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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!!" What about black people who use that term - will you also deny them their right to use it? | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!!" what about those that put big white cock? | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!" More virtue signaling and someone who wants to be scene as holier than thou! What do I say to all the black guys contacting me asking if I like big black cock? Having been on here for many years on and off and also a very very regular on the clubs scene where many dozens of times that will be said to me by the black guy! Luckily enough I love black cock and have had many and will continue to do so whatever their opening line is! Or should I call them racist and report them? I think not.  xx | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! " Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that" I asked the OP what term he thought should be used, the term BBC is well known and used without offence, same as VWE cock, or should those of us with normal size cocks now be offended because someone wants a VWE cock?? I’m not a racist, sexist, homophobe, but I do feel it’s all being blown a little bit out of context. That’s my opinion, which I know not everyone will agree with, that’s fine, we’re all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs. | |||
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"Seems to me that those using the term see it as a positive attribute, as a symbol of dominance over others. Does that make them racist? Or does racism not exist when it's used for "positive" purposes? I've no feelings either way, I don't give a damm about colour and I show no fear or favour because of skin colour." Dominance over others?!! 
Good lord! It's a ready reckoner. Bbw doesn't mean a big woman sees herself as more beautiful than her slender sisters, it's an identifier to those seeking/not seeking a larger frame.
Some black men love the bbc tag, others abhor it. Consenting adults doing whatever legally should be allowed to get on with it. | |||
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"The only time i hear references to BBC is when I'm asked if I'm interested in it. Odly enough it's black guys who use the term. " Because they think thats what you want to hear. Most dnt like it. They arent an object . I personally hate the term | |||
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"Each to there own. People can construct their own identities and should have the right to describe themselves although it should not be used to offend. It's the people offended on behalf of others that sometimes muddy the waters" This. I'm not alone in being sick and tired of people being offended on my behalf. | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that I asked the OP what term he thought should be used, the term BBC is well known and used without offence, same as VWE cock, or should those of us with normal size cocks now be offended because someone wants a VWE cock?? I’m not a racist, sexist, homophobe, but I do feel it’s all being blown a little bit out of context. That’s my opinion, which I know not everyone will agree with, that’s fine, we’re all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs. " Makes it sound like object rather than a person!! | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that I asked the OP what term he thought should be used, the term BBC is well known and used without offence, same as VWE cock, or should those of us with normal size cocks now be offended because someone wants a VWE cock?? I’m not a racist, sexist, homophobe, but I do feel it’s all being blown a little bit out of context. That’s my opinion, which I know not everyone will agree with, that’s fine, we’re all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs. Makes it sound like object rather than a person!! " I don’t disagree with you, but if someone puts that they’re looking for BBC then do they give a shit about the individual it’s attached to, or are they looking for a certain thing? Same as anyone who’s looking or has a preference for BBW/VWE/Girthy, they are looking for a certain thing, makes it very impersonal as the searcher is requesting a certain attribute, we are all adults and in the context of a Swinging Site, if someone says they’re “looking for” a certain thing, whichever abbreviation they choose it’s generally known what they’re looking for, doesn’t mean they mean it in an offensive manner, nor that people need to be offended by that abbreviation. | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!!" That's fine, as long as I don't get referred to as a white male, as I find that offensive and racist Im a white male btw | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!! That's fine, as long as I don't get referred to as a white male, as I find that offensive and racist Im a white male btw" | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that I asked the OP what term he thought should be used, the term BBC is well known and used without offence, same as VWE cock, or should those of us with normal size cocks now be offended because someone wants a VWE cock?? I’m not a racist, sexist, homophobe, but I do feel it’s all being blown a little bit out of context. That’s my opinion, which I know not everyone will agree with, that’s fine, we’re all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs. " Hmm you say your not racist but think it’s okay to describe a black man as BBC this is as outdated as other racial wording!! Am not homophobe but from your profile you describe your male partner as 100% straight! That’s the equivalent of “am not homophobia but!!! Why not just say he’s straight | |||
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"It seems this "Man of colour with a darker and possibly larger cock than my white husband"has bombarded the forums showing his disgust including @ the hugely successful BMFC chat room meets every Saturday night update posts .Although we find it interesting that he has a hidden profile!" So it’s against the law to hid your profile is it!! | |||
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"Each to there own. People can construct their own identities and should have the right to describe themselves although it should not be used to offend. It's the people offended on behalf of others that sometimes muddy the waters This. I'm not alone in being sick and tired of people being offended on my behalf. " No, you are most definitely not alone in thinking this - I could not agree more. Things are happening at the moment supposedly on behalf of my race that I do not agree with, but if I say it as such I get shouted down by white people who believe they know the problems of race better than I. I would love to be able to point a finger at some of these people and say "you do not have the right to speak on my behalf, shut up!" | |||
