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Nothing major. Most profiles i read on here want the face to face/cam verification. During lockdown i joined this and havent been able to talk much. I dont think anyone trusts im real so just wanted to post this as the messages i send out get deleted lol i promise im real. Hope you all are keeping safe and sane |
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I don’t think anyone will be doubting the authenticity of your profile.
I think it might be a case of bad timing, not everyone is looking to chat to new people atm. Also, lots of guys struggle to get messages back due to the volume of other single guys on the site.
Keep at it OP and I’m sure things will pick up  |
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"I don’t think anyone will be doubting the authenticity of your profile.
I think it might be a case of bad timing, not everyone is looking to chat to new people atm. Also, lots of guys struggle to get messages back due to the volume of other single guys on the site.
Keep at it OP and I’m sure things will pick up "
I would love to chat with you. How do I go about it?  |
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"I don’t think anyone will be doubting the authenticity of your profile.
I think it might be a case of bad timing, not everyone is looking to chat to new people atm. Also, lots of guys struggle to get messages back due to the volume of other single guys on the site.
Keep at it OP and I’m sure things will pick up "
Yeah what this lady said pal .. its as simple as that  |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before  but never made the difference either way ..
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My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know |
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"I don’t think anyone will be doubting the authenticity of your profile.
I think it might be a case of bad timing, not everyone is looking to chat to new people atm. Also, lots of guys struggle to get messages back due to the volume of other single guys on the site.
That could be true. I didnt know how to go about it thats all. My 1st time on here was terrible timing wasn't it thankyou for your kind comment
Keep at it OP and I’m sure things will pick up "
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"I don’t think anyone will be doubting the authenticity of your profile.
I think it might be a case of bad timing, not everyone is looking to chat to new people atm. Also, lots of guys struggle to get messages back due to the volume of other single guys on the site.
Keep at it OP and I’m sure things will pick up
I would love to chat with you. How do I go about it? "
I made a wish on a lucky penny and here you are! |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know "
To some it will to some it wont .. its a mixed bag on here .. for me too many veris are off putting but thats my take on it .. for me less is more |
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"why cant you talk during lockdown?
I mean im not sure if people see no face to face verification it could be an instant put off. I didnt know how to reach out and explain my situation thats all "
so cam with them, i dont see the problem |
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"why cant you talk during lockdown?
I mean im not sure if people see no face to face verification it could be an instant put off. I didnt know how to reach out and explain my situation thats all
so cam with them, i dont see the problem"
No. I send a message and there deleted. It happens. I tried number of times all deleted. So i cant get to cam? You know what i mean |
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"why cant you talk during lockdown?
I mean im not sure if people see no face to face verification it could be an instant put off. I didnt know how to reach out and explain my situation thats all
so cam with them, i dont see the problem
No. I send a message and there deleted. It happens. I tried number of times all deleted. So i cant get to cam? You know what i mean "
right i understand now, how about trying the chat rooms, im sure someone will be kind enough to verify you on cam there |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know "
it make me wary, especially if the guy been on fab for over a year. but if you recently joined. maybe a cam chat verification would be good |
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"why cant you talk during lockdown?
I mean im not sure if people see no face to face verification it could be an instant put off. I didnt know how to reach out and explain my situation thats all
so cam with them, i dont see the problem
No. I send a message and there deleted. It happens. I tried number of times all deleted. So i cant get to cam? You know what i mean
right i understand now, how about trying the chat rooms, im sure someone will be kind enough to verify you on cam there"
Sorry i wasnt being rude btw
I wondered if that was contributing to it thats all yeah. If im honest i have only found the forums today hahahaha. Excuse me im abit slow |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know
it make me wary, especially if the guy been on fab for over a year. but if you recently joined. maybe a cam chat verification would be good "
Thats completely understandable. Id get that. I joined maybe 2months ago? Maybe 3? Not sure. During lockdown. A lady said similar to you about camming. I havent got written reply to get to the cam yet hahaa. But if the chatrooms help il look into doing it during the days |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know
it make me wary, especially if the guy been on fab for over a year. but if you recently joined. maybe a cam chat verification would be good
Thats completely understandable. Id get that. I joined maybe 2months ago? Maybe 3? Not sure. During lockdown. A lady said similar to you about camming. I havent got written reply to get to the cam yet hahaa. But if the chatrooms help il look into doing it during the days "
If no woman will cam you then go into the chat room cams |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know
it make me wary, especially if the guy been on fab for over a year. but if you recently joined. maybe a cam chat verification would be good "
Thats fair enough to be weary .. however its never been a problem for me .. i already know of people here with fake veris as such .. most leave then come back and are verid within an hour .. all the set their profile up .. plus anyone new wont be verid so they have to start somewhere and cams are not meets imo .. for me a good few weeks convos are a good start then take it from there ..
