if we all just keep fucking each other pretty soon we;'' all be the same colour anyway'. Amen x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about blue women? I like blue ones.

That should be an interesting search, to help you out I've found you one......... Miss Blue Angel.....

Oi dont bring my name into it

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"To quote Larry David 'if we all just keep fucking each other pretty soon we;'' all be the same colour anyway'. Amen x

Question to you, unrelated to the thread I guess but still ... What made you choose you profile name "Freudian"? I m curious, thats all.

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By *ikeriderMan over a year ago

prestatyn

Now don't all jump on me I'm just thinking out loud here, especially with the Euro footy on at the moment.

If I said that I didn't want to have sex with someone because they were black it would be my preference, so that would be ok.

If I didn't want to play football with them beacuse they were black, would that be the same thing?

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Now don't all jump on me I'm just thinking out loud here, especially with the Euro footy on at the moment.

If I said that I didn't want to have sex with someone because they were black it would be my preference, so that would be ok.

If I didn't want to play football with them beacuse they were black, would that be the same thing?

"
Good point - my guess would be that it is totally ok to select a sex partner based on criteria such as height, weight, hair colour, skin colour ... whatever and to me that would not be racist at all.

Refusing to not be part of a team because another race is in that team to me would be racist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just fancy people as people, not colours, and some of the best looking people I have met have been terrible as sexual partners, so to have a 'type' is very limiting

More of this.....more of this Lmao

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"What about blue women? I like blue ones.

That should be an interesting search, to help you out I've found you one......... Miss Blue Angel.....

Oi dont bring my name into it

Thanks UKMale but I have been monitoring her for some time now

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By *admanmoonxMan over a year ago

Stanford Le Hope

"I just fancy people as people, not colours, and some of the best looking people I have met have been terrible as sexual partners, so to have a 'type' is very limiting

Are you sure you weren't 'pist' at the time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

itd be a great idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I just love reading the profiles of couples where the white husband is looking for a VWE black male to pleasure wife'. I try and imagine the self loathing that goes on inside that husbands head knowing his wife would rather be fucking a black guy over him, or the pity his wife must feel. Some really bizzare arrangements on this site for sure.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I just love reading the profiles of couples where the white husband is looking for a VWE black male to pleasure wife'. I try and imagine the self loathing that goes on inside that husbands head knowing his wife would rather be fucking a black guy over him, or the pity his wife must feel. Some really bizzare arrangements on this site for sure."

self loathing? and pity?

are you for real...

you seem to have a strange _iew of other swingers.

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rather than self loathing.....maybe the husband enjoys seeing his wife experience new pleasures.....as he has trust and confidence in the relationship?????

Isn't that what swinging as a couple is all about.....oh wait on.....you aren't couple are you???2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What an extremely naïve and foolish statement. Next you'll be saying that couples who play with single guys only do so because the husband is inadequate in bed.

I have played with black guys in a mmf situation. The reason - just fancied something different and I had never had sex with a black guy before swinging. So basically just like being in a cake shop and having a bite out of all the tasty looking pastries.

What does the OH feel when he watches me playing, well certainly not self loathing, in fact the opposite, that other guys find me attractive but I am his. A kind of 'you can enjoy only the limits we as a couple have set, you can enjoy just moments of her time but she gives herself completely to me. So a kind of power thing really.

My OH is the best lover I've ever had, prior to and after swinging, everyone else pales into comparison. Whilst I've had a good time, strangers can't play my body as he does, when I feel his touch, his tongue and cock. Its like coming home.

Soi do I feel pity for him, no not a chance cos to me he far outweighs any other sexual experience I've had. Its the single guys I pity who have deluded thoughts about being superior sexually to husbands

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

wow... if that is how you see swinging then no amount of posts are truely going to make you understand......

swinging is more about adding extra to the loving sex you already have... as opposed to using it as some sort of replacement for sex that isn't there.....

and for me that is what separates those who get it... from those who don't...

sorry.. but you have been watching one too many porn films...

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By *ove2-shareCouple over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

"It does seem that the black men only thing carries with it all manner of racial undertones about cock size and exotic/wrong pleasures. It is no surprise that the couples who claim to only want black me have y looking makes, so how bad they must feel about themselves is anybodies guess.

And yes, I am jealous of black me on here and wish I was black! lol"

is that why you keep saying black me rather than black men,?Freudian slip perhaps

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As was stated very early on, we all know what is really going on and the underlying issue the OP has.

He's read a few profiles, been interested in the look of them, possibly messaged, but they couple only require black men and he feels irritated that he's excluded from their selection.

So we then get playground stuff like, I'm as big as black men, its racist to only state black men, I'm as good looking as they are etc etc and therefore this thread was formed to hit out at them.

Stop being petulant, couples who want black men do not want you, there are plenty who are looking for white single males, go message them.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Wow, you are on a roll today

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

Wow, you are on a roll today

Think he must have just read 'How to win friends and influence people' lol

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Interesting that this post was started on a Thursday and then the OP resurrected it on a Thursday.....I did used to think weird Thursdays were a myth, but it seems not.....

Cue "Twilight Zone" music

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting that this post was started on a Thursday and then the OP resurrected it on a Thursday.....I did used to think weird Thursdays were a myth, but it seems not.....

Cue "Twilight Zone" music

I got all excited then thought you said Twiglets

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

I think it had runs it's course last week and obviously resurrected for devilement.

Might be time to shut

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