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over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly. 
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress  "
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much. |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much. "
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before  . I fancied the pants off him. |
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over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much. "
I was going to agree with you but its becoming too much of a habit! |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress "
Good for you for saying so. 
Don't we all want to be 'better?' I hear you though. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
I was going to agree with you but its becoming too much of a habit! "
Haha it is!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him. "
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really. "
I think it's because we try to hide it.
I was ashamed to take my top off up until I was 20? Because I was so skinny. Once that went away I was ashamed because I was pale. I try to accept it more now but there are still things I'm very self conscious about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
I think it's because we try to hide it.
I was ashamed to take my top off up until I was 20? Because I was so skinny. Once that went away I was ashamed because I was pale. I try to accept it more now but there are still things I'm very self conscious about "
At least you can admit it. That’s good. More men should. For the record I think you have a lovely body but, as I know, it makes no difference what anyone else says. You have to be happy and confident in yourself x |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really. "
Yeah. He wasn't fat but he was a broad, ruby player build. He was convinced only slim, toned guys were attractive. It made me sad. |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
I think it's because we try to hide it.
I was ashamed to take my top off up until I was 20? Because I was so skinny. Once that went away I was ashamed because I was pale. I try to accept it more now but there are still things I'm very self conscious about "
I make albinos look tanned  |
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"My insecurities plagued me all the way through to my early thirties. It’s only the last 5 years I’ve managed to start being comfortable with myself. "
That's good to hear, self love is very important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Yeah. He wasn't fat but he was a broad, ruby player build. He was convinced only slim, toned guys were attractive. It made me sad. "
To be honest it would probably make me like him even more. I’m not keen on over confident men anyway. |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really. "
Ex had a beard because his family all had a slightly weak chin that made them look like they had double chins. He was really conscious of it; I didn't notice until he pointed it out.
Otherwise I've had guys conscious about their moobs (one to the point of having surgery) or their hairyness, but I've enjoyed them all.
I agree with the thought that guys have as many issues as women, they just discuss it less. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
I think it's because we try to hide it.
I was ashamed to take my top off up until I was 20? Because I was so skinny. Once that went away I was ashamed because I was pale. I try to accept it more now but there are still things I'm very self conscious about
At least you can admit it. That’s good. More men should. For the record I think you have a lovely body but, as I know, it makes no difference what anyone else says. You have to be happy and confident in yourself x"
Exactly, if you're not comfortable with yourself no amount of telling from other people will change it.
Working towards a better you, will |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really. "
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
I think it's because we try to hide it.
I was ashamed to take my top off up until I was 20? Because I was so skinny. Once that went away I was ashamed because I was pale. I try to accept it more now but there are still things I'm very self conscious about
At least you can admit it. That’s good. More men should. For the record I think you have a lovely body but, as I know, it makes no difference what anyone else says. You have to be happy and confident in yourself x
Exactly, if you're not comfortable with yourself no amount of telling from other people will change it.
Working towards a better you, will "
It’s true. I really believe that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily "
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly. |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Ex had a beard because his family all had a slightly weak chin that made them look like they had double chins. He was really conscious of it; I didn't notice until he pointed it out.
Otherwise I've had guys conscious about their moobs (one to the point of having surgery) or their hairyness, but I've enjoyed them all.
I agree with the thought that guys have as many issues as women, they just discuss it less."
Yep my partner was self conscious about being slim when we first met. I had another ex who was bothered by having a hairy stomach. |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly. "
Agree, it’s convincing them of that |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly. "
The ability to be vulnerable is certainly endearing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that "
Yep. True |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that "
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly. |
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"I'm self conscious when doing reverse cowgirl sure they do it so they don't have to look at my ugly mug "
I don’t like that position as I break cocks in half so I wouldn’t. I’d look at your lovely face |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly."
Who called them less manly ... no one ! It is society and their own perception that they can’t show their insecurities and something that seriously needs to change |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly."