But what was it like when the 1st few people joined this site ..would they have been verid ? .. sorry for the essay |
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It would probably just be a barrier with those people who insist on others being verified, before contact.
Op, your lack of response is likely a mix of 2 things - your being a single man and the fact that covid19 has disrupted life so much for everyone.
All single men take a long time to get much progress in terms of meets, ar the best of times.
As people haven't been able to meet for months, have had their home and work lives theown around, even if healthy, it's paused everything. |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know
it make me wary, especially if the guy been on fab for over a year. but if you recently joined. maybe a cam chat verification would be good
Thats fair enough to be weary .. however its never been a problem for me .. i already know of people here with fake veris as such .. most leave then come back and are verid within an hour .. all the set their profile up .. plus anyone new wont be verid so they have to start somewhere and cams are not meets imo .. for me a good few weeks convos are a good start then take it from there ..
But what was it like when the 1st few people joined this site ..would they have been verid ? .. sorry for the essay "
No the essey is fine haha. Yeah i didnt k ow i could cam originally. I like to chat via message then vidchat but i dont think anyone trusts it these days (plenty of reasons not too so i understand) thought this may help me thats all thanks for everyones advice btw sorry for slow replies |
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"It would probably just be a barrier with those people who insist on others being verified, before contact.
Op, your lack of response is likely a mix of 2 things - your being a single man and the fact that covid19 has disrupted life so much for everyone.
Completely fair comment. I agree. Maybe its just a mix of im not there cup of tea the single bit and also covid. Damn my luck lol thanks for comment
All single men take a long time to get much progress in terms of meets, ar the best of times.
As people haven't been able to meet for months, have had their home and work lives theown around, even if healthy, it's paused everything. "
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"nothing sexual tho just faces
Dont say that he's probably sitting ready with boy out ... anticipating "
despite being bi, im not into cam wanking lol, just trying to help him out |
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"nothing sexual tho just faces
Dont say that he's probably sitting ready with boy out ... anticipating
despite being bi, im not into cam wanking lol, just trying to help him out"
I meant perhaps hes already there waiting ... i know you got what i meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nothing sexual tho just faces
Dont say that he's probably sitting ready with boy out ... anticipating "
I think he has done a runner. He was hoping to chat with the lady. That's the risk you take with a couple. It's always 50/50!  |
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"nothing sexual tho just faces
Dont say that he's probably sitting ready with boy out ... anticipating
despite being bi, im not into cam wanking lol, just trying to help him out
I meant perhaps hes already there waiting ... i know you got what i meant "
i got it, well hes complaining about not being able to get verified, i just said i would, but no response, you cant halp some people, and he wanders why people wont talk to him |
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"nothing sexual tho just faces
Dont say that he's probably sitting ready with boy out ... anticipating
despite being bi, im not into cam wanking lol, just trying to help him out
I meant perhaps hes already there waiting ... i know you got what i meant
i got it, well hes complaining about not being able to get verified, i just said i would, but no response, you cant halp some people, and he wanders why people wont talk to him"
Well hats off pal for offering .. im sure he’s just nodded off and will back |
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"nothing sexual tho just faces
Dont say that he's probably sitting ready with boy out ... anticipating
despite being bi, im not into cam wanking lol, just trying to help him out
I meant perhaps hes already there waiting ... i know you got what i meant
i got it, well hes complaining about not being able to get verified, i just said i would, but no response, you cant halp some people, and he wanders why people wont talk to him
Well hats off pal for offering .. im sure he’s just nodded off and will back "
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Still kind of you to have offered the fella that  "
i was a single guy on here once, i know how hard it can be, so always happy to help out, but if you call people out its amazing how often they vanish, i just looked on his profile, he logged out about five mins after i made him the offer lol |
