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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK guy and girls, how about this?
Have you ever had sex with someone you really should not have? I will start, I did my sisters husband on his 40th b-day as a mate of his watched.....was amazing xx |
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"OK guy and girls, how about this?
Have you ever had sex with someone you really should not have? I will start, I did my sisters husband on his 40th b-day as a mate of his watched.....was amazing xx"
Are you Baz or Claire ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one of my best mates try it on with me last year. Not nice.
I didn't have sex with, but had a 'little lick' of one of my colleagues after a night out. We couldn't look each other in the eye for days after, til I had to sit her down and say 'this is silly now'
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK guy and girls, how about this?
Have you ever had sex with someone you really should not have? I will start, I did my sisters husband on his 40th b-day as a mate of his watched.....was amazing xx"
Does your sister know ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK guy and girls, how about this?
Have you ever had sex with someone you really should not have? I will start, I did my sisters husband on his 40th b-day as a mate of his watched.....was amazing xx
Are you Baz or Claire ?"
gran now i was thinking it was claire , lol but you never know .. xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"LOL Claire here x xx
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nice to know ...... i was having very horny pics in my head on a bi mail thing going on .. lol oooo well i know now . ;p; claire did your sister find out ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK guy and girls, how about this?
Have you ever had sex with someone you really should not have? I will start, I did my sisters husband on his 40th b-day as a mate of his watched.....was amazing xx"
I get the impression you started this thread so you'd have an outlet to tell what you did, like a secret you're bursting to let out.
There are some lines you just don't cross and you and your brother-in-law (and his mate) must all look at your sister and laugh inwardly. Poor cow.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"LOL Claire here x xx
nice to know ...... i was having very horny pics in my head on a bi mail thing going on .. lol oooo well i know now . ;p; claire did your sister find out ?"
husband would have helped as he is orally bi but this was a pvte session in the sisters kitchen xx |
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"OK guy and girls, how about this?
Have you ever had sex with someone you really should not have? I will start, I did my sisters husband on his 40th b-day as a mate of his watched.....was amazing xx
I get the impression you started this thread so you'd have an outlet to tell what you did, like a secret you're bursting to let out.
There are some lines you just don't cross and you and your brother-in-law (and his mate) must all look at your sister and laugh inwardly. Poor cow. "
I suspect they aren't too savoury themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"LOL Claire here x xx
nice to know ...... i was having very horny pics in my head on a bi mail thing going on .. lol oooo well i know now . ;p; claire did your sister find out ?
husband would have helped as he is orally bi but this was a pvte session in the sisters kitchen xx"
So not only did you shag your sister's husband you pissed on her doorstep too? |
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Married women (which is awesome, by the way)
Girlfriends of friends, friends of the Girlfriend.
Client's secretary (who was engaged)
Friend's sister
I think I really have a thing for unavailable women... |
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"Married women (which is awesome, by the way)
Girlfriends of friends, friends of the Girlfriend.
Client's secretary (who was engaged)
Friend's sister
I think I really have a thing for unavailable women..."
It's not really about the sex with you is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
Even tho she is a lying cheat ?"
oh god here we go again, yawn lol |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
Even tho she is a lying cheat ?
oh god here we go again, yawn lol"
No good praying Ruby. God sees the sinners. |
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"It's not really about the sex with you is it?"
What makes you say that? I didn't go after these people *because* they were attached, it's just in retrospect that I notice that a few of them were. I didn't list the unattached people I've slept with because that's not really relevant for the thread |
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"Married women (which is awesome, by the way)
Girlfriends of friends, friends of the Girlfriend.
Client's secretary (who was engaged)
Friend's sister
I think I really have a thing for unavailable women..."
And I think you're a terrible person... |
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"OK guy and girls, how about this?
Have you ever had sex with someone you really should not have? I will start, I did my sisters husband on his 40th b-day as a mate of his watched.....was amazing xx
I get the impression you started this thread so you'd have an outlet to tell what you did, like a secret you're bursting to let out.
There are some lines you just don't cross and you and your brother-in-law (and his mate) must all look at your sister and laugh inwardly. Poor cow. "
Yep, was thinking the very same thing. Nasty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
Even tho she is a lying cheat ?
oh god here we go again, yawn lol
No good praying Ruby. God sees the sinners. "
So see you all in hell then... Lool  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
Even tho she is a lying cheat ?"
So was I, I was married at the time. |
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"It's not really about the sex with you is it?
