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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is a question that can be answered in many ways, for guys Who love to receive a Bj
And vice versa, for all the ones who love servicing!
What makes oral sex special to you? what would bring it to a 10 for you? And what recommendation could you give (from your own experience) To the next person
I’ll start!
I love giving head, I love knowing I can literally please my partner in such a way with my skills, and see his head tilt back in pleasure.
A nice big cock And confident attitude always brings it to a higher level for me. Makes me greedier hah
last but not least, my recommendation for girls and guys who like to give oral.
Practice practice practice and if you truly love it, it shows in what you do! 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Rhythm."
Good one, do you like different rhythms every now and again to change or ?
I find it especially at the end, a nice pace is necessary if I wanna make him cum in my mouth. But somehow, I love it when I tease nice and slow, using my tongue and using different techniques. From licking the shaft, or focusing on the balls, or the head gently.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The woman giving it.
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So would you rather have the woman you fancy give you a not-so-good bj, or an avarage looking girl, but giving u the best head? Haha |
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"Rhythm.
Good one, do you like different rhythms every now and again to change or ?
I find it especially at the end, a nice pace is necessary if I wanna make him cum in my mouth. But somehow, I love it when I tease nice and slow, using my tongue and using different techniques. From licking the shaft, or focusing on the balls, or the head gently.
(Sorry if it sounds very detailed)"
Detailed is good for my Saturday morning horn
Yeah definitely not just one pace. Quick slow, quick, slow, then should build to the crescendo like classical music. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The woman giving it.
So would you rather have the woman you fancy give you a not-so-good bj, or an avarage looking girl, but giving u the best head? Haha"
No idea.
I don’t do average. |
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Very few women can give a good BJ but then I suspect the same could be said for blokes going down on a woman as we all like something a little different and there's no "one size fits all" so to speak
also depends on the persons mood, sometimes I like to "head fuck" Lou others I like it more gentle and let lou do the Vodo the she do so well 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The woman giving it.
So would you rather have the woman you fancy give you a not-so-good bj, or an avarage looking girl, but giving u the best head? Haha
He said nothing about looks.  "
I assumed it was meant, a woman he fancies?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be given oral sex.
When the pace is back and forth, slow and sometimes fast.
I love when you can feel someone’s warm mouth all your shaft. Their lips kissing and licking the tip after they've it wet.
Also when they’re licking the shaft all the way down to the balls and licking the balls too.
Eye contact as well when they’re looking at you with their mouth full really makes it hot too especially when you’re face fucking them.
Always love loading in someone’s mouth so their mouth smells of my load.
(As you can tell I miss getting a BJ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rhythm.
Good one, do you like different rhythms every now and again to change or ?
I find it especially at the end, a nice pace is necessary if I wanna make him cum in my mouth. But somehow, I love it when I tease nice and slow, using my tongue and using different techniques. From licking the shaft, or focusing on the balls, or the head gently.
(Sorry if it sounds very detailed)
Detailed is good for my Saturday morning horn
Yeah definitely not just one pace. Quick slow, quick, slow, then should build to the crescendo like classical music. "
Haha and you know you can’t really compete with a good Beethoven’s crescendo hahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are a few key things, I think.
Rhythm is good; it doesn’t have to be constant as changing to just a tongue tip on the bellend or sucking balls is great.
If uncircumcised, pulling the foreskin back is an absolute must. I’ve seen people give BJs with the foreskin unretracted. WTF?  That’s like massaging some through three layers of clothes. Don’t.
Teeth. Please be careful!
A FwB from years back gave the most amazing BJs. The way she held her tongue when my cock was in her mouth was different to everyone else who has given me one; so much contact on the underside of my bellend and along the length.....most time I had to ask her to stop after a couple of minutes or I’d have cum. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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How they respond to what I'm doing - whether that's their fingers tightening in my hair as I hit *that* sweet spot, their thighs lightly trembling or their soft moans and growls. Especially if they say "oh fuck" and you can hear their breathing increasing rapidly. I will never tire of hearing that. |
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Sucking cocks is not a chore it's something I love to do! Wheather it be a total stranger or my nearest and dearest.
