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If your boyfriend/husband said he was bi.

By *ordan02081995 OP Man over a year ago

Crosspool

If your boyfriend/husband said he was bi, how would you feel? I recently watched a show called Five Guys A Week and there was a guy on there who told a potential girlfriend he was bi, and guess what, he was eliminated the next day. It got me wondering how other heterosexual couples feel about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd be annoyed that he hadn't been honest with me before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not a swinger, I’m monogamous, so if they were bi it wouldn’t impact me. I’ve gone out with bi guys before

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

Depends on the dynamics of the relationship.

I like monogamous relationships so it wouldn't matter to me unless he wanted to have sex with other people in which case it would matter, regardless of who they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He is and I love it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am and I also love it!

I feel so sorry for bi-cur guys that have to hide their sexuality from their wife/gf but it's a tricky subject to raise and discuss if your partner is unaware. I'd assume that most bi guys that are on Fab as part of a couple are open with their partner about their sexuality but for those that are in a vanilla relationship it must be so frustrating.

It's great to see L (or any other guy/woman) turned on when they see me with another guy and that is a major part of the fun

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

Hannah wouldn't have any issues if I (Luke) wanted to have sex with guys and even if I actually went and and did it as long as it didn't impact our relationship.

I feel the same way about her with other women. She has had sex with a female friend of hers (now ours) since we've been together. I have no problem with that.

The difference is she is more interested in having sex with another woman than I am with another man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd be annoyed that he hadn't been honest with me before. "

Same

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I'd be annoyed that he hadn't been honest with me before.

Same"

And me.

Once I was past being annoyed it wouldn't bother me I'd probably fine bi guys for him.

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

I’ve been with my husband 26 years and it’s only been the last 8 months that he has thought of being with another man and that was due to me putting on the wrong genre on porn.

It didn’t bother me in the slightest quite the opposite.If he had these feelings years ago he still would have told me it’s just sad that some people need to hide who they are...

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