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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never was fan of the term.
It means you wont include me in your will or invite me to your bday party. It means tomorrow 'we' might cease to exist/our connection and explanations wont be necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually removes this from my profile as someone said it meant i like to meet married men. I thought it meant that i did not want long term commitments. "
I did the same as you as I thought it was I am not ready for any commitments right now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck n go basically
I steer clear of profiles that say NSA sex only
Was just about to say just this  "
but on my profile it stands for nice stiff appendage  |
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We use it to mean non committal in our relationships, we are best friends and care for each other but have no urge to delve into each others personal life and can mutually walk away with no drama whatsoever, this suits us best |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use it to mean non committal in our relationships, we are best friends and care for each other but have no urge to delve into each others personal life and can mutually walk away with no drama whatsoever, this suits us best"
To me that’s friends with benefits. I guess it shows how people interpret things in different ways. x |
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"Fuck n go basically
I steer clear of profiles that say NSA sex only
Treated like a piece of meat. Not my idea of fun. "
I do not treat anyone like a piece of meat and have special bonds with several men on here but do not want them involved in my private life. Not sure if that makes sense but i am far from heartless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nsa.
Same as a 1 night stand.
No personal details swapped 
And no harm done by doing this. People on here are too quick to judge "
How’s it judging though? If it’s not something you are personally looking for people assume you’re judging. I’ve never got that. |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Nsa.
Same as a 1 night stand.
No personal details swapped
And no harm done by doing this. People on here are too quick to judge "
never said there was any harm done , theres nothing wrong with it , u do what works for u  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also if i see it on a man's profile and he can't accommodate I'd assume he's married "
I'm a single dad with 5 children I wont accommodate because of them it's not always cut and dry
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"We use it to mean non committal in our relationships, we are best friends and care for each other but have no urge to delve into each others personal life and can mutually walk away with no drama whatsoever, this suits us best"
Exactly this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also if i see it on a man's profile and he can't accommodate I'd assume he's married
Never assume.....
Makes an ASS out of U and Me  "
I'm often right though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nsa.
Same as a 1 night stand.
No personal details swapped
And no harm done by doing this. People on here are too quick to judge
How’s it judging though? If it’s not something you are personally looking for people assume you’re judging. I’ve never got that. "
I think people throw up the 'don't judge me' comment when they feel bad about something.
It doesn't matter what other people think as long as the person is happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also if i see it on a man's profile and he can't accommodate I'd assume he's married I'm a single dad with 5 children I wont accommodate because of them it's not always cut and dry"
That’s true. I know a few single dads who won’t accommodate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does NSA mean to you?
It means I get to wipe my cock on the curtains as I’m leaving 
Damn I have blinds
 are they Venetian?
Could end up slicing my bell end on them  "
They are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck n go basically
I steer clear of profiles that say NSA sex only
Treated like a piece of meat. Not my idea of fun.
I do not treat anyone like a piece of meat and have special bonds with several men on here but do not want them involved in my private life. Not sure if that makes sense but i am far from heartless "
It does make sense.
I feel it's like treating people like meat. You don't. We are just different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nsa.
Same as a 1 night stand.
No personal details swapped
And no harm done by doing this. People on here are too quick to judge "
No harm at all, After all were all adults and noone is going to be forced into doing something they dont want too do right ?
We all love a good time. No judgy judgy just loads of spunky spunky  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good to hear that there are so many variations and definitions of the term. I thought maybe I was not on the same wave length as everyone else
Do you think you can have a good friendship, of a sexual kind without strings attached? |
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"Good to hear that there are so many variations and definitions of the term. I thought maybe I was not on the same wave length as everyone else
Do you think you can have a good friendship, of a sexual kind without strings attached? "
Yes and i do with some very lovely people. The minute they want more i step back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good to hear that there are so many variations and definitions of the term. I thought maybe I was not on the same wave length as everyone else
Do you think you can have a good friendship, of a sexual kind without strings attached?
Yes and i do with some very lovely people. The minute they want more i step back. "
Can I be one?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No strings attached is what i thought it stood for?
It is 
What I'm asking for was your take on it. Like others have said further up the thread "
Like friends with benifits,but without anyone catching heavy feelings |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good to hear that there are so many variations and definitions of the term. I thought maybe I was not on the same wave length as everyone else
Do you think you can have a good friendship, of a sexual kind without strings attached?
Yes and i do with some very lovely people. The minute they want more i step back. "
I've had this before and I'm looking for it again.
I find it easy to detach my feelings but it seems some cant. |
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"Good to hear that there are so many variations and definitions of the term. I thought maybe I was not on the same wave length as everyone else
Do you think you can have a good friendship, of a sexual kind without strings attached?
Yes and i do with some very lovely people. The minute they want more i step back.
I've had this before and I'm looking for it again.
I find it easy to detach my feelings but it seems some cant. "
I think it depends on the persons expectation of NSA. Some people treat fab like a dating site and that isn’t what most here want |
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