I like to call it making love to a man's cock with my mouth, wrapping my tongue around his end and such, I also love a good face fucking brutal and hard and everything inbetween. So to me it's not just a bj! It's so much more.  |
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I love, love, love giving blowjobs. Love licking all the way up and down the shaft, paying attention to the balls, feeling a cock grow hard in the mouth... And I love the moment when he takes control and starts fucking my mouth
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The woman giving it.
So would you rather have the woman you fancy give you a not-so-good bj, or an avarage looking girl, but giving u the best head? Haha
No idea.
I don’t do average."
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me I find every man is slightly different, they have different preferences. So the thing I do is listen to him, watch his face and read his body language then adjust my technique to suit what he clearly loves.
No two cocks are the same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me I find every man is slightly different, they have different preferences. So the thing I do is listen to him, watch his face and read his body language then adjust my technique to suit what he clearly loves.
No two cocks are the same!"
Preach |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How they respond to what I'm doing - whether that's their fingers tightening in my hair as I hit *that* sweet spot, their thighs lightly trembling or their soft moans and growls. Especially if they say "oh fuck" and you can hear their breathing increasing rapidly. I will never tire of hearing that."
Meli you know exactly what was in my mind.
Although I do love that trace of the fingertips over the v area that causes the twitch in the anticipation of what delight is just about to happen to |
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"Rhythm.
Good one, do you like different rhythms every now and again to change or ?
I find it especially at the end, a nice pace is necessary if I wanna make him cum in my mouth. But somehow, I love it when I tease nice and slow, using my tongue and using different techniques. From licking the shaft, or focusing on the balls, or the head gently.
(Sorry if it sounds very detailed)
Detailed is good for my Saturday morning horn
Yeah definitely not just one pace. Quick slow, quick, slow, then should build to the crescendo like classical music.
Haha and you know you can’t really compete with a good Beethoven’s crescendo hahah "
But what a bj it would be if you could |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sloppy wet friction, good suction, a nice twist with the hand too, ball playing. Don’t forget the looking up with a mouth full and moaning because you’re enjoying it - perfect! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Gotta be the build up. The play with the suck the eye contact as you play with balls. The little bit of lube to make it more pleasurable,...the deep throat and face fuck.
Summerise it all up the technique haha |
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For me it depends on the cock and guy is how I suck. I have a standard technique but mix it up and go with the flow depending on the situation. However, I often get amazing feedback. But for me, I could never suck a dick if I didn't like the look or feel of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is making me come over all unnecessary
I'll hold you till you calm down
Would you? Thankyou  "
I meant to say hold you down on your knees. Sorry, my bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread is making me come over all unnecessary
I'll hold you till you calm down
Would you? Thankyou
I meant to say hold you down on your knees. Sorry, my bad"
Very bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd say BJs in general are special haha.
Obviously I love sex in general (who doesn't). But I find that BJs are so much more intimate. That goes for both men and women. Penetration doesn't feel as much, as it's all the way down there.
Whereas a BJ you've made the conscious effort to provide pleasure with an intimate area that "technically" shouldn't be used haha. I hope that sort of makes sense |
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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago
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"How they respond to what I'm doing - whether that's their fingers tightening in my hair as I hit *that* sweet spot, their thighs lightly trembling or their soft moans and growls. Especially if they say "oh fuck" and you can hear their breathing increasing rapidly. I will never tire of hearing that."
This thread is making me miss giving blow jobs  |
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It's the build up to the blowjob for me, tracing my fingers gently up his thighs to his groin, his cock twitching as he watches me slide up towards him, my eyes not leaving his as my mouth opens to taste him |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
Masked and Distant |
"It's the build up to the blowjob for me, tracing my fingers gently up his thighs to his groin, his cock twitching as he watches me slide up towards him, my eyes not leaving his as my mouth opens to taste him "
eye contact |
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"This is a question that can be answered in many ways, for guys Who love to receive a Bj
And vice versa, for all the ones who love servicing!
What makes oral sex special to you? what would bring it to a 10 for you? And what recommendation could you give (from your own experience) To the next person
I’ll start!
I love giving head, I love knowing I can literally please my partner in such a way with my skills, and see his head tilt back in pleasure.
A nice big cock And confident attitude always brings it to a higher level for me. Makes me greedier hah
last but not least, my recommendation for girls and guys who like to give oral.
Practice practice practice and if you truly love it, it shows in what you do!
