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Are you a good friend.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fucked my best friends wife, she was unhappy with the relationship. He found out and they sorted their differences and been happy since
Im a great friend |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I think I am. I’m a good listener and I’m totally trustworthy, always. And to be honest I’d drop anything for my friends and I have done x"
Yes you are lovely and I can confirm a great listener. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I think I am. I’m a good listener and I’m totally trustworthy, always. And to be honest I’d drop anything for my friends and I have done x
Yes you are lovely and I can confirm a great listener. X"
Likewise Lorna. We’ve chewed each other’s ears off a few times!! Haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I consider myself to be both. Its not unusual to have periods of not being in contact, I should phone people more but I'm always there if people need anything and they know they can rely on me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loyal to a fault.
Know when to listen and when to shut up.
Always there if needed, even if I am just silent in the background when you need to find it out for yourself but you need my strength.
Will hold your hair back if you have had too much to drink.
Will rescue you any time day or night.
And a whole host of other things that when being a friend should just come natural. |
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I am a good friend i'm truthful, kind , i always listen them, i never let them behind or down , i protect them more than anything because they know they can trust me. Of course all this because i deeply trust them but once the trust is broken i just walk away and i never look back . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. My friends are an extension of my family. I am ferociously loyal to those who have earned the right to call themselves my friend. In my time I've been locked up, stabbed, had my car take corners on 3 wheels, drawn blood and more for my friends.
One time I sat on the edge of a 15 storey building with my legs hanging over the edge for 2 hours because my friend was suicidal. He's fine now and we laugh about that moment. But at the time I shit enough bricks to build a new building.
So. There is a small elite group of people I call friend, and I'm proud of them all.
Associates. Or people I know that's a different thing. There are many of them
In answer to the question am I a good friend? Totally. Because my friends are good friends to me. In my world friend is a title that is earned not given. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I think I am. I’m a good listener and I’m totally trustworthy, always. And to be honest I’d drop anything for my friends and I have done x
Yes you are lovely and I can confirm a great listener. X
Likewise Lorna. We’ve chewed each other’s ears off a few times!! Haha x"
That we have.
Wait till this is over and we can do it face to face with a very large gin.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one of my friends need help I'll be there, so good on that front. Then I'm shit at keeping in touch with people and I reply to meesages in my head and then don't physically do it, so not so good there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If one of my friends need help I'll be there, so good on that front. Then I'm shit at keeping in touch with people and I reply to meesages in my head and then don't physically do it, so not so good there."
You are the worst person I know for keeping in touch!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont believe I am but my good friends always reassure me otherwise. I dont believe I am a standard ticking boxes friend. I can disappear and go in my cave. I can shower with love next day. I am a challenge but I will never bore you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve sent out a satisfaction survey to my friends so hopefully as soon as they’re back, I’ll be able to highlight areas for improvement "
I might pinch this idea. Friendship appraisal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If one of my friends need help I'll be there, so good on that front. Then I'm shit at keeping in touch with people and I reply to meesages in my head and then don't physically do it, so not so good there."
I know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
I’m the greatest friend any friend could ever want.
It has been said so it is so.
I would have guessed that about you Tender Sam "
Thank you lois49.
I think you are very good friend material as well.
That’s why I like talking to you.
If also guess you like having melted cheese nibbled off your bare breasts as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
I’m the greatest friend any friend could ever want.
It has been said so it is so.
I would have guessed that about you Tender Sam
Thank you lois49.
I think you are very good friend material as well.
That’s why I like talking to you.
If also guess you like having melted cheese nibbled off your bare breasts as well."
Erm so long as it is not a smelly cheese  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a crap friend 
I am crap at staying in touch, crap at pretending I care about what their kids are doing etc ..
I dont really want to go out that much and I'm not on social media liking anyones pictures.
