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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I started tracing my birth mother nearly two years ago, through the adoption society, and over that time i learned of loads of information regarding my birth and adoption, Up until (COVID) we just began sending letters, the last one i sent her, i enclosed pictures, Well today I have came home to a letter, with pictures, I actually got to see what she looks like, i am so happy, this letter has made my week, So a happy thread to share,    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations so happy for you, i have a similar situation to you however sadly in February i was greeted by two police officers who broke the sad news that she had passed away before i could properly get to know her |
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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago
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"Congratulations so happy for you, i have a similar situation to you however sadly in February i was greeted by two police officers who broke the sad news that she had passed away before i could properly get to know her "
Sorry to hear that 
At least you'd been able to make contact beforehand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Congratulations so happy for you, i have a similar situation to you however sadly in February i was greeted by two police officers who broke the sad news that she had passed away before i could properly get to know her "
Oh im so very sorry. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can i just thank every single person for your kind and wonderful messages. New chapter in my life to look forward too, (once covid jogs on) It was strange and wonderful staring at her picture, a face i would be too young to rem_mber, but a face that somehow seemed familiar, thanks again everyone, im going to have a glass of wine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So just a wee update, after my letter i sent one back shortly after. I had nothing back for a very long time, and obviously i began to think the worst, So back in March i sent another letter (These go through the Adoption society) and I waited and waited. And this week thank god, i got a reply, shes still with us at 83,.I also have found out i have to older sisters. So last night i sent off another letter, and i have obviously escalated things and asked for a meet, so we will wait and see we're it goes. |
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By *oGDomMan
over a year ago
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"So just a wee update, after my letter i sent one back shortly after. I had nothing back for a very long time, and obviously i began to think the worst, So back in March i sent another letter (These go through the Adoption society) and I waited and waited. And this week thank god, i got a reply, shes still with us at 83,.I also have found out i have to older sisters. So last night i sent off another letter, and i have obviously escalated things and asked for a meet, so we will wait and see we're it goes. "
Good luck! |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"So just a wee update, after my letter i sent one back shortly after. I had nothing back for a very long time, and obviously i began to think the worst, So back in March i sent another letter (These go through the Adoption society) and I waited and waited. And this week thank god, i got a reply, shes still with us at 83,.I also have found out i have to older sisters. So last night i sent off another letter, and i have obviously escalated things and asked for a meet, so we will wait and see we're it goes. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Excellent news OP. I’ve recently took in my sons gf who was fostered, since she’s been away from her oppressive foster parents she’s managed to establish a relationship with her birth mum and siblings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I the male half was adopted, and thought long and hard about tracing my real parents, not that i dont think of my adoptive parents not my real parent, but you know what i mean, but decided it would cause to much heat ache for all involved, i had a great childhood, my real parents werent married, it seems i was a result of a fling, soo i decided to be greatful for what i have, sadly my adoptive dad recently died, i was crying like a baby at the funeral, he was my dad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So just a wee update, after my letter i sent one back shortly after. I had nothing back for a very long time, and obviously i began to think the worst, So back in March i sent another letter (These go through the Adoption society) and I waited and waited. And this week thank god, i got a reply, shes still with us at 83,.I also have found out i have to older sisters. So last night i sent off another letter, and i have obviously escalated things and asked for a meet, so we will wait and see we're it goes. "
This is a truly lovely thread and I wish you every happiness in this new, exciting, yet nerve-wracking journey ... I have personal experience
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