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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do you see other people?
I personally don't believe in leagues so if I find someone attractive I'll give it a try even if I get rejected 
How about you, do you shy away from some people or do you believe attraction is in the eye of the beholder |
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Definitely in the eye of the beholder. Me and my closest friend have always had very different taste in men but as long as we found who we were with attractive that's all that matters.
I also have multiple types too when it comes to men so I can physically appreciate a variety of body types. I tend too have more of a set type when it comes to personality traits though.
I have more of a set physical type with women though. I like curvy hips, bums and thighs. I also seem to have a preference for brunettes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don’t believe in leagues, only compatibility.
Looks aren’t all that important to me, so if I meet someone who really rates good looks, we’re not going to be compatible as I really mostly on my humour and pity to get laid  |
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Oh and I also don't believe in leagues either. Attraction is so subjective so how could people ever be placed in them. If someone doesn't fancy me back I don't think its because they're out of my "league". I'm just not their type or that spark just isn't there for them for whatever reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i guess im different from most, in that i genuinely feel like im out of most people's league.
take my partner for instance.. he's a fucking Greek god, and im over here like a bloody wallflower. it never made sense to me at all, but somehow we work.
And before that, I'd never approach anyone really, for fear of being rejected.
So maybe compatiblity outweighs 'leagues'?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually aim for the brain and we either strike a connection and giggle our way to bed or we don't. Most of my more recent gf's have been ppl I'd have thought were physically way out of my league before, however I'm beginning to see that beautiful ppl don't all see beauty in the same terms. So it's a bit like Dr Pepper, innit - what's the worst that could happen, give it a try....   |
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I do find some people physically intimidating. I naturally assume people won't find me attractive so do lack confidence. So maybe it's my own brain that needs sorting not figuring what league I may be in |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I think there are leagues. The definition of the league just is very subjective.
Attraction is a very subjective thing as well, obviously, or we would all like exactly the same thing.
That being said, attractiveness is different and there is a standardised model of attractiveness that people are force fed. Doesn't make it right or wrong, but it has created the idea of the "league".
Personally, I really don't have a type. But I know who I find attractive, and it isn't always the same thing in different people.
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