What makes you say that? I didn't go after these people *because* they were attached, it's just in retrospect that I notice that a few of them were. I didn't list the unattached people I've slept with because that's not really relevant for the thread"
What makes me say that ?
What YOU said makes me say that.
I really have a thing for unavailable women.
Read it. It's UP there where you left it after you SAID it....
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
Even tho she is a lying cheat ?
So was I, I was married at the time. "
Ahhhhhhhhhhhh well that's okay then xx |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
Even tho she is a lying cheat ?
oh god here we go again, yawn lol
No good praying Ruby. God sees the sinners.
So see you all in hell then... Lool "
Im not going to hell fruity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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*i wonder how the OP's hubby would feel, if the OP had decided to shaghis brother on his birthday....am I jumping to conclusions that it wouldnt go past u???...ur sister ffs...really a poor choice of confession...I know it was designed as light hearted confessions etc...
next up will be those having sex with their mother in laws etc etc etc etc...
all healthy isn't it.............. |
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That is a point of view that has been aired before. Would be worse if I was the married one though, wouldn't it?"
Why would it be worse? That's a shocking lack of empathy to the other parties you've injured there.
The smirky self congratulatory tone of some of the posters in this thread is really unpleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
Even tho she is a lying cheat ?
oh god here we go again, yawn lol
No good praying Ruby. God sees the sinners. "
lol she says on a swingers site - and has been said a million times before each to their own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is a point of view that has been aired before. Would be worse if I was the married one though, wouldn't it?
Why would it be worse? That's a shocking lack of empathy to the other parties you've injured there.
The smirky self congratulatory tone of some of the posters in this thread is really unpleasant. "
Happens on a lot of threads - can't believe that some people's halos never slip and choke them lol |
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"The smirky self congratulatory tone of some of the posters in this thread is really unpleasant. "
I'm sorry if I come off that way, I'm actually just trying not to be offended by someone I don't know making value judgements about my worth as a human being based on a handful of self-selective anecdotes (This isn't a "Worthwhile things you've done that make you a good person" thread).
I certainly wouldn't say I'm an objectively good person, but on balance I'm probably the right side of ok |
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That is a point of view that has been aired before. Would be worse if I was the married one though, wouldn't it?
Why would it be worse? That's a shocking lack of empathy to the other parties you've injured there.
The smirky self congratulatory tone of some of the posters in this thread is really unpleasant.
Happens on a lot of threads - can't believe that some people's halos never slip and choke them lol"
Calling pure people doesn't take sin away Ruby |
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?"
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
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By (user no longer on site)
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That is a point of view that has been aired before. Would be worse if I was the married one though, wouldn't it?
Why would it be worse? That's a shocking lack of empathy to the other parties you've injured there.
The smirky self congratulatory tone of some of the posters in this thread is really unpleasant.
Happens on a lot of threads - can't believe that some people's halos never slip and choke them lol
Calling pure people doesn't take sin away Ruby "
I am not sinning any more than you are, but amazing how people misinterpret and assume the worse. People see other people whilst in a relationship for lots of reasons, but it is nobody else's business - and how many people know you are here and are bi? Everyone I hope! |
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I'm sorry if I come off that way, I'm actually just trying not to be offended by someone I don't know making value judgements about my worth as a human being based on a handful of self-selective anecdotes (This isn't a "Worthwhile things you've done that make you a good person" thread).
I certainly wouldn't say I'm an objectively good person, but on balance I'm probably the right side of ok"
You can judge a person by the decisions they make and the actions they perform. Based on what I've seen so far of your actions and the evident lack of remorse for them, I feel confident in saying you're a bad person.
If I come off as self-righteous, it's probably because I'm completely in the right on this issue. And you know it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
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You did, you tried to explain your interpretation of swinging and justified it at the same time. |
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That is a point of view that has been aired before. Would be worse if I was the married one though, wouldn't it?
Why would it be worse? That's a shocking lack of empathy to the other parties you've injured there.
The smirky self congratulatory tone of some of the posters in this thread is really unpleasant.
Happens on a lot of threads - can't believe that some people's halos never slip and choke them lol
Calling pure people doesn't take sin away Ruby
I am not sinning any more than you are, but amazing how people misinterpret and assume the worse. People see other people whilst in a relationship for lots of reasons, but it is nobody else's business - and how many people know you are here and are bi? Everyone I hope!"
I hope everyone knows too. No point otherwise.
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
You did, you tried to explain your interpretation of swinging and justified it at the same time."
I didn't.
I know I didn't
Everyone who can read with understanding knows I didn't
God knows I didn't
Baby Jesus knows I didn't.