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be. |
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"I'm self conscious when doing reverse cowgirl sure they do it so they don't have to look at my ugly mug
I don’t like that position as I break cocks in half so I wouldn’t. I’d look at your lovely face "
He has got a lovely face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
Who called them less manly ... no one ! It is society and their own perception that they can’t show their insecurities and something that seriously needs to change "
Someone said it's more manly to admit to things and show emotions.
Don't shame them into it, encourage them to come out.
The same words can be interpreted completely different by two different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly."
Oh. Were you referring to my comment? |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
Who called them less manly ... no one ! It is society and their own perception that they can’t show their insecurities and something that seriously needs to change
Someone said it's more manly to admit to things and show emotions.
Don't shame them into it, encourage them to come out.
The same words can be interpreted completely different by two different people."
Ah you were referring to my comment. Sorry.
Yes that’s my personal opinion. I think it is. |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
Who called them less manly ... no one ! It is society and their own perception that they can’t show their insecurities and something that seriously needs to change
Someone said it's more manly to admit to things and show emotions.
Don't shame them into it, encourage them to come out.
The same words can be interpreted completely different by two different people."
and you are definitely reading the message wrong by the words you are returning with |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be. "
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged. |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged."
I think you’re talking about my comment not hers. I’m confused!!! |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged.
I think you’re talking about my comment not hers. I’m confused!!! "
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged."
Again read.... I didn’t say it was more manly ! |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged.
I think you’re talking about my comment not hers. I’m confused!!!
Probably "
Haha. Anyway. I’m not sure it was taken as it was meant. But to sum up I don’t think it should be seen as “not manly” to admit insecurities and emotions. I think times are changing slowly though in that respect, for the good x |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged.
Again read.... I didn’t say it was more manly ! "
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged.
I think you’re talking about my comment not hers. I’m confused!!!
Probably
Haha. Anyway. I’m not sure it was taken as it was meant. But to sum up I don’t think it should be seen as “not manly” to admit insecurities and emotions. I think times are changing slowly though in that respect, for the good x"
I know that and I know what you meant, but like I said and as you can see two people can interpret the same words differently |
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"Are there any sex positions or acts that make you feel self-conscious?
Oooh another! Reverse 69 me on top  not comfortable teabagging my wife!!
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I actually prefer it that way! |
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"Are there any sex positions or acts that make you feel self-conscious?
Oooh another! Reverse 69 me on top not comfortable teabagging my wife!!
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That made me laugh, I would be more concerned that I'm jabbing at her mouth or something |
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When the woman wants picking up and taking it against the wall and I'm not sure I can lift her. Got a sweat on just typing it I've tried the gym to put abit of muscle on but it bores me to tears so I'll just have to live with it I suppose  |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged.
I think you’re talking about my comment not hers. I’m confused!!!
Probably
Haha. Anyway. I’m not sure it was taken as it was meant. But to sum up I don’t think it should be seen as “not manly” to admit insecurities and emotions. I think times are changing slowly though in that respect, for the good x
I know that and I know what you meant, but like I said and as you can see two people can interpret the same words differently "
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Oooh another! Reverse 69 me on top not comfortable teabagging my wife!!
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I actually prefer it that way!"
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I met a girl who liked to try new sexual positions. She wanted to do it standing up while balancing on one leg. It was interesting but we didn't get off on the right foot! |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
Not so publicly.
Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress
I think more men are than we think. They perhaps don’t admit it as much.
Yeah. I've had to convince a guy to take their shirt off before . I fancied the pants off him.
Really? You just never seem to hear about men being insecure about their bodies really.
Because it’s not ‘manly’ to admit being insecure about anything ! There are plenty out there that are insecure about their bodies and you see it on here with various comments, daily
Personally I think it’s more manly to actually admit things and show emotions etc. Much more manly.