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Still kind of you to have offered the fella that
i was a single guy on here once, i know how hard it can be, so always happy to help out, but if you call people out its amazing how often they vanish, i just looked on his profile, he logged out about five mins after i made him the offer lol"
yeah it can be difficult for a guy on here .. i get that .. but hey you did offer and he dipped off .. i noticed that too |
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well some people cant be helped, i just dont understand that hes moaning about not being able to get verified, then he gets a gen offer, and runs a mile, maybe his mum told him it was bed time or something, or more likely he looks nothing like his pics |
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"well some people cant be helped, i just dont understand that hes moaning about not being able to get verified, then he gets a gen offer, and runs a mile, maybe his mum told him it was bed time or something, or more likely he looks nothing like his pics"
haha ... you have a point there ... |
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Well i didnt actually moan it was more of a question and i have only just seen the rest of the comments to this thread So i would rather carry on how i am then take up the offer after reading the rest of the comments |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know "
You're not wrong OP, it does put some people off. It's also just not great timing really, as no one can meet up so some people just aren't looking to chat to loads of new people right now.
Hang in there - you can get verified on cam in the chatrooms if that's something you would consider! |
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"Why wouldn't ppl believe you're real fella?
Apologies if it's been answered already, I'm lazy and CBA to scroll..."
Is your title a nickelback song? Haha i dont mean its a definite they dont believe just asked if others had a similar issue but its gone abit silly so I'd rather decline help now |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know
You're not wrong OP, it does put some people off. It's also just not great timing really, as no one can meet up so some people just aren't looking to chat to loads of new people right now.
Hang in there - you can get verified on cam in the chatrooms if that's something you would consider!"
Yeah A couple of mentions il go down that route. Thanks for the nice reply and advice |
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I wouldn't worry too much, if you were a female or couple profile, had been a member over a year and not verified you may trigger a few warning flags, but a single guy not being verified, especially when he is fairly new but has his face on display doesn't set any alarm bells off. |
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"Why wouldn't ppl believe you're real fella?
Apologies if it's been answered already, I'm lazy and CBA to scroll...
Is your title a nickelback song? Haha i dont mean its a definite they dont believe just asked if others had a similar issue but its gone abit silly so I'd rather decline help now "
Ignore them if ppl are rude, you've every right to post whatever yuubkikw within the rules. I post some horrendous shite.
I doubt your problem is ppl believing in you though, it's more likely to be ridiculous amount of competition due to the numbers. Don't let that phase you, be yourself and don't drop your standards.... |
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"I wouldn't worry too much, if you were a female or couple profile, had been a member over a year and not verified you may trigger a few warning flags, but a single guy not being verified, especially when he is fairly new but has his face on display doesn't set any alarm bells off."
Cheers thats all i wanted to ask see if it was a common thing. Thanks again |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know
it make me wary, especially if the guy been on fab for over a year. but if you recently joined. maybe a cam chat verification would be good
Thats fair enough to be weary .. however its never been a problem for me .. i already know of people here with fake veris as such .. most leave then come back and are verid within an hour .. all the set their profile up .. plus anyone new wont be verid so they have to start somewhere and cams are not meets imo .. for me a good few weeks convos are a good start then take it from there ..
But what was it like when the 1st few people joined this site ..would they have been verid ? .. sorry for the essay
No the essey is fine haha. Yeah i didnt k ow i could cam originally. I like to chat via message then vidchat but i dont think anyone trusts it these days (plenty of reasons not too so i understand) thought this may help me thats all thanks for everyones advice btw sorry for slow replies"
You sound like a nice guy
Good luck! |
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"Why wouldn't ppl believe you're real fella?
Apologies if it's been answered already, I'm lazy and CBA to scroll...