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By (user no longer on site)
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That is a point of view that has been aired before. Would be worse if I was the married one though, wouldn't it?
Why would it be worse? That's a shocking lack of empathy to the other parties you've injured there.
The smirky self congratulatory tone of some of the posters in this thread is really unpleasant.
Happens on a lot of threads - can't believe that some people's halos never slip and choke them lol
Calling pure people doesn't take sin away Ruby
I am not sinning any more than you are, but amazing how people misinterpret and assume the worse. People see other people whilst in a relationship for lots of reasons, but it is nobody else's business - and how many people know you are here and are bi? Everyone I hope!
I hope everyone knows too. No point otherwise.
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I mean your family, neighbours, work colleagues, etc, after all it's nothing to be ashamed of according to you lol |
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"You can judge a person by the decisions they make and the actions they perform."
Only if you know all of the actions they've taken.
"Based on what I've seen so far of your actions and the evident lack of remorse for them, I feel confident in saying you're a bad person."
Well, Bad is a step up from Terrible
"If I come off as self-righteous, it's probably because I'm completely in the right on this issue. And you know it."
Yup. Then again, I know people who've done the same or worse, so at least I'm in good company.
Look, I really didn't want the thread to devolve into a "slag me off-fest", so if you want to send me any abuse, or discussion or whatever feel free to message me, I promise I won't block you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course they all know.
I'm a single woman.
I'm over 21 ( just )
I have consensual sex with other willing adults.
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lol so they ALL know you are a member of this site? Where's your photos? |
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"Of course they all know.
I'm a single woman.
I'm over 21 ( just )
I have consensual sex with other willing adults.
lol so they ALL know you are a member of this site? Where's your photos?"
Yes they ALL know. ALL of them.
I made sure they ALL know. EVERYONE.
I put them a photo through the letter box and asked them for a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
You did, you tried to explain your interpretation of swinging and justified it at the same time.
I didn't.
I know I didn't
Everyone who can read with understanding knows I didn't
God knows I didn't
Baby Jesus knows I didn't.
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no-one loves a clever clogs, you did! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course they all know.
I'm a single woman.
I'm over 21 ( just )
I have consensual sex with other willing adults.
lol so they ALL know you are a member of this site? Where's your photos?
Yes they ALL know. ALL of them.
I made sure they ALL know. EVERYONE.
I put them a photo through the letter box and asked them for a shag."
the bigger the ego, the bigger the mouth I guess! |
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"Of course they all know.
I'm a single woman.
I'm over 21 ( just )
I have consensual sex with other willing adults.
lol so they ALL know you are a member of this site? Where's your photos?
Yes they ALL know. ALL of them.
I made sure they ALL know. EVERYONE.
I put them a photo through the letter box and asked them for a shag.
the bigger the ego, the bigger the mouth I guess!"
I'd agree with that. |
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"Once again a thread in the forum fails to end amicably. Bit like chinese whispers lol"
well that really wasnt about the thread itself was it?????
anyway...back to cheating on ur sister with her hubby, thats what I was more interested in.I dunno how I could face my ssiter if I shagged her hubby...and he's handsome..I can say that as a straight man...however if I was bisexual...welll............now....
I fucking wouldnt do that to my sister |
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"Once again a thread in the forum fails to end amicably. Bit like chinese whispers lol
well that really wasnt about the thread itself was it?????
anyway...back to cheating on ur sister with her hubby, thats what I was more interested in.I dunno how I could face my ssiter if I shagged her hubby...and he's handsome..I can say that as a straight man...however if I was bisexual...welll............now....
I fucking wouldnt do that to my sister"
i could never do it to my sister as close ..... but some are not close and see it as nothing or getting one over on them .... no ones the same and it comes down to your values on life .. |
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
You did, you tried to explain your interpretation of swinging and justified it at the same time."
Phew what a can of worms those statements are
"Swinging isnt wrong " unfortunately the vast moral majority in this country would totally disagree with you.
Which negates that statement,its nothing more than a personal observation based on your moral landscape (mine too incidently.... )
"Cheating is cheating" does not seem to indicate or measure your moral outrage
at the op's statements its just a boolean statement = true
I could go on but surely this is about personal moral landscapes ,it is clear the OP has a different one to most and different perception of swinging where anyone appears "fair game" as long as she has an "amazing" time,if we start critiquing moral landscapes we would be doing nothing but argue,never mind swinging and we are all social lepers to the vast majority in vanilla world
Having said that ,I think the Forbidden and Taboo are exciting because they are FORBIDDEN and TABOO,for me anything against a member of your family is pretty outrageous and way out there in the no go camp..but that's my moral stance.
