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Longest you've gone without sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

A day will be a long time for some, for others they'll let a decade pass without thought.

For me - currently at the 18 month point.

How about you?

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By *luebellRacerCouple  over a year ago

Shropshire

It's been 3 loooong months. Hubby home next weekend!

Longest has been about 4.5 months

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

3 months .... Unwillingly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's been 3 loooong months. Hubby home next weekend!

Longest has been about 4.5 months"

A weekend to celebrate, then?

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

4 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"3 months .... Unwillingly "

I think unwillingly is the primary reason for many here!

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim

6 months

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

During tha last 10yrs with my partner we had sex about 12x as he had no interest. Very soul destroying.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To answer the subject; over a year now! In desperate need of a good seeing to by a lovely lady, d.i.y. job gets old after a while lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

7 months been the longest.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

2 years...

It was years ago though.

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast

Probably the longest was while I was married.....about 2 years. Wasnt great or frequent when I was married

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Three and a half years of my last relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

About a year when I was 22-23.

Since then I'm now in my longest dry spell, 6 months to the day

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By *hybuthornydanMan  over a year ago

grays

7yrs now ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The longest was when I was married.... maybe once a year if that.

At the moment it’s 3 months and it’s actuslly starting to physically hurt now

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By *eorge JetsonMan  over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Longest in my consensual life was 6 years.

No big deal to be honest.

Did 3 of those years without masturbating too.

Could have easily passed the entry exam to be a nun!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just over two years in late teens/early twenties and just over 18 months currently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The longest was when I was married.... maybe once a year if that.

At the moment it’s 3 months and it’s actuslly starting to physically hurt now "

Ha, I can relate! I think I've forgotten how to do it at this point...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Longest in my consensual life was 6 years.

No big deal to be honest.

Did 3 of those years without masturbating too.

Could have easily passed the entry exam to be a nun!! "

Good god (see what I did there?) that's serious willpower.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All my life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

13 years . Ex went off sex after birth .

Why did I put up for so long ..... no idea just thought he would change .

No he didn't.

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By *llez WorldWoman  over a year ago

SE London

In my younger years I couldn't even tell you, years would pass and I wouldn't really think of sex. More recently I've become somewhat obsessed and lockdown is the longest in a long time I've gone without sex. I don't even want to count the days

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By *eorge JetsonMan  over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Longest in my consensual life was 6 years.

No big deal to be honest.

Did 3 of those years without masturbating too.

Could have easily passed the entry exam to be a nun!!

Good god (see what I did there?) that's serious willpower."

I imagine this is where my premature orgasms stem from.

These days masturbating takes me around 10 seconds to orgasm and penetration finishes me instantly.

I may have unintentionally broken myself

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A few years in my 20s

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

31 months towards the end of my marriage and leaving

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

6 months basically since this January

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A lorra lorra years

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A lorra lorra years "

I'm in Herts too, I could help you with that if it wasn't for this pesky lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Longest in my consensual life was 6 years.

No big deal to be honest.

Did 3 of those years without masturbating too.

Could have easily passed the entry exam to be a nun!!

Good god (see what I did there?) that's serious willpower.

I imagine this is where my premature orgasms stem from.

These days masturbating takes me around 10 seconds to orgasm and penetration finishes me instantly.

I may have unintentionally broken myself "

I seem to have gone the other way... loads of DIY in the beginning but now I can’t even manage that!

The mind is willing but the body says NO!

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

Think being in a sexless relationship has put me off relationships for ever. Happier by myself now and in control of my own sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A lorra lorra years

I'm in Herts too, I could help you with that if it wasn't for this pesky lockdown "

Thank you for your kind offer, it’s very generous but I’m fine now. I thought we were talking in general over life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

15 1/2 years then I lost my virginity

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I had a 4 year celibacy that I chose to do after my relationship broke down, sex wasn't important in my life at all in those times

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Longest for me was 9 months. This was about 4-5 years ago. But I was using my toys, so technically not living like a reborn virgin

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Think being in a sexless relationship has put me off relationships for ever. Happier by myself now and in control of my own sex life. "

My last relationship was terrible. I'm trying to convince myself a happy, mutually respecting, sex-filled relationship does exist! Fingers crossed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I had a 4 year celibacy that I chose to do after my relationship broke down, sex wasn't important in my life at all in those times"

Interesting. Have you found that such a large break had any lasting effects; positive or otherwise?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just over 13 years....then a really naughty girl joined our class....

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By *oulja_01000Man  over a year ago

North East

Covid-19 is my answer

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I had a 4 year celibacy that I chose to do after my relationship broke down, sex wasn't important in my life at all in those times

Interesting. Have you found that such a large break had any lasting effects; positive or otherwise?"

No not physically, but mentally I was like a kid in a sweet shop on here when I first joined a year ago, it was all about chasing fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Currently two & a half years. Previously my longest dry patch was about seven years.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

3 months and counting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a 4 year celibacy that I chose to do after my relationship broke down, sex wasn't important in my life at all in those times

Interesting. Have you found that such a large break had any lasting effects; positive or otherwise?

No not physically, but mentally I was like a kid in a sweet shop on here when I first joined a year ago, it was all about chasing fun "

I know exactly what you mean by that haha

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By *olden RatioWoman  over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Longest was a year. Currently at 8 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I had a 4 year celibacy that I chose to do after my relationship broke down, sex wasn't important in my life at all in those times

Interesting. Have you found that such a large break had any lasting effects; positive or otherwise?

No not physically, but mentally I was like a kid in a sweet shop on here when I first joined a year ago, it was all about chasing fun "

That's what I expected, happy days! 2 and half more years and I'll have caught up to your streak

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By *ewrocksWoman  over a year ago

button moon

Currently at 16 months. Starting to think I'm permanently on the shelf

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By *oxyVikingCouple  over a year ago

East Anglia

Longest was 6 months when I still lived in Sweden. Viking men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Currently at 16 months. Starting to think I'm permanently on the shelf "

Sigh, I know that feeling

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By *lint-EverhardMan  over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Seventeen years.

Puberty was a bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I reckon about 6month is probably the longest for me

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

About 2 and a half years...

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By *hubaysiWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

In a previous life....11 years.

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By *rAitchMan  over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Last time for me was October 2015

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By *ngel_vs_devil33Woman  over a year ago

i’ll let you know

9 months the longest I’ve gone without and that was while in a relationship. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When my hubby was away on tour with the army we went 8 months, then 6 months a few years later.

We made up for it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

About 2 years, a while back, and now currently 6,months and counting just need to find someone to take me

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