Is your title a nickelback song? Haha i dont mean its a definite they dont believe just asked if others had a similar issue but its gone abit silly so I'd rather decline help now
Ignore them if ppl are rude, you've every right to post whatever yuubkikw within the rules. I post some horrendous shite.
I doubt your problem is ppl believing in you though, it's more likely to be ridiculous amount of competition due to the numbers. Don't let that phase you, be yourself and don't drop your standards.... "
Cheers i wasn't moaning or lying about my appearance there not exactly catfish like ones lol. Il give the cams ago at some point cheers |
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"Im not verified ... nor do i feel the need to be ... was before but never made the difference either way ..
My 1st time here. I didnt know if no verifications is a complete off put so i wondered if this was a good way to reach out you know
it make me wary, especially if the guy been on fab for over a year. but if you recently joined. maybe a cam chat verification would be good
Thats fair enough to be weary .. however its never been a problem for me .. i already know of people here with fake veris as such .. most leave then come back and are verid within an hour .. all the set their profile up .. plus anyone new wont be verid so they have to start somewhere and cams are not meets imo .. for me a good few weeks convos are a good start then take it from there ..
But what was it like when the 1st few people joined this site ..would they have been verid ? .. sorry for the essay
No the essey is fine haha. Yeah i didnt k ow i could cam originally. I like to chat via message then vidchat but i dont think anyone trusts it these days (plenty of reasons not too so i understand) thought this may help me thats all thanks for everyones advice btw sorry for slow replies
You sound like a nice guy
Good luck! "
Me or the man who write the essay? Lol thankyou if me. Nice replies are appreciated |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
No i wont do that just giving myself a haircut atm haha"
Haha, my ten year old has been cutting mine! |
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You have joined during lockdown, people will not be expecting you to be verified so that will not be the main reason for the lack of reply. The number of single males will not be helping. If you have a veri you will not be able to display it anyhow. Cam veris really tell us nothing - you are a single man. We know that already. Concentrate on chatting on the forum and sending decent messages to those you would like to meet and have alot of patience and humour. |
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"You have joined during lockdown, people will not be expecting you to be verified so that will not be the main reason for the lack of reply. The number of single males will not be helping. If you have a veri you will not be able to display it anyhow. Cam veris really tell us nothing - you are a single man. We know that already. Concentrate on chatting on the forum and sending decent messages to those you would like to meet and have alot of patience and humour. "
Thankyou to both of you. Thats a helpful detailed message. Il stick too if n luck thats fine |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
No i wont do that just giving myself a haircut atm haha
Haha, my ten year old has been cutting mine! "
Really hows that going? How do cam lol |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
i offered him that last night, it might pay to read the thread"
Yes and because i didnt reply straight away you became across rude? Saying im moaning etc |
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"as soon as i offered to verify him, after all this is what he was in effect asking for, he went quiet, something doesnt add up here"
I dont understand what dont add up. Coz i didnt dive straight in at like 2or3am im fake??? |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
i offered him that last night, it might pay to read the thread
Yes and because i didnt reply straight away you became across rude? Saying im moaning etc"
thats not quite how i remember it, but if im wrong im sorry, and the offer still stands |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
i offered him that last night, it might pay to read the thread"
Might pay to mind your own. I think you're rude..... |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
i offered him that last night, it might pay to read the thread
Might pay to mind your own. I think you're rude..... "
thats fine, we all have our own views, i tried to do the guy a favour, anyway as they say on dragons den , im out |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
i offered him that last night, it might pay to read the thread
Yes and because i didnt reply straight away you became across rude? Saying im moaning etc
thats not quite how i remember it, but if im wrong im sorry, and the offer still stands"
It was like within minutes my questions arnt being replied too n cam at 2 in the morning. I fell asleep to see comments saying he probably dont look like his pictures etc so il decline the offer as i dont feel I'd like your help now. Thankyou anyway if its sincere |
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"P.s. I'm happy to veri anyone by cam as long as you don't try any funny business....
i offered him that last night, it might pay to read the thread
Might pay to mind your own. I think you're rude..... "
I messaged you buddy |
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