Happy sucking"
The deliberate act of giving pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me I find every man is slightly different, they have different preferences. So the thing I do is listen to him, watch his face and read his body language then adjust my technique to suit what he clearly loves.
No two cocks are the same!"
This is very true, each has slightly different preferences And doesn’t fit all . Guess it’s a bit of a try at first different styles and see what gets them off the most |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The power I have.
Quite literally leading them by the balls. I have all the power to make their toes curl, to make them feel amazing, to tease them, to make them cum, to make them respond however I like. And the power and knowledge of that makes me feel incredibly powerful and feminine and womanly. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"The power I have.
Quite literally leading them by the balls. I have all the power to make their toes curl, to make them feel amazing, to tease them, to make them cum, to make them respond however I like. And the power and knowledge of that makes me feel incredibly powerful and feminine and womanly."
Exactly what Lily said! It's a hell of a turn on knowing you've got that much power, and this is from someone who likes to give up control during sex.
Plus, a hard cock to play with is always a fabulous thing |
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"For me I find every man is slightly different, they have different preferences. So the thing I do is listen to him, watch his face and read his body language then adjust my technique to suit what he clearly loves.
No two cocks are the same!"
Oh so this.
Listening to his breathing. Taking my time. Hearing the murmurs and gasps as I find his unique sweet spot. A gentle, sensual exploration of all the details of his cock and what various sensations do to him.
Changing it up. More submission. Him with a fistful of my hair pushing my face against his torso, his cock down my throat. Still able to explore in that position, my hand on his arse, the other tickling his balls. Usually able to reach his balls with my tongue when he's deep in my mouth... and the deep gutteral groans I often get are amazingly satisfying.
It's a giving, submissive, but also deeply powerful act. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The woman giving it.
So would you rather have the woman you fancy give you a not-so-good bj, or an avarage looking girl, but giving u the best head? Haha
No idea.
I don’t do average."
That cracked me up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Saw a meme that made me chuckle...
There are 3 types of woman:
1. I guess I could put it in my mouth
2. He's about to see God
3. Breathing is for mortals
Seemed appropriate to post here
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very few women can give a good BJ but then I suspect the same could be said for blokes going down on a woman as we all like something a little different and there's no "one size fits all" so to speak
also depends on the persons mood, sometimes I like to "head fuck" Lou others I like it more gentle and let lou do the Vodo the she do so well
Ray "
Very few in general or very few that you've had one from? |
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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago
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"For me I find every man is slightly different, they have different preferences. So the thing I do is listen to him, watch his face and read his body language then adjust my technique to suit what he clearly loves.
No two cocks are the same!
Oh so this.
Listening to his breathing. Taking my time. Hearing the murmurs and gasps as I find his unique sweet spot. A gentle, sensual exploration of all the details of his cock and what various sensations do to him.
Changing it up. More submission. Him with a fistful of my hair pushing my face against his torso, his cock down my throat. Still able to explore in that position, my hand on his arse, the other tickling his balls. Usually able to reach his balls with my tongue when he's deep in my mouth... and the deep gutteral groans I often get are amazingly satisfying.
It's a giving, submissive, but also deeply powerful act."
It is so powerful.
1. I am assuming he is clean etc
2. She wants to do this
3. Technique for the person and the moment. No 2 cocks the same but not 2 situations the same with the same cock.
4. Personally I love the variation in techniques. I remember my first deep throat very fondly.
5. But only twice have I come from oral alone.
Have fun all giving and receiving pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Eye contact, mixing it up between slow and faster pace, licking and playing with my balls, licking the head and length of of my cock, cum in mouth and on face, and maybe a sneaky finger to play with my anus while she's sucking lol.
Wouldn't mind that right about now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My special tongue flicking
I speak for every man when I say ... "Do tell"
Lol
X"
I can flick the bell end with my tongue soft or hard and very fast. Very hard to explain but men ive played with love it. I can do it to nipples too as i use my teeth like a vice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My special tongue flicking
I speak for every man when I say ... "Do tell"
Lol
X
I can flick the bell end with my tongue soft or hard and very fast. Very hard to explain but men ive played with love it. I can do it to nipples too as i use my teeth like a vice "
Bloody heck, can you catch bullets with your teeth? Haha
I joke,
Sounds amazing btw. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would say variety and experimentation!