To quote god and sin like some famous book of rules has been broken and is to me clouding the issues this thread has raised. A lot of people do not believe in god hence the empty churches, and outside of swinging to the moral majority ,we are all going to burn in hell for merely swinging...
just my tuppence worth which i am sure i will regret posting  |
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"*i wonder how the OP's hubby would feel, if the OP had decided to shaghis brother on his birthday....am I jumping to conclusions that it wouldnt go past u???...ur sister ffs...really a poor choice of confession...I know it was designed as light hearted confessions etc...
next up will be those having sex with their mother in laws etc etc etc etc...
all healthy isn't it.............."
lol. no way would I shag my mother-in-law.... cringe at the thought.
The one person i wish i never fucked was my 2nd wife! |
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
You did, you tried to explain your interpretation of swinging and justified it at the same time.
Phew what a can of worms those statements are
"Swinging isnt wrong " unfortunately the vast moral majority in this country would totally disagree with you.
Which negates that statement,its nothing more than a personal observation based on your moral landscape (mine too incidently.... )
"Cheating is cheating" does not seem to indicate or measure your moral outrage
at the op's statements its just a boolean statement = true
I could go on but surely this is about personal moral landscapes ,it is clear the OP has a different one to most and different perception of swinging where anyone appears "fair game" as long as she has an "amazing" time,if we start critiquing moral landscapes we would be doing nothing but argue,never mind swinging and we are all social lepers to the vast majority in vanilla world
Having said that ,I think the Forbidden and Taboo are exciting because they are FORBIDDEN and TABOO,for me anything against a member of your family is pretty outrageous and way out there in the no go camp..but that's my moral stance.
To quote god and sin like some famous book of rules has been broken and is to me clouding the issues this thread has raised. A lot of people do not believe in god hence the empty churches, and outside of swinging to the moral majority ,we are all going to burn in hell for merely swinging...
just my tuppence worth which i am sure i will regret posting "
You assume me to be outraged. |
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
You did, you tried to explain your interpretation of swinging and justified it at the same time.
Phew what a can of worms those statements are
"Swinging isnt wrong " unfortunately the vast moral majority in this country would totally disagree with you.
Which negates that statement,its nothing more than a personal observation based on your moral landscape (mine too incidently.... )
"Cheating is cheating" does not seem to indicate or measure your moral outrage
at the op's statements its just a boolean statement = true
I could go on but surely this is about personal moral landscapes ,it is clear the OP has a different one to most and different perception of swinging where anyone appears "fair game" as long as she has an "amazing" time,if we start critiquing moral landscapes we would be doing nothing but argue,never mind swinging and we are all social lepers to the vast majority in vanilla world
Having said that ,I think the Forbidden and Taboo are exciting because they are FORBIDDEN and TABOO,for me anything against a member of your family is pretty outrageous and way out there in the no go camp..but that's my moral stance.
To quote god and sin like some famous book of rules has been broken and is to me clouding the issues this thread has raised. A lot of people do not believe in god hence the empty churches, and outside of swinging to the moral majority ,we are all going to burn in hell for merely swinging...
just my tuppence worth which i am sure i will regret posting
You assume me to be outraged."
nope, but I do not know how outraged you are or otherwise based on the statements you made.Is this a passive cursory observation at the op's statements and actions or a crusade,its hard to tell in txt as we lose intonation on the statements. |
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One of the things that really disturbed me about 'vanilla' dating sites was all the rampant cheating we found on them. Even some couples turned out to both be married to other people, it was fucking disgusting at times.
It's been pretty disappointing to find out that it's still just as bad on fab. We always thought that swinging was primarily about being open and honest with each other when it came to sex but I guess there's a lot of people out there that see it differently. |
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I suspect we have all done things we shouldn't have at some point. My worst was sex with my GF for about two years after I stopped having any feelings for her. It was a bad thing to do, but reasons were complex, don't regret anything in life but am ashamed of that one. |
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"Swinging isn't wrong.
Swinging isn't cheating ......
Cheating is cheating
Cheating is wrong.....
lol if it's not wrong why justify?
I didn't justify anything ...
I distinguished cheating from swinging.
You did, you tried to explain your interpretation of swinging and justified it at the same time.
Phew what a can of worms those statements are
"Swinging isnt wrong " unfortunately the vast moral majority in this country would totally disagree with you.
