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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can't believe how many older couples are ageist towards younger couples.
We wouldn't overlook a person because of age. Surely it's more about how we get on overall.
I know couples will say they have daughters our age but can't they get passed the mental block as age is only a number
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I overlook people due to their age. I don't want to meet someone if they're old enough to be my parent and I know some people won't be interested in me as I might be young enough to be their child and I respect that. |
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"Can't believe how many older couples are ageist towards younger couples.
We wouldn't overlook a person because of age. Surely it's more about how we get on overall.
I know couples will say they have daughters our age but can't they get passed the mental block as age is only a number
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It is called freedom of choice. People choose to have sex with who they feel comfortable with. |
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I actually just upped our age range as the guys were looking too young and I have a young son and it just feels wrong. I prefer guys a similar age to us.
You can't knock peoples preferences OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How dare they say no to you? Outrageous. Get admin on the case ASAP.
No, take it viral! Name and shame the bastards!
Just kidding. I have an age preference and I wouldn’t be attracted to someone my dads age, and I’m sure there’s lots of people my dads age who wouldn’t be attracted to me because I’m their daughters age.
I really wouldn’t appreciate someone trying to change my mind in it. We all know our own minds better than anyone else. |
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"Can't believe how many older couples are ageist towards younger couples.
We wouldn't overlook a person because of age. Surely it's more about how we get on overall.
I know couples will say they have daughters our age but can't they get passed the mental block as age is only a number
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This is really funny! Your age bracket is very specific - is it 30 - 45? If you have freedom of choice why not others? Would you play with an 18 year old or a 78 year old - age isn't just a number! |
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I know THE fittest 60yo ever I’d be on him faster than I care to admit but then I know people of the same age that I just can’t imagine in that way.
That only seems to work for older than me though, I can’t seem to fancy anyone much younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a preference and people can choose to exclude you from their swinging for whatever reason. Why get so hung up over people who simply aren't interested in you, just focus on those whose age bracket you do fit into and who you're attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There's me thinking this was a liberated and accepting lifestyle. There is more prejudice in general here than in the vanilla world.
Not disputing choice by any means but we are a couple who look at the bigger picture.
Would always prefer older as they are experienced so the sex is great whereas with a younger person inexperienced well I can show them the ropes and introduce them. Best of both worlds.
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"There's me thinking this was a liberated and accepting lifestyle. There is more prejudice in general here than in the vanilla world.
Not disputing choice by any means but we are a couple who look at the bigger picture.
Would always prefer older as they are experienced so the sex is great whereas with a younger person inexperienced well I can show them the ropes and introduce them. Best of both worlds.
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But you clearly have a restricted age range on your profile!
Are you saying you would have sex with absolutely anyone and everyone?
Age has nothing to do with experience at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a preference and people can choose to exclude you from their swinging for whatever reason. Why get so hung up over people who simply aren't interested in you, just focus on those whose age bracket you do fit into and who you're attracted to. "
We're not hung up or having a go.
It's just a comment on our experience with older couples didn't think age alone would be such a biggie |
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"There's me thinking this was a liberated and accepting lifestyle. There is more prejudice in general here than in the vanilla world.
Not disputing choice by any means but we are a couple who look at the bigger picture.
Would always prefer older as they are experienced so the sex is great whereas with a younger person inexperienced well I can show them the ropes and introduce them. Best of both worlds.
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So you are allowed to be prejudiced in your selection of those to play with (vety specific age ranges on your profile), but others aren't. Ok then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a preference and people can choose to exclude you from their swinging for whatever reason. Why get so hung up over people who simply aren't interested in you, just focus on those whose age bracket you do fit into and who you're attracted to.
We're not hung up or having a go.
It's just a comment on our experience with older couples didn't think age alone would be such a biggie"
Age, height, body shape etc etc. Anything can be a deal breaker for some people. So it might not be a "biggie" to you, but that doesn't make couples who won't meet you ageist. |
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"It's a preference and people can choose to exclude you from their swinging for whatever reason. Why get so hung up over people who simply aren't interested in you, just focus on those whose age bracket you do fit into and who you're attracted to.
We're not hung up or having a go.
It's just a comment on our experience with older couples didn't think age alone would be such a biggie"
did they actually say it was you’re age ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love not being hit on by people who are old enough to be my parents. Praise be the age filters.
Better to be ageist than messaged by people I'm not interested in.
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Find the opposite for us. Younger couples arent interested in us as we are too old.
I personally prefer younger than me guys ( I am 43) but guys in couples in their 30's are after couples in their 30's. We too old  
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's me thinking this was a liberated and accepting lifestyle. There is more prejudice in general here than in the vanilla world.
Not disputing choice by any means but we are a couple who look at the bigger picture.
Would always prefer older as they are experienced so the sex is great whereas with a younger person inexperienced well I can show them the ropes and introduce them. Best of both worlds.
But you clearly have a restricted age range on your profile!
Are you saying you would have sex with absolutely anyone and everyone?
Age has nothing to do with experience at all."
We're just going by our own experiences |
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Why on the blue fuck does everything lately end in a cunting "ist" ? That's aimed at people in general who scream "ist" and not you directly
Seriously, would you let someone piss on you if you weren't into watersports? No?.... watersportsist!
So you personally are open to people of all ages... that's cool.
I'm not.
