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over a year ago
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Do you know all of boundaries?
Still discovering them?
Is there a special someone you would be willing to try and push them with or are they hard limits, not to be pushed?
Let's talk about it because I'm nosey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Certain things that dont appeal to me so would never try but I would like to explore other things with the right person and someone I trust/know fairly well. |
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"Do you know all of boundaries?
Still discovering them?
Is there a special someone you would be willing to try and push them with or are they hard limits, not to be pushed?
Let's talk about it because I'm nosey "
Think those boundaries may now have a 2 week quarantine period.  |
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I have different boundaries for different situations and partners. In general, the more I trust someone the more I loosen the reins. I think that it is very important to have that flexibility whilst ensuring that I feel secure and safe. |
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Not been exploring long. But something's are a firm no, others require further testing
My boundaries are shifting as I try new things.
Trust. Yes for something this is vital. I won't let that side of me loose unless everything feels right. From the partner, time location and mood
Very fun to test them though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have different boundaries for different situations and partners. In general, the more I trust someone the more I loosen the reins. I think that it is very important to have that flexibility whilst ensuring that I feel secure and safe. "
Sweet Jesus .... your profile photo  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sparkles, I’m still in the “discovery” stage as far as soft limits go but I have hard limits I won’t budge on. "
Pretty much the same as me Lor, I'm still discovering my soft ones and definitely won't budge on my hard ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy pushing the boundaries but still have limits. It's also great to help someone try something new that they have wanted for some time. There are a couple of things that would have to be with the right person.
How about you OP? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No-one will push what I don't want to do.
They've tried before and failed "
And so they shouldn't, boundaries are there for a reason and should always be respected no matter what. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have different boundaries for different situations and partners. In general, the more I trust someone the more I loosen the reins. I think that it is very important to have that flexibility whilst ensuring that I feel secure and safe. "
Great way to discribe it, I'm very similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've a few boundaries (hard limits)
Depending if they are a good Dom would I be tempted to explore them a little bit.
Some boundaries will always stay in place xx |
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I had a count up and was to actually surprised to have quite a few fixed boundaries.
I know what I want and have pushed on my flexible ones and I now have the next stage of my fab journey ready to experience |
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"Do you know all of boundaries?
Still discovering them?
Is there a special someone you would be willing to try and push them with or are they hard limits, not to be pushed?
Let's talk about it because I'm nosey "
I know all of my boundaries and there is and never will be anyone special enough to push them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have tried a lot of different things..
Some I enjoyed and some I didn't...
I'm always looking to explore new possibilities with the right person but some things i wouldn't want to even consider |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I faced my boundaries during a major traumatic meltdown...I faced myself...now? I have no boundaries  "
Not that a meltdown is good but getting to a point where you could to that is amazing. |
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"I faced my boundaries during a major traumatic meltdown...I faced myself...now? I have no boundaries
Not that a meltdown is good but getting to a point where you could to that is amazing. "
Breakdown or breakthrough? Or both? What has emerged, the real me, is the preferred model  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I faced my boundaries during a major traumatic meltdown...I faced myself...now? I have no boundaries
Not that a meltdown is good but getting to a point where you could to that is amazing.
Breakdown or breakthrough? Or both? What has emerged, the real me, is the preferred model "
The breakthrough. Breakdowns aren't ever good but saying that as hard as they are at the time, they can be pretty cathartic. |
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By *eliWoman
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I'm still exploring my sexuality and learning about myself. There are a few things that I would have said a definite no to but now I realise they are more fluid. I do have hard limits but the rest? I think I've got the right person to explore them with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a few obvious hard limits. However within those broad boundaries I have been willing to explore. I don’t think I’ll be getting anywhere near exploring the point my soft limits harden, as I’m not sure whether I’ll be meeting post-Covid. So maybe my hard limits are closer than I thought |
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Ive got some definite boundaries, have explored close to others and adjusted them. There are likely boundaries that I would have but am not aware that they even exist at the moment. It's qualitative and quantitative. |
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