Which negates that statement,its nothing more than a personal observation based on your moral landscape (mine too incidently.... )
"Cheating is cheating" does not seem to indicate or measure your moral outrage
at the op's statements its just a boolean statement = true
I could go on but surely this is about personal moral landscapes ,it is clear the OP has a different one to most and different perception of swinging where anyone appears "fair game" as long as she has an "amazing" time,if we start critiquing moral landscapes we would be doing nothing but argue,never mind swinging and we are all social lepers to the vast majority in vanilla world
Having said that ,I think the Forbidden and Taboo are exciting because they are FORBIDDEN and TABOO,for me anything against a member of your family is pretty outrageous and way out there in the no go camp..but that's my moral stance.
To quote god and sin like some famous book of rules has been broken and is to me clouding the issues this thread has raised. A lot of people do not believe in god hence the empty churches, and outside of swinging to the moral majority ,we are all going to burn in hell for merely swinging...
just my tuppence worth which i am sure i will regret posting
You assume me to be outraged.
nope, but I do not know how outraged you are or otherwise based on the statements you made.Is this a passive cursory observation at the op's statements and actions or a crusade,its hard to tell in txt as we lose intonation on the statements. "
You seem to be confused as to WHO the OP is and WHAT they said and to WHOM i was responding.
I asked the OP a couple of Q's.
Never moralised with her once....
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My personal one I Shouldn't have done was my ex boyfriends dad... Was young, upset and it was wrong.. other wrong one was my teacher when I was 18...
But while I have no issue with married people.. personally I'd not touch a friend or families partner... It would be because of the family or friend connection not that it was cheating.
I'm not close to my sisters but still wouldn't.
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i had sex with my exes mate while my ex was away (he was my partner at the time) on the sofa in the flat we shared. Had terrible guilt about this!
Since breaking up with my ex I have had sex with one of his acquantances on several occasions. Feelabout that too, but not as bad as I am free and single now after all! |
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interesting thread - it's often said that the only true swingers are married couples but the vast majority would be breaking their marriage vows by swinging "forsaking all others" this is an observation not my view BTW.
But with regards to Granny saying swinging is wrong - as has been stated the vast majority of people would say swinging is wrong from a moral point of view. So at the end of the day we do what we are comfortable with and justify our actions to ourselves not to others. |
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"Ah .... I never quoted,
I wasn't speaking to the O.P when I made those simple throwaway statements. "
Fair comment granny as i said you lose so much in txt and i am sure so many misunderstandings occur in rapid fire posts,because of that,that is without my hamfisted one finger pounding of the keyboard xx  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"So at the end of the day we do what we are comfortable with and justify our actions to ourselves not to others."
What a balanced view - wish I could have phrased it as brillliantly |
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"interesting thread - it's often said that the only true swingers are married couples but the vast majority would be breaking their marriage vows by swinging "forsaking all others" this is an observation not my view BTW.
But with regards to Granny saying swinging is wrong - as has been stated the vast majority of people would say swinging is wrong from a moral point of view. So at the end of the day we do what we are comfortable with and justify our actions to ourselves not to others."
far more eloquently put than i ever could  |
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My ex wifes mum sucked me off at a wedding reception......was very d*unk on both sides. awkward for a long time after... funnily now im divorced the ex-mum in law is a friend and we get on famously...chris x |
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i had sex with my uncles friends second cousin to his etranged mother in law twice removed on his dads side --- now that would be strange if i could work it out lol |
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"i had sex with my uncles friends second cousin to his etranged mother in law twice removed on his dads side --- now that would be strange if i could work it out lol "
I've had him too ! |
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"i had sex with my uncles friends second cousin to his etranged mother in law twice removed on his dads side --- now that would be strange if i could work it out lol
Isn't that incest you perve "
dunno if it is within a legal definition ???? but certainly no a blood relative. As for perv guilty as charged lol |
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"interesting thread - it's often said that the only true swingers are married couples but the vast majority would be breaking their marriage vows by swinging "forsaking all others" this is an observation not my view BTW.
But with regards to Granny saying swinging is wrong - as has been stated the vast majority of people would say swinging is wrong from a moral point of view. So at the end of the day we do what we are comfortable with and justify our actions to ourselves not to others."
Show ME where I said swinging is WRONG ??
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"interesting thread - it's often said that the only true swingers are married couples but the vast majority would be breaking their marriage vows by swinging "forsaking all others" this is an observation not my view BTW.
But with regards to Granny saying swinging is wrong - as has been stated the vast majority of people would say swinging is wrong from a moral point of view. So at the end of the day we do what we are comfortable with and justify our actions to ourselves not to others.