I suck! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd like to think I can be but then we all like to think that don't we? I know I can be a bit needy at times, I don't often up properly to people, I can get irritated by daft things... but I do genuinely care about people. I'm not a headfuck which is something, I will always make time for my friends and listen to them for hours if need be and I'm loyal to them. I try and treat them with the kindness I'd like to be shown. And as a bonus, I don't get vomiting, sloppy d*unk so I can hold back your hair if you're that sort. |
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"I'd like to think I can be but then we all like to think that don't we? I know I can be a bit needy at times, I don't often up properly to people, I can get irritated by daft things... but I do genuinely care about people. I'm not a headfuck which is something, I will always make time for my friends and listen to them for hours if need be and I'm loyal to them. I try and treat them with the kindness I'd like to be shown. And as a bonus, I don't get vomiting, sloppy d*unk so I can hold back your hair if you're that sort. "
So you sent those text messages when you were sober?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd like to think I can be but then we all like to think that don't we? I know I can be a bit needy at times, I don't often up properly to people, I can get irritated by daft things... but I do genuinely care about people. I'm not a headfuck which is something, I will always make time for my friends and listen to them for hours if need be and I'm loyal to them. I try and treat them with the kindness I'd like to be shown. And as a bonus, I don't get vomiting, sloppy d*unk so I can hold back your hair if you're that sort.
So you sent those text messages when you were sober? "
Oh I'm a horny, talk a lot sort of d*unk. The next day the hangxiety kicks in and I regret things.  |
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"I'd like to think I can be but then we all like to think that don't we? I know I can be a bit needy at times, I don't often up properly to people, I can get irritated by daft things... but I do genuinely care about people. I'm not a headfuck which is something, I will always make time for my friends and listen to them for hours if need be and I'm loyal to them. I try and treat them with the kindness I'd like to be shown. And as a bonus, I don't get vomiting, sloppy d*unk so I can hold back your hair if you're that sort.
So you sent those text messages when you were sober?
Oh I'm a horny, talk a lot sort of d*unk. The next day the hangxiety kicks in and I regret things. "
The night and the following morning sound like fun for entirely different reasons  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friends are like flowers.... tend, nurture and grow into beautiful lasting relationships 
I don’t like w e e d s in my friendship garden - they are invasive and destroy happy plants around them "
What is your favourite flower DC? |
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After a thread I started about the worst day of my life, I would like to say that so many of you would make great friends as you all posted such heartfelt and warming comments of support and advice |
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Not many people get past all of my defences to be in the inner circle that I would class as true friends - I have lots of acquaintances, but not many people that have earnt my full trust.
For those that do get there, I am the most loyal, generous, honest, thoughtful and protective friend, I'll do anything to help a friend in need or to make them feel better when they're having a bad time.
But, I'm also really crap at keeping in touch, I worry about them to the point I'm forever asking if they're okay, and I can be a proper diva at times.
So, I guess I'm a good friend and a bad friend all rolled into one |
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"Hell no. I've disowned all my 'friends' as they were all ridiculously superficial and full of shit.
That makes me feel quite sad for you.
Why?"
I was going to come at it from another angle and say that is quite cathartic. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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You'd have to ask my friends if they think I am or not
All I can say is that I try to be, try to do the best I possibly can for them, listen to them when they need an ear, leave them to themselves when they need to be, laugh with them and cry with them, and yes tell them when I think they're wrong as well as when they are right.
If that and more makes me a good friend then that's great but I'm not the one to make the judgement. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I am a really good friend.
I'm very loyal and honest.
I won't be taken advantage of or used though.
I have a couple of good friends on here and I think they would say that I do make a good friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to think I try my best to be but it's really my friends who should be commenting.
I treat people how I'd like to be treated, isn't that what we all want..? |
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Yes i'm a good friend in real life. Can count the number of real friends on one hand, glad to have them in my life. I don't court drama and can't stand fake, superficial people so they don't even register as friends in the first place. The joy of getting older is not putting up with crap from people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not for me to say, but I supportive, give honesty and I'm loyal..... I'm not the friend that would arrive with bail money, I'm the one sat next to you in the cells  |
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My close friends want me in their lives so I will take that as me being a good friend to them, we support each other no matter what the circumstances.
Acquaintances will always come and go, we may need each other to get through a small crisis but are happy to walk away afterwards. They enrich my life and provide the variety I like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I dont really do friends.
Acquaintances, yes.
I have my family and that's enough for me.
For me friendship is transient. Different friends for different stages in life.
I miss having a "fab friend", someone to confide fab related stuff with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hell no. I've disowned all my 'friends' as they were all ridiculously superficial and full of shit.
That makes me feel quite sad for you.
Why?
I was going to come at it from another angle and say that is quite cathartic. "
It is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think im a great friend, I care deeply about those in my life but im too much of a basket case and come with MH baggage that can be draining on people. I try my best though xx |
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