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By *ellameow OP Couple
over a year ago
Earls Ct, london |
Eveeytime we talk with couple about it, they all say they are into it. When we meet couple it looks instead most are after a quick shag.
Please vote:
1)It is us getting it all wrong?
2)it is there are not really many people into a more tantric approach on swinging?
3) it is that swinging is mostly about getting a quick chance of new meat and people rarely can invest time on going slower and looking for a stronger connection?
Thank you for helping us getting some perspective! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So please let me add an option, what is it? "
It means weaving and expansion of energy. It's a slow form of sex that's said to increase intimacy and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful orgasms. Connection between the two people is critical for tantric lovemaking! |
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Maybe they don't fully understand what you are asking for.
Sometimes expectations aren't always met in the heat of the moment but it can still be a great experience, one to build on.
Take the lead yourself, slow it down and take things in that direction. |
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By *ellameow OP Couple
over a year ago
Earls Ct, london |
We always slow down and try to make it clear that without connection we do not work and are not just some physical exercise but we see mmso many people that do not even come at sex parties... That sometimes we feel on another planet...
Thank you for showing us we are not alone, would be nuce to hear how many of us are out there!
A quick shag is good as well but surely there is more to be achieved... |
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"We always slow down and try to make it clear that without connection we do not work and are not just some physical exercise but we see mmso many people that do not even come at sex parties... That sometimes we feel on another planet...
Thank you for showing us we are not alone, would be nuce to hear how many of us are out there!
A quick shag is good as well but surely there is more to be achieved... "
I don't think you could achieve it in a swinging scenario. I may be wrong as I am not a swinger and never been in that scenario. But if I choose a partner to do Tantric, I would prefer someone rather exclusive as you graduate to different levels as you go! |
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"We always slow down and try to make it clear that without connection we do not work and are not just some physical exercise but we see mmso many people that do not even come at sex parties... That sometimes we feel on another planet...
Thank you for showing us we are not alone, would be nuce to hear how many of us are out there!
A quick shag is good as well but surely there is more to be achieved...
I don't think you could achieve it in a swinging scenario. I may be wrong as I am not a swinger and never been in that scenario. But if I choose a partner to do Tantric, I would prefer someone rather exclusive as you graduate to different levels as you go!"
I agree with you this is something i would only feel comfortable enough to do with my husband. |
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