Show ME where I said swinging is WRONG ??
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sorry misquoted you but what I meant was that it's only only a swingers site that someone will make a judgement that cheating is morally wrong and swinging isn't |
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"i had sex with my uncles friends second cousin to his etranged mother in law twice removed on his dads side --- now that would be strange if i could work it out lol
Isn't that incest you perve "
Ermmmmmmmmmmm ?????? pardon me - did you leasve your sense of houmor in bed or something ???? |
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"i had sex with my uncles friends second cousin to his etranged mother in law twice removed on his dads side --- now that would be strange if i could work it out lol
I've had him too !"
LOL but was he good we want to know lol |
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"i had sex with my uncles friends second cousin to his etranged mother in law twice removed on his dads side --- now that would be strange if i could work it out lol
Isn't that incest you perve
Ermmmmmmmmmmm ?????? pardon me - did you leasve your sense of houmor in bed or something ???? "
Well you seem to have if you couldn't see that I was joking |
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"Well... There was my old teacher, an ex student, my ex's best mate, my mates exes, my boss, my then bosses daughter... Take your pick!!!"
That's Darwen for ya |
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"i had sex with my uncles friends second cousin to his etranged mother in law twice removed on his dads side --- now that would be strange if i could work it out lol
Isn't that incest you perve
Ermmmmmmmmmmm ?????? pardon me - did you leasve your sense of houmor in bed or something ????
Well you seem to have if you couldn't see that I was joking"
I thought it was clearly a Joke. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Boom Boom !
I won't roll my eyes. I am never patronising to the young or the infirm.
which am i young or infirm? x"
you could be considered insane if you pick a verbal exchange with Granny...;-) |
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"Boom Boom !
I won't roll my eyes. I am never patronising to the young or the infirm.
which am i young or infirm? x
you could be considered insane if you pick a verbal exchange with Granny...;-)"
so a little from column A a little from column B? |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
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i once had sex with a friend of my mums i must say she was a lot younger than my mum she was well up for it so a few days later i took my mate round and we both had her it was a long time ago what a day |
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""Let he who is without sin cast the first stone".
Well it certainly wouldn't be me (Mrs) but I will not be airing my guilty or shameful secrets either  "
There is a slight difference between saying that you think something is wrong and stoning somebody to death though... |
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""Let he who is without sin cast the first stone".
Well it certainly wouldn't be me (Mrs) but I will not be airing my guilty or shameful secrets either
There is a slight difference between saying that you think something is wrong and stoning somebody to death though..."
Pmsl
I was just suggesting that a lot of us have done things we maybe shouldn't have, not stone the OP to death. And you're completely right we are all entitled to our opinion on whether we think something is right or wrong |
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"i once had sex with a friend of my mums i must say she was a lot younger than my mum she was well up for it so a few days later i took my mate round and we both had her it was a long time ago what a day "
Dont worry about that.
I shagged all 3 best friends of my mum in my twenties and all 3 know...
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
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"i once had sex with a friend of my mums i must say she was a lot younger than my mum she was well up for it so a few days later i took my mate round and we both had her it was a long time ago what a day
Dont worry about that.
I shagged all 3 best friends of my mum in my twenties and all 3 know...
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Pmsl
I was just suggesting that a lot of us have done things we maybe shouldn't have, not stone the OP to death. And you're completely right we are all entitled to our opinion on whether we think something is right or wrong "
Of course we have, but like you say we're entitled to make our own judgements of others. If there's no stones being thrown anyway we don't need to worry about who's throwing the first one, do we? |
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"Boom Boom !
I won't roll my eyes. I am never patronising to the young or the infirm.
which am i young or infirm? x
you could be considered insane if you pick a verbal exchange with Granny...;-)"
why give it centre stage? |
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"jeremy kyle........................
Did he put something on the end of it?"
he's just watched this show called fabswingers, he is morally disgusted,outraged...but had a secret wank backstage with one of the cameramen |
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"I love it when......others take the moral high ground, i love it when watchers finally put a thread up after watching what upsets people and BOOM!!! I LOVE THE PRODIGY....OH AND YES im a cynic "
It's not taking the moral high ground to be disgusted with someone who fucks her sister's husband - with his mate joining in - behind her back.
I'd be disgusted with anyone who did that, male or female. If the guy thinks nothing of his wife then he'll probably shag anything he can get his hands on but his wife's sister can choose not to be a party to it. If anything she should have told her sister that she was married to a lowlife. |
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"I love it when......others take the moral high ground, i love it when watchers finally put a thread up after watching what upsets people and BOOM!!! I LOVE THE PRODIGY....OH AND YES im a cynic
It's not taking the moral high ground to be disgusted with someone who fucks her sister's husband - with his mate joining in - behind her back.
