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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So today I bumped into my ex , we used to have a good sex life and often talked about swinging but it never happened when we were chatting she asked if I still liked the idea because her and her new partner are into it , she asked me to join them 1 night for some fun . But here's the thing I'm in a bit of a pickle , do I go and have fun or not , what if it opens old feelings for her and it might seem strange fucking her again . Some advice would help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So today I bumped into my ex , we used to have a good sex life and often talked about swinging but it never happened when we were chatting she asked if I still liked the idea because her and her new partner are into it , she asked me to join them 1 night for some fun . But here's the thing I'm in a bit of a pickle , do I go and have fun or not , what if it opens old feelings for her and it might seem strange fucking her again . Some advice would help "
Personally if I were you I’d go for it.
I think the sex would be amazing given the connection you’ve had.
I think it’s really beautiful. |
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"So today I bumped into my ex , we used to have a good sex life and often talked about swinging but it never happened when we were chatting she asked if I still liked the idea because her and her new partner are into it , she asked me to join them 1 night for some fun . But here's the thing I'm in a bit of a pickle , do I go and have fun or not , what if it opens old feelings for her and it might seem strange fucking her again . Some advice would help "
It might open up old feelings for her as well..... it could be the start of a new couples account for you both!!! |
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Why did your relationship with her end?
I’d be in the avoid camp too... generally an ex is an ex for a reason and if I were in a relationship and my new partner suggested we have a threesome with his ex I would tell him to do one.  |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"What does her current partner think about the idea?"
This is very important ^
Also, if you fear it might spark feelings again then I’d surmise you probably already know it will as perhaps you’ve still actually got them, or are aware there’s _mbers there that could be fanned aflame. The question (if all others are consenting) is will you be comfortable knowing you can’t have more than play with her as she’s ultimately with someone else and in doing so is that going to be healthy and fun for you or a form of self harm? Only you know the answer, and if your gut feeling is caution - then heed it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why did your relationship with her end?
I’d be in the avoid camp too... generally an ex is an ex for a reason and if I were in a relationship and my new partner suggested we have a threesome with his ex I would tell him to do one. "
we just realised we wanted different things and split as friends |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
Trying to imagine this and came to the conclusion I wouldn't with any significant ex, but could with some of the more insignificant ex's.
Only you know the answer op, probably a lot depends on how the relationship was, the reason for the break up and how the break up was. |
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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago
rochdale oldham border |
"So today I bumped into my ex , we used to have a good sex life and often talked about swinging but it never happened when we were chatting she asked if I still liked the idea because her and her new partner are into it , she asked me to join them 1 night for some fun . But here's the thing I'm in a bit of a pickle , do I go and have fun or not , what if it opens old feelings for her and it might seem strange fucking her again . Some advice would help "
Don’t be soft lad go get her fucked what’s up with ya |
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