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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you feel horny whilst using fab?
For me and I'm guessing many others the answer is no. Infact nothing makes me feel less horny than logging on to here.
It is rarely sexy or exciting. It's messages or pics that make your cringe, forum posts that make you angry and throw in some ocassional abuse because you dare to be fussy!
However I log in because sometimes there are some good people you connect with and the forums aren't a bad boredom filler.
I wonder if it's different for others, I don't belive it's a purely woman thing. I'm positive some men must feel like that too.
Does fab make you horny?
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Did something happen to an earlier incarnation of this thread?
Because I replied to that, basically agreeing with you, OP.
It can bring you down even when you're up, and if you're down make you feel a damn sight worse  |
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I see it as a way to facilitate what I want. It doesn't make me horny for similar reasons to you, OP. But I know that if I slog through it there are opportunities that I can't get without the work. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Did something happen to an earlier incarnation of this thread?
Because I replied to that, basically agreeing with you, OP.
It can bring you down even when you're up, and if you're down make you feel a damn sight worse "
If the site can be a depressing or uncomfortable experience, why bother then?
Is it the chats or the perving that keeps one around? Genuinely curious to know. Personally if I don't find something fun, I don't engage with it. |
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"Did something happen to an earlier incarnation of this thread?
Because I replied to that, basically agreeing with you, OP.
It can bring you down even when you're up, and if you're down make you feel a damn sight worse
If the site can be a depressing or uncomfortable experience, why bother then?
Is it the chats or the perving that keeps one around? Genuinely curious to know. Personally if I don't find something fun, I don't engage with it."
To be fair, anything in life can have the same effect - bring you down suddenly even if you were up before.
Lockdown is probably exacerbating the problem. And also the reason for keep coming back.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The connections I’ve made and the people I talk to from here make me horny, the site not so much.
I enjoy the forum (most of the time), and I like posting my pics, that’s why I come here |
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"I see it as a way to facilitate what I want. It doesn't make me horny for similar reasons to you, OP. But I know that if I slog through it there are opportunities that I can't get without the work."
A hundred percent this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's our interpretation and expectations of Fab that kills mojo.
A lot of us use the site as a gap filler...you only have to read some people's posts to realise they've had complex pasts and aren't simply here to indulge in sex.
If I log in and something deflated me, it's probably how I handled it, not the site. |
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"It's just a fleshier Facebook. "
This is an extremely astute observation. I think a lot of the... let's call them "issues"... that occur on this site arise because people come in thinking that they've finally located the mythical Website Where You Can Get Sex.
It's not. It's a social network. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just a fleshier Facebook.
This is an extremely astute observation. I think a lot of the... let's call them "issues"... that occur on this site arise because people come in thinking that they've finally located the mythical Website Where You Can Get Sex.
It's not. It's a social network. "
Absolutely!! |
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It all depends on my frame of mind as to how horny it makes me. If I'm only a little I can be easily distracted into the forums and general chitchat and flirting.
But if I'm really horny then I prefer to perve and chat by inbox. If i can get the object of my attention to respond then even better  |
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I've had some very horny moments from people I've been chatting to on here. No the majority of people and photos don't do anything for me but occasionally I do find someone who sets off that spark. The forum is just entertainment for me mostly and sometimes I meet lovely people or get the chance to perve at people I wouldn't have otherwise noticed x |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
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"The connections I’ve made and the people I talk to from here make me horny, the site not so much.
I enjoy the forum (most of the time), and I like posting my pics, that’s why I come here "
Pretty much this. Most of the time I log on to chat to a few people. If I’m already feeling horny, I’m likely to upload a pic or take a conversation to the next level, be a bit more brazen in a thread or look at some pics.
I sometimes feel a bit icky when I open my filters and get grim messages, or when some people I would NOT get on with look at my profile...but all of that is within my control.
The only other time is when I feel the need for a deeper connection and get a wake up call about how superficial this all is for the most part. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
If you mean have I logged on and got an instant hard on looking at pics and profiles then not in the slightest, in fact the vast majority of the time horniness doesn't even come into it...
....however interacting with someone on my wavelength and who I have a level of connection with may have an effect on occasion but the site itself and it's contents alone don't make me horny in themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and no. Dependant on who we’re talking to / perving at. If it gets annoying taking a break helps...just say something to annoy the snowflake mods and they’ll impose it, works for me  |
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"Do you feel horny whilst using fab?
For me and I'm guessing many others the answer is no. Infact nothing makes me feel less horny than logging on to here.
It is rarely sexy or exciting. It's messages or pics that make your cringe, forum posts that make you angry and throw in some ocassional abuse because you dare to be fussy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does that to me too especially when I look at erect Jim's profile and realise I have no chance next to his magnificent of erect m_mber.
I then just wank my sorrow in front of a porn movie without porn in it. |
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