I'd be disgusted with anyone who did that, male or female. If the guy thinks nothing of his wife then he'll probably shag anything he can get his hands on but his wife's sister can choose not to be a party to it. If anything she should have told her sister that she was married to a lowlife."
in total agreement.- and I'm definitely one for thinking its jeremy kyle style.If it had ever happened...I'd be hard in thinking it'd make a good forum subject.I know it wasnt the original posts intent, but it did make me think... how could I do that to a sibling..a close or estranged one.while making it sound a proud achievement. |
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I had sex with my ex's sister. This was after we had split. I probably shouldn't have but when i'm offered an all girl threesome you kind of forget. Oh yeah his best female friend was the third party!!!!! |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her."
"best mates" haha |
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over a year ago
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"I love it when......others take the moral high ground, i love it when watchers finally put a thread up after watching what upsets people and BOOM!!! I LOVE THE PRODIGY....OH AND YES im a cynic
It's not taking the moral high ground to be disgusted with someone who fucks her sister's husband - with his mate joining in - behind her back.
I'd be disgusted with anyone who did that, male or female. If the guy thinks nothing of his wife then he'll probably shag anything he can get his hands on but his wife's sister can choose not to be a party to it. If anything she should have told her sister that she was married to a lowlife."
You have wishy, by the mere fact you have called a person concerned a low life, i dont agree with what happened but i wouldnt stand in judgement either, i have my opinions as i do on all subjects but on this one YOU HAVE taken the moral high ground. Maybe it didnt happen at all and the OP is sat pissing themselves at all the outrage?, ive been on Fab a while and unfortunately im not shocked by anything anyone puts up anymore, but what does concern me is the fact lots of people jump down others throats for just doing something thats not in their own moral code.  |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha"
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs "
jeremy kyle.......................... |
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"I love it when......others take the moral high ground, i love it when watchers finally put a thread up after watching what upsets people and BOOM!!! I LOVE THE PRODIGY....OH AND YES im a cynic
It's not taking the moral high ground to be disgusted with someone who fucks her sister's husband - with his mate joining in - behind her back.
I'd be disgusted with anyone who did that, male or female. If the guy thinks nothing of his wife then he'll probably shag anything he can get his hands on but his wife's sister can choose not to be a party to it. If anything she should have told her sister that she was married to a lowlife.You have wishy, by the mere fact you have called a person concerned a low life, i dont agree with what happened but i wouldnt stand in judgement either, i have my opinions as i do on all subjects but on this one YOU HAVE taken the moral high ground. Maybe it didnt happen at all and the OP is sat pissing themselves at all the outrage?, ive been on Fab a while and unfortunately im not shocked by anything anyone puts up anymore, but what does concern me is the fact lots of people jump down others throats for just doing something thats not in their own moral code. "
If the OP has made it all up it doesn't change the fact that it probably has happened to someone else. Jeremy Kyle is full of such characters, so yes, they are lowlives for crapping all over someone they profess to love. I'd bet my life that 99.9% of them say sorry when they get caught out. Not sorry enough not to do it in the first place though.
I don't apologise for taking such a stance either as people like that make my skin crawl. |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs
jeremy kyle.........................."
We were best mates. Not any more obviously! But hey, these things happen. Wasn't planned, we just enjoyed it. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I love it when......others take the moral high ground, i love it when watchers finally put a thread up after watching what upsets people and BOOM!!! I LOVE THE PRODIGY....OH AND YES im a cynic
It's not taking the moral high ground to be disgusted with someone who fucks her sister's husband - with his mate joining in - behind her back.
I'd be disgusted with anyone who did that, male or female. If the guy thinks nothing of his wife then he'll probably shag anything he can get his hands on but his wife's sister can choose not to be a party to it. If anything she should have told her sister that she was married to a lowlife.You have wishy, by the mere fact you have called a person concerned a low life, i dont agree with what happened but i wouldnt stand in judgement either, i have my opinions as i do on all subjects but on this one YOU HAVE taken the moral high ground. Maybe it didnt happen at all and the OP is sat pissing themselves at all the outrage?, ive been on Fab a while and unfortunately im not shocked by anything anyone puts up anymore, but what does concern me is the fact lots of people jump down others throats for just doing something thats not in their own moral code.