Does that mean I won't speak to people of a certain age or shun them or be rude to them? Of course not, it just means I don't want to have sex with them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why on the blue fuck does everything lately end in a cunting "ist" ? That's aimed at people in general who scream "ist" and not you directly
Seriously, would you let someone piss on you if you weren't into watersports? No?.... watersportsist!
So you personally are open to people of all ages... that's cool.
I'm not.
Does that mean I won't speak to people of a certain age or shun them or be rude to them? Of course not, it just means I don't want to have sex with them.
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"I overlook people due to their age. I don't want to meet someone if they're old enough to be my parent and I know some people won't be interested in me as I might be young enough to be their child and I respect that."
And this is it for us we just don't want to have sex with people the same age as our kids.
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"How dare they say no to you? Outrageous. Get admin on the case ASAP.
No, take it viral! Name and shame the bastards!
Just kidding. I have an age preference and I wouldn’t be attracted to someone my dads age, and I’m sure there’s lots of people my dads age who wouldn’t be attracted to me because I’m their daughters age.
I really wouldn’t appreciate someone trying to change my mind in it. We all know our own minds better than anyone else. "
Next protest, OSM.
Old Swingers Matter..... |
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"Why on the blue fuck does everything lately end in a cunting "ist" ? That's aimed at people in general who scream "ist" and not you directly
Seriously, would you let someone piss on you if you weren't into watersports? No?.... watersportsist!
So you personally are open to people of all ages... that's cool.
I'm not.
Does that mean I won't speak to people of a certain age or shun them or be rude to them? Of course not, it just means I don't want to have sex with them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why on the blue fuck does everything lately end in a cunting "ist" ? That's aimed at people in general who scream "ist" and not you directly
Seriously, would you let someone piss on you if you weren't into watersports? No?.... watersportsist!
So you personally are open to people of all ages... that's cool.
I'm not.
Does that mean I won't speak to people of a certain age or shun them or be rude to them? Of course not, it just means I don't want to have sex with them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is what it is. I accept that younger women and couples may not want me as a play partner as I may be old enough to be their dad (or even grandad!).
In clubs however, I just go with the flow and finding out someone’s age is often not a problem. Great times with all ages.
I’ve met some lovely women near my age and their experience of life often matches mine. I am not adverse however to seeing young couples in clubs enjoy themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How dare they say no to you? Outrageous. Get admin on the case ASAP.
No, take it viral! Name and shame the bastards!
Just kidding. I have an age preference and I wouldn’t be attracted to someone my dads age, and I’m sure there’s lots of people my dads age who wouldn’t be attracted to me because I’m their daughters age.
I really wouldn’t appreciate someone trying to change my mind in it. We all know our own minds better than anyone else.
Next protest, OSM.
Old Swingers Matter..... "
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"Why on the blue fuck does everything lately end in a cunting "ist" ? That's aimed at people in general who scream "ist" and not you directly
Seriously, would you let someone piss on you if you weren't into watersports? No?.... watersportsist!
So you personally are open to people of all ages... that's cool.
I'm not.
Does that mean I won't speak to people of a certain age or shun them or be rude to them? Of course not, it just means I don't want to have sex with them.
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Well said; we are all different ! We all have our likes and dislikes when it comes to people to play with; does not mean we consider them any less a person, just don't want to fuck with them !!! |
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No such thing as ageist couples !!
We set an age range that we are comfortable with, if someone else doesn’t like that then tough. There are other things that we don’t like/want either and that our choice. We certainly won’t apologise for it or change if because somebody else disagrees
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"They are not, it is a preference. you aren’t allowed preferences on fab it causes outrage Yes it can do that too, it is a popcorn moment lol."
definitely a one for people to get their knickers twisted over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age isn’t just a number, jeeeeeez
They aren’t ageist, it’s a preference.
Don’t you have any preferences OP?
do you have a preference? "
I have many preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Age isn’t just a number, jeeeeeez
They aren’t ageist, it’s a preference.
Don’t you have any preferences OP?
do you have a preference?
I have many preferences "
I'd like to get to know them  |
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"Age isn’t just a number, jeeeeeez
They aren’t ageist, it’s a preference.
Don’t you have any preferences OP?"
This. Compatibility is what matters and you're not necessarily going to find it with a 30 year age gap. |
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There are people on here who are submissive qnd others dominant, people who prefer ladies in lingerie and other naked, some prefer same room others seperate rooms and then some who prefer there own age it is not ageist just a preference. We have tried meeting younger and given up as the conversation if different, when they are talking about modern day entertainers and we are talking Beatles and Rolling Stones they are talking X Box, It is how you get on not just the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They are not, it is a preference. you aren’t allowed preferences on fab it causes outrage Yes it can do that too, it is a popcorn moment lol. definitely a one for people to get their knickers twisted over "
Yes few knickers there lol. |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Can't believe how many older couples are ageist towards younger couples.
We wouldn't overlook a person because of age. Surely it's more about how we get on overall.
I know couples will say they have daughters our age but can't they get passed the mental block as age is only a number
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They have their preferences, and things they're not comfortable with. They don't need to change those to accommodate your sense of entitlement.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't believe how many older couples are ageist towards younger couples.
We wouldn't overlook a person because of age. Surely it's more about how we get on overall.
I know couples will say they have daughters our age but can't they get passed the mental block as age is only a number
They have their preferences, and things they're not comfortable with. They don't need to change those to accommodate your sense of entitlement. "
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