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Do you do second chances?
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"We would have normally sexted for quite a while and a social before sex so that generally doesn't happen, but we would be close enough friends to talk through any issues if they did occur "
I was just asking when you do have sex the first time... even if you had all the build up but the first time it was a poor performance? |
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over a year ago
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It depends a lot on the circumstances. If he came too quickly, for example, but wasn't a jerk about it and still made me orgasm, then yes I would give him a second chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I like to think I can tell pretty early on in even chatting to someone if we’re compatible in bed, although I have been wrong once or twice. But still no. Even if we get on great in all other areas, life’s to short for shit sex. |
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I suppose you can’t expect a second chance if you cum within a few seconds and then pull up your pants and run out the door... that’s why it’s always good to have a snuggle after and build round or you could always satisfy her other ways i.e tongue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done one and at the time after a mad night it's like bullshit going through the motions and then like 3 weeks later we've met up and had the best afternoon of raunchy dirty sex and you drive away from it all thinking yep I didn't expect that |
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A bad performance isn’t just down to the man or woman.
For me it’s an incompatibility issue, which happens. You can get on via message, at the social but just sometimes it just doesn’t click in the bedroom, no natural rhythm, chemistry isn’t quite right.
If it’s a matter of someone coming to quickly or similar. I’m still bemused why this is seen as the ending. For me it’s the beginning of round two 
Every situation is different and there is no right or wrong answer to second chances |
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I suppose it’s the environment you have sex in too... sometimes it’s just uncomfortable.. and something your not used to.. I.e
Car sex ( tight and uncomfortable space)
Sex while there is 3 dogs running around everywhere
Sex when someone is unexpectedly watching and pops out of the closet lol
Or you just build things up so much that you are a volcano ready to erupt |
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Usually yes, anyone can make a poor choice or a mistake at some point. Although, if they keep making those mistakes, they are either not learning from them or not bothered with the repercussions. So then my patience would be spent. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Beggars can't be choosers sometimes!
If I fancied them but sex wasn't as expected I'd still be keen. If the attraction isn't that great and the sex wasn't, I think the feeling gets projected anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not giving someone a second chance because they sprung their load a bit early seems harsh.
And lady that came too quick I'd definitely give her another go. |
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It really does depend on what’s happened....... if we both think it wasn’t that great anyway, then not a chance. But if for example given before (shot a load too soon) this isn’t a deal breaker, it’s what’s happened over the whole evening that counts.
Mrs J  x |
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Not for me.
Sometimes people just don't hit it off in the bedroom and it's nobody's fault. It just is what it is.
It's different when you're dating and you have a vested interest in an exclusive relationship.
Not the same ball park when people are hopping from one bed to the other. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Depends on how much chemistry there is, if there's good chemistry but sex is crap the first time then I might give it a second chance. If it isn't any better the second time then I'm done. I'm not looking for a relationship so if the sex isn't good then what's the point in wasting our time? |
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"So first time you meet someone on fab for sex... if it’s a bad performance do you give him or her a second meet? Or is it a case of you only get one chance with me.. no room for poor performance? "
No |
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