If the OP has made it all up it doesn't change the fact that it probably has happened to someone else. Jeremy Kyle is full of such characters, so yes, they are lowlives for crapping all over someone they profess to love. I'd bet my life that 99.9% of them say sorry when they get caught out. Not sorry enough not to do it in the first place though.
I don't apologise for taking such a stance either as people like that make my skin crawl."
Im not saying you should apologise, and i dont watch Jeremy Kyle as i have better things to do with my time, i have seen trailers for it and thats enough to be honest. Im not saying its right, but its personal choice, you consider yourself better than these people you avidly watch on the tv as guests of Mr Kyle, and thats fine too. |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs "
Hey, don't just have a go at me. Have you read some of the posts on here? Im not the only one who has done something they shouldn't have. |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs
Hey, don't just have a go at me. Have you read some of the posts on here? Im not the only one who has done something they shouldn't have."
Your initial post tells me that you have only one regret.... she didn't pick you 
He was your best mate! ...you saying he never found out and you had great fun ....for eight months????
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If people cheat with Family and Friends partners, I would hate to see what they would do to people they dont like.
And before anyone else says it my halo is shining brightly. |
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i think i miss out in life if this is the type of stuff that is jermey kyle fodder. Why the hell do i work 7 days a week when i could be watching this sorta stuff on tv everyday |
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over a year ago
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"If people cheat with Family and Friends partners, I would hate to see what they would do to people they dont like.
And before anyone else says it my halo is shining brightly."
While I personally dont care what other people, including my friends do.... my own moral landscape, in want of a better word, would not let me touch the partner or friend of another friend; it is just a no go area and I would never see them as a potential partner for sexy fun - for one, my relationship with them is different and also, it just would not feel right. |
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"i think i miss out in life if this is the type of stuff that is jermey kyle fodder. Why the hell do i work 7 days a week when i could be watching this sorta stuff on tv everyday"
the assumption that the show is 'watched' isn't why I've been mentioning it so uch...however on occasions where I've been forced to watch the smarmy arsed fucking horrid man...and his guests(not ALL have been horrible), but it is something that seems to be reflective of people,, who really dont care who they fuck..happy to ruin their families and happy to broadcast it...of course...it doesnt matter if nobody finds out.
anyway...am sure theres plenty of TV online lol...catch up on all uve missed lol |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs
Hey, don't just have a go at me. Have you read some of the posts on here? Im not the only one who has done something they shouldn't have.
Your initial post tells me that you have only one regret.... she didn't pick you
He was your best mate! ...you saying he never found out and you had great fun ....for eight months????
You don't do that to your mates "
Not saying I'm perfect by any means. I'm not but if does take two. And yes I do wish she had picked me. Saying that nothing can justify if. But to be honest, I don't regret it and would do it again if I loved the woman which I did. And yes I agree, that makes me a complete b*****d. |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"If people cheat with Family and Friends partners, I would hate to see what they would do to people they dont like.
And before anyone else says it my halo is shining brightly."
Shining brightly around your ankles if I ever get chance to meet you |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs
Hey, don't just have a go at me. Have you read some of the posts on here? Im not the only one who has done something they shouldn't have.
Your initial post tells me that you have only one regret.... she didn't pick you
He was your best mate! ...you saying he never found out and you had great fun ....for eight months????
You don't do that to your mates
Not saying I'm perfect by any means. I'm not but if does take two. And yes I do wish she had picked me. Saying that nothing can justify if. But to be honest, I don't regret it and would do it again if I loved the woman which I did. And yes I agree, that makes me a complete b*****d."
It might take two to tango but it only takes one of them to say, "sorry, too close to home for me." |
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"Had an eight month affair with my best mates fiancée. It was great fun and he never found out. They are still together. Shame because I really wanted her.
"best mates" haha
Someone clearly doesn't know what a "best mate" is ....you don't shag your best mates partner behind their backs
Hey, don't just have a go at me. Have you read some of the posts on here? Im not the only one who has done something they shouldn't have.
Your initial post tells me that you have only one regret.... she didn't pick you
He was your best mate! ...you saying he never found out and you had great fun ....for eight months????
You don't do that to your mates
Not saying I'm perfect by any means. I'm not but if does take two. And yes I do wish she had picked me. Saying that nothing can justify if. But to be honest, I don't regret it and would do it again if I loved the woman which I did. And yes I agree, that makes me a complete b*****d.
It might take two to tango but it only takes one of them to say, "sorry, too close to home for me.""
Totally agree. But neither of us did say no because we both wanted eachother obviously. |
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