Shaiden Rogue, looks like she knows what she's doing  "
Is that a porn star? I think tho variety is a good one and see what works for each person
Either way, I think being oral centric and passionate about it , makes the experience more pleasant
Compared to those who have the “let’s do it and get on with it” attitude
Whoever said about the porn expectation, I don’t think that much is the case, I guess people can give bad head, or below avarage.. |
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I’ve always been told I give fantastic head ... best compliment I’ve had whilst doing it is “god I wish I’d met you before your husband did” ... that was hot .... I find it’s in the rhythm ... listening to the way you breathe as you do it you can work out what they enjoy as you are doing it many many years of practice haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love giving my Mr a good blow job and everything that comes with it. It's a massive turn on for me. For me I imagine that a person has got to in some form or another enjoy performing the act or otherwise its not going to be enjoyable for him that's just my opinion anyways "
I think you have hit the nail on the head-if the person giving is really enjoying it that is the biggest turn on- helps if they can work out what is turning the receiver on of course |
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So IMHO, yes the giver has to want to be doing it, you can tell if they are going through the motions. But someone who is eager to devour your cock with their lips and tongue, that is truly arousing...
I don't really go in for The deep throat or lots of eye contact... It should be sensual, erotic, tailored to each receiver's preference by responding to moans groans and squeals of pleasure.
The frenulum is a very sensitive area worth focus, as are the balls and ass on many men.
Changes in rhythm and technique are good at the beggining and middle, but unless edging, then building to a Beethovian crescendo is definitely recommended.
And to finish, I find nothing more erotic than the act of the receiver swallowing, and love to taste my essence on their lips as we kiss after...
My Seiko embodies all of these points, and sometimes all in the same session...
... Did I mention about waking up to warm lips around your cock? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So IMHO, yes the giver has to want to be doing it, you can tell if they are going through the motions. But someone who is eager to devour your cock with their lips and tongue, that is truly arousing...
I don't really go in for The deep throat or lots of eye contact... It should be sensual, erotic, tailored to each receiver's preference by responding to moans groans and squeals of pleasure.
The frenulum is a very sensitive area worth focus, as are the balls and ass on many men.
Changes in rhythm and technique are good at the beggining and middle, but unless edging, then building to a Beethovian crescendo is definitely recommended.
And to finish, I find nothing more erotic than the act of the receiver swallowing, and love to taste my essence on their lips as we kiss after...
My Seiko embodies all of these points, and sometimes all in the same session...
... Did I mention about waking up to warm lips around your cock? "
Ha great read and I agree with what you say
Also, I used to give my ex’s a waking up Bj sometimes, under the cover |
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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago
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"How they respond to what I'm doing - whether that's their fingers tightening in my hair as I hit *that* sweet spot, their thighs lightly trembling or their soft moans and growls. Especially if they say "oh fuck" and you can hear their breathing increasing rapidly. I will never tire of hearing that."
This!! Exactly this. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I give a man oral there is nothing more satisfying than hearing those whimpers of pleasure and the feeling of his cock throbbing under my tongue. I love to read his body feeling his muscles tense and breathing deepen in response to what I’m doing. Some like to be sucked deep. Some like the feeling of my tongue stud flicking over the tip of their cock. It’s fun finding out what is going to push him over the edge.
I particularly adore sucking my Senpai. Playing slowly, gently squeezing his balls, my fingers exploring his ass, tasting his sweet precum and taking him to the point where he can’t take any more where he has to hold my head as he cums in my mouth is exquisite and so satisfying. He loves it when I swallow him deeply then kiss his lips just as deeply after so he can share the taste.
It’s such a deeply erotic and intimate act to share.
My god I want to suck him now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say variety and experimentation!
Shaiden Rogue, looks like she knows what she's doing
Is that a porn star? I think tho variety is a good one and see what works for each person
Either way, I think being oral centric and passionate about it , makes the experience more pleasant
Compared to those who have the “let’s do it and get on with it” attitude
Whoever said about the porn expectation, I don’t think that much is the case, I guess people can give bad head, or below avarage.."
Not a pornstar, amateur |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s the kiss afterwards that I like most. It’s a sensitive spot so of course a warm and wet mouth will do wonders!
This might sound odd but when I’ve given them its always the novelty of having another man’s bits. Feels naughty for some reason I can’t explain it |
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