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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There’s some cranks on here I’ve just been blocked for asking someone I’ve been talking to for a month if she wanted to fuck me !! Weird  .swinging site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She clearly didn’t wanna fuck you then  just cause you’re chatting to someone on a swinging site doesn’t mean they want to fuck you, I’ve made lots of friends on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s some cranks on here I’ve just been blocked for asking someone I’ve been talking to for a month if she wanted to fuck me !! Weird .swinging site "
Maybe you should have made things clear straight off and saved yourself some time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been chatting for nearly 4weeks we discussed sex but was blocked fo the use of the word fuck a reprimand offence but blocked falls into my crank category,maybe I just need to read people a bit better,but saying that I’m genuine honest and if that offended her well FUCk |
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You have to be prepared to play the long game. She evidently wasn't ready to hear that or need to to express yourself differently.
Just because you write something in your profile it doesn't mean you can be successful talking to somebody in a way they don't like. You are not entitled to an FWB just because you said you want one and have been chatting to somebody for a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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also have to realise that there are plenty on here that talk a good game about hooking up but actually have no intention of meeting.for some its just the enjoyment of attention seeking and playing games |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No she was offered because I used the phrase do u want to fuck me .lol"
Fair enough, not the most polite way to seduce a lady...perhaps have a rethink on how crass you need to be. Would you ask a girl on a date for a fuck as you were on dessert? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile reads fb wanted the clue is in the title "
My profile reads hi handsome. It is not always directed at everyone. I do not find everyone handsome.
I chat to lots of people who are looking for a fb/fwb, it doesn’t mean I’m interested in them like that though. Sometimes I just chat to people.
Better luck next time OP. I’m sure there’s someone who’s more compatible that you’ll cross paths with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile reads fb wanted the clue is in the title "
There are ways of asking people that don't use the work fuck outright..
If you had been chatting to her for a month you should have been able to gauge how she would react... having said that she could have been looking for an excuse anyway.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just the numbers game. Some people find it bizarrely a means to treat this place like their facebook.
Some people never even look at the forums and barely acknowledge that people would want to use it.
Just different values. Doesn't mean you're doing anything intrinsically wrong with your approach.
The "so are you wanting to move this in a more tactile direction" generally works with most people I talk to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your comments each to there own opinions I thought the response was over dramatic,I consider myself a decent caring person and would not deliberately offend any body unlike some on the site ,however reading your comments I will try to be more tactile in future  |
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