Agree, it’s convincing them of that
I don't think calling men less manly for being too insecure to come out is the way to go honestly.
I don’t think she was saying that. It’s very often perceived as less manly when men talk about their insecurities and emotions etc. Which it shouldn’t be.
I know, but when you go and say it's more manly then the opposite of that is less manly. I know she meant well but someone who is already very insecure can perceive it negatively rather than be encouraged.
Again read.... I didn’t say it was more manly !
I quoted wrong person, sorry "
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"When the woman wants picking up and taking it against the wall and I'm not sure I can lift her. Got a sweat on just typing it I've tried the gym to put abit of muscle on but it bores me to tears so I'll just have to live with it I suppose "
I had something similar happen. When I did pick up a lady and she got scared that my cheese string arms would drop her |
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"Are there any sex positions or acts that make you feel self-conscious?
Oooh another! Reverse 69 me on top not comfortable teabagging my wife!!
D.
I actually prefer it that way!
What? Teabagging his wife??? "
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"Are there any sex positions or acts that make you feel self-conscious?
Oooh another! Reverse 69 me on top not comfortable teabagging my wife!!
D.
I actually prefer it that way!
What? Teabagging his wife???
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"Are there any sex positions or acts that make you feel self-conscious?
Oooh another! Reverse 69 me on top not comfortable teabagging my wife!!
D.
I actually prefer it that way!"
Jo prefers to be on top, but sometimes she wants me on top, in these instances I’m concentrating on sucking my balls in
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"Are there any sex positions or acts that make you feel self-conscious?
Oooh another! Reverse 69 me on top not comfortable teabagging my wife!!
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That made me laugh, I would be more concerned that I'm jabbing at her mouth or something "
that too of course
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God I'm always worried about if I'm heavy when they try this. Probably better for everyone to keep things on solid ground . |
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"When the woman wants picking up and taking it against the wall and I'm not sure I can lift her. Got a sweat on just typing it I've tried the gym to put abit of muscle on but it bores me to tears so I'll just have to live with it I suppose
I had something similar happen. When I did pick up a lady and she got scared that my cheese string arms would drop her "
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Jo.Xx "
I think with men there has to be a trust element. It may not be so much about the insecurity as the embarrassment..... depends who you’re with and how much confidence they instil in the perceived prowess..... if that makes sense |
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"When the woman wants picking up and taking it against the wall and I'm not sure I can lift her. Got a sweat on just typing it I've tried the gym to put abit of muscle on but it bores me to tears so I'll just have to live with it I suppose
God I'm always worried about if I'm heavy when they try this. Probably better for everyone to keep things on solid ground ."
I couldn't agree more solid ground is definitely for the best. It saves the embarrassment over my pencil arms haha |
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"When the woman wants picking up and taking it against the wall and I'm not sure I can lift her. Got a sweat on just typing it I've tried the gym to put abit of muscle on but it bores me to tears so I'll just have to live with it I suppose
God I'm always worried about if I'm heavy when they try this. Probably better for everyone to keep things on solid ground .
I couldn't agree more solid ground is definitely for the best. It saves the embarrassment over my pencil arms haha "
Honestly you men impress me just with your ability to hold yourself up when you're on top. My shoulders would be in bits . |
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"Are there any sex positions or acts that make you feel self-conscious?"
Hi Im mr Pierced lots lol.Dont know about positions but I feel very self conscious in clubs. On the one hand , I have learned that people come in all shapes and sizes and the we all have our body hangups but I find it difficult to get hard on demand and get very self conscious about it . Feel like I am being scrutinised by other men. (which I probably aren't)Wouldn't mind but Im bigger than average when erect. |
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"And in answer to the OP question... probably only one Is 69 with me on top.  "
Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before |
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"And in answer to the OP question... probably only one Is 69 with me on top.
Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before "
I’m here! |
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"When the woman wants picking up and taking it against the wall and I'm not sure I can lift her. Got a sweat on just typing it I've tried the gym to put abit of muscle on but it bores me to tears so I'll just have to live with it I suppose
God I'm always worried about if I'm heavy when they try this. Probably better for everyone to keep things on solid ground .
I couldn't agree more solid ground is definitely for the best. It saves the embarrassment over my pencil arms haha
Honestly you men impress me just with your ability to hold yourself up when you're on top. My shoulders would be in bits . "
See i don't have a problem with that atall suppose it's just different muscles being used! |
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"I can't see many Men admitting insecurities?!
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Jo.Xx
I'm very insecure myself, not ashamed to admit it. I'm a work in progress "
You’re a sweetie. |
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"When the woman wants picking up and taking it against the wall and I'm not sure I can lift her. Got a sweat on just typing it I've tried the gym to put abit of muscle on but it bores me to tears so I'll just have to live with it I suppose
God I'm always worried about if I'm heavy when they try this. Probably better for everyone to keep things on solid ground .
I couldn't agree more solid ground is definitely for the best. It saves the embarrassment over my pencil arms haha
Honestly you men impress me just with your ability to hold yourself up when you're on top. My shoulders would be in bits .
See i don't have a problem with that atall suppose it's just different muscles being used! "
Men just tend to have stronger chests and shoulders than us women to be honest. Honestly even holding a press up position hurts me fairly quickly . Yet I can squat for days! |
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"And in answer to the OP question... probably only one Is 69 with me on top.
Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun! "
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't |
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Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun!
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't "
Head over the edge of the sofa, legs up the back rest. The guy kneels in front of the sofa and leans over her |
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"And in answer to the OP question... probably only one Is 69 with me on top.
Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun!
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't
Head over the edge of the sofa, legs up the back rest. The guy kneels in front of the sofa and leans over her "
Oh, the throatpipe position with added cunnilingus |
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God I'm always worried about if I'm heavy when they try this. Probably better for everyone to keep things on solid ground .
I couldn't agree more solid ground is definitely for the best. It saves the embarrassment over my pencil arms haha
Honestly you men impress me just with your ability to hold yourself up when you're on top. My shoulders would be in bits . "
That’s when I get my minute plank session in |
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Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun!
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't
Head over the edge of the sofa, legs up the back rest. The guy kneels in front of the sofa and leans over her "
I’ll need knee pads at my age |
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"And in answer to the OP question... probably only one Is 69 with me on top.
Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun!
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't
Head over the edge of the sofa, legs up the back rest. The guy kneels in front of the sofa and leans over her
Oh, the throatpipe position with added cunnilingus "
Its the easiest way to get a dick down the throat. Plus you get a little high chocking on dick while being pleasured |
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God I'm always worried about if I'm heavy when they try this. Probably better for everyone to keep things on solid ground .
I couldn't agree more solid ground is definitely for the best. It saves the embarrassment over my pencil arms haha
Honestly you men impress me just with your ability to hold yourself up when you're on top. My shoulders would be in bits .
That’s when I get my minute plank session in "
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Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun!
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't
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I’ll need knee pads at my age "
There's often cushions to hand! |
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Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun!
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't
Head over the edge of the sofa, legs up the back rest. The guy kneels in front of the sofa and leans over her
I’ll need knee pads at my age
There's often cushions to hand! "
No wonder I couldn’t find any knee pads on love honey |
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"And in answer to the OP question... probably only one Is 69 with me on top.
Where have all these women and men with 69men on top been hiding. I've never heard of someone having 69 that way before
You should try it with her upside down on the sofa with her legs up the back. It's great fun!
I'm trying to make sense of what you mean but I can't
Head over the edge of the sofa, legs up the back rest. The guy kneels in front of the sofa and leans over her
Oh, the throatpipe position with added cunnilingus
Its the easiest way to get a dick down the throat. Plus you get a little high chocking on dick while being pleasured "
I know that's why it's called throatpipe |
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