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over a year ago
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude?  "
Nah. Not that high. I’d say more desperate than rude. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude?
Nah. Not that high. I’d say more desperate than rude."
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Seems to be the more desperate the ruder they get |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude?
Nah. Not that high. I’d say more desperate than rude.a
Seems to be the more desperate the ruder they get"
Can you give an example, OP? |
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Yeah, for me, my reply ratio is about 7:1.
A large proportion of women are just plain ignorant. The reason is though that they get so many messages that they don't want to reply to them all.
That being said, men aren't without their faults either. Many don't read profiles, and who in their right mind says "Hey, fancy a fuck?". |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah, for me, my reply ratio is about 7:1.
A large proportion of women are just plain ignorant. The reason is though that they get so many messages that they don't want to reply to them all.
That being said, men aren't without their faults either. Many don't read profiles, and who in their right mind says "Hey, fancy a fuck?"."
it's not rude tho not to answer messages,it does say that in the fab rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, for me, my reply ratio is about 7:1.
A large proportion of women are just plain ignorant. The reason is though that they get so many messages that they don't want to reply to them all.
That being said, men aren't without their faults either. Many don't read profiles, and who in their right mind says "Hey, fancy a fuck?"."
If the message is nice and worth a reply then I’ll reply. If not it’s a delete and block. Don’t think I’ve ever not replied to someone from the forums though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what way are they rude?
They don't reply to his messages  "
We rarely reply if the sender isn’t of interest or we’d spend all day writing emails. Deleted without a response means leave well alone as stated in site rules but some people just don’t leave it there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah, for me, my reply ratio is about 7:1.
A large proportion of women are just plain ignorant. The reason is though that they get so many messages that they don't want to reply to them all.
That being said, men aren't without their faults either. Many don't read profiles, and who in their right mind says "Hey, fancy a fuck?".
If the message is nice and worth a reply then I’ll reply. If not it’s a delete and block. Don’t think I’ve ever not replied to someone from the forums though. "
I agree with this the most  |
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude? "
In our experience it’s a bit of both, rude, arrogant and self entitled, but not everyone thankfully, It’s nice to be nice and doesn’t take much effort to say “hi thanks for the interest but you aren’t what we’re looking for”! Be excellent (Like your shirt OP) to each other! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just find all the males rude for being here and giving me a challenge and competition! Bastards!
All the women are stunning though and need to make an effort to meet me!  |
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In all honesty if you are saying people are rude when they don’t respond to your first message then I’d take that as a no or just be patient... I have sent an opening message to a women before and she didn’t respond but a few days later she said she had been busy and I got a response and we are still chatting and have agreed to meet when we can after lockdown.. just be patient or take it as the easiest way to say no... it’s nothing personal. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude?
In our experience it’s a bit of both, rude, arrogant and self entitled, but not everyone thankfully, It’s nice to be nice and doesn’t take much effort to say “hi thanks for the interest but you aren’t what we’re looking for”! Be excellent (Like your shirt OP) to each other! "
Ye i think people are just arrogrant tbh especially on here people confident behind phone screen i suppose |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude?
In our experience it’s a bit of both, rude, arrogant and self entitled, but not everyone thankfully, It’s nice to be nice and doesn’t take much effort to say “hi thanks for the interest but you aren’t what we’re looking for”! Be excellent (Like your shirt OP) to each other! "
The problem eith this, is that some people will argue back. They 'meet your criteria' for example, and genuinely do not understany why you are saying 'no' to them. |
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You have to understand that women on here get hundreds of messages each day... deleting your message with out response or blocking you is just a way for them to get through their messages and filter... it’s nothing personal.. there’s somebody out there for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s difficult replying or being polite to 30 odd people a day messaging you despite you not being what they’re looking for  "
100 percent agreed my friend shows me her inbox and its mental however all the thirsty men ruin it for the decent guys who actually hold decent convos in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s difficult replying or being polite to 30 odd people a day messaging you despite you not being what they’re looking for
100 percent agreed my friend shows me her inbox and its mental however all the thirsty men ruin it for the decent guys who actually hold decent convos in my opinion "
Which is exactly why you should read someone’s profile clearly before messaging them and then make it exceptional so you stand out |
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It depends on what you mean by being rude. A read/Deleted is the easiest and best way of saying no thanks.
I find the ones who keep replying but don't engage in the conversation more annoying. I'd rather they didn't reply at all if they're not interesting in getting to know someone.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends on what you mean by being rude. A read/Deleted is the easiest and best way of saying no thanks.
I find the ones who keep replying but don't engage in the conversation more annoying. I'd rather they didn't reply at all if they're not interesting in getting to know someone.
Yeh that sucks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, for me, my reply ratio is about 7:1.
A large proportion of women are just plain ignorant. The reason is though that they get so many messages that they don't want to reply to them all.
That being said, men aren't without their faults either. Many don't read profiles, and who in their right mind says "Hey, fancy a fuck?"."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rude is as rude does and there is no hard and fast rule on here that anyone has to say please or thank you and I’m thinking it’s more 89% rather than 90% but I’m just very very very rude.
Best of luck op.
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude?
In our experience it’s a bit of both, rude, arrogant and self entitled, but not everyone thankfully, It’s nice to be nice and doesn’t take much effort to say “hi thanks for the interest but you aren’t what we’re looking for”! Be excellent (Like your shirt OP) to each other!
The problem eith this, is that some people will argue back. They 'meet your criteria' for example, and genuinely do not understany why you are saying 'no' to them."
100% agree with this also, however, they’re in the wrong if this occurs, and after perhaps a sorry but we’ve made our minds up type message you have nothing else to say to each other, also appreciate that you probably get loads more messages than us?? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isit me or are like 90 percent of people on this site unable to hold a conversation or just straight rude? "
How do you know the percentage is that high?
And maybe they don't want to engage in conversation with you... i know a lot of men will message again if i ignore the first one..which is really annoying and often elicits either a barrage of abuse or a synopsis of the rules..before I block them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do find that you can be in the middle of a conversation with someone over a few weeks, then they go quiet, then you find out you're blocked. It's weird, but it happens. I guess no one owes anyone an explanation on here, and that can work for you or against you. |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah, for me, my reply ratio is about 7:1.
A large proportion of women are just plain ignorant. The reason is though that they get so many messages that they don't want to reply to them all.
That being said, men aren't without their faults either. Many don't read profiles, and who in their right mind says "Hey, fancy a fuck?"."
Site FAQS state no reply= no thanks. You need to loose the sense of entitlement. |
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