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"Each to there own. People can construct their own identities and should have the right to describe themselves although it should not be used to offend. It's the people offended on behalf of others that sometimes muddy the waters This. I'm not alone in being sick and tired of people being offended on my behalf. No, you are most definitely not alone in thinking this - I could not agree more. Things are happening at the moment supposedly on behalf of my race that I do not agree with, but if I say it as such I get shouted down by white people who believe they know the problems of race better than I. I would love to be able to point a finger at some of these people and say "you do not have the right to speak on my behalf, shut up!"" WELL SAID SIR | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!! What about black people who use that term - will you also deny them their right to use it?" This. | |||
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"Each to there own. People can construct their own identities and should have the right to describe themselves although it should not be used to offend. It's the people offended on behalf of others that sometimes muddy the waters This. I'm not alone in being sick and tired of people being offended on my behalf. " You are definitely not alone. I’m so bored of seeing others speak for me & my race. What’s worse is we are the ones who we blamed for “division”. We are the ones people look at with disdain because they believe it’s us who are overly PC, when in actual fact it’s not. Most of us couldn’t care less. | |||
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"Seems to me that those using the term see it as a positive attribute, as a symbol of dominance over others. Does that make them racist? Or does racism not exist when it's used for "positive" purposes? I've no feelings either way, I don't give a damm about colour and I show no fear or favour because of skin colour." In my opinion there's nothing positive about it, the black men who buy into it are just playing Uncle Tom in order to fuck white women. If these men were referred to as BBC in real life I suspect they'd have a different view. How do I know all this? Well I first came into this lifestyle 25+ years ago, sex mad and happy to perform to the stereotype to get my end away. After time I became jaded by it all, mainly due to the disrespect of the white people I'd regarded at friends, the hubby of one couple innocently confiding that his wife would never marry a black man. Subconscious racism is everywhere (believe me, I've been a victim of it for decades), even amongst black people who grown up in a white society exposed to the same influences (and prejudices) as the indigenous. The current social landscape offers an opportunity for us to get it right, re-evaluate entrenched thinking and achieve a solution that means we all thrive. Over sexualising black men and regarding them as an entity (BBC) rather than people I don't feel helps develop a positive agenda. | |||
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"Seems to me that those using the term see it as a positive attribute, as a symbol of dominance over others. Does that make them racist? Or does racism not exist when it's used for "positive" purposes? I've no feelings either way, I don't give a damm about colour and I show no fear or favour because of skin colour. In my opinion there's nothing positive about it, the black men who buy into it are just playing Uncle Tom in order to fuck white women. If these men were referred to as BBC in real life I suspect they'd have a different view. How do I know all this? Well I first came into this lifestyle 25+ years ago, sex mad and happy to perform to the stereotype to get my end away. After time I became jaded by it all, mainly due to the disrespect of the white people I'd regarded at friends, the hubby of one couple innocently confiding that his wife would never marry a black man. Subconscious racism is everywhere (believe me, I've been a victim of it for decades), even amongst black people who grown up in a white society exposed to the same influences (and prejudices) as the indigenous. The current social landscape offers an opportunity for us to get it right, re-evaluate entrenched thinking and achieve a solution that means we all thrive. Over sexualising black men and regarding them as an entity (BBC) rather than people I don't feel helps develop a positive agenda. " Excellent post. Objectification denies humanity. | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. " I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man. | |||
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"Political correctness gone mad." Would you say the same about the people who objected to Churchill's statue being urinated on? | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man." I am confused by your reasoning. You call yourself "big BLACK dom" and by doing so, you highlight the colour of your skin on a swinging site in the hope of attracting a female I presume? That seems a little more than hypocritical to me. | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man." That’s great, my comment wasn’t in direct reference to the term BBC. Still, there are countless threads about BBC where a lot of black men themselves are unbothered. If they went to use it to describe themselves surely they’re free to. | |||
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"Political correctness gone mad. Would you say the same about the people who objected to Churchill's statue being urinated on?" To be honest if Churchill hadn’t been around to stop one of the biggest racists in history BLM would not be an issue. | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man. I am confused by your reasoning. You call yourself "big BLACK dom" and by doing so, you highlight the colour of your skin on a swinging site in the hope of attracting a female I presume? That seems a little more than hypocritical to me."  | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man. I am confused by your reasoning. You call yourself "big BLACK dom" and by doing so, you highlight the colour of your skin on a swinging site in the hope of attracting a female I presume? That seems a little more than hypocritical to me." You make quite a few assumptions there. My username is fully explained on my profile, and is purely descriptive..I'm big, I'm black and my name's Dominic. However in highlighting this you've misunderstood the reasoning in my post (as detractors often do). I'm referring to black men being referred to by their genitalia, not human beings who are black. | |||
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"The only time i hear references to BBC is when I'm asked if I'm interested in it. Odly enough it's black guys who use the term. " I was going to say the same thing! | |||
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"Political correctness gone mad. Would you say the same about the people who objected to Churchill's statue being urinated on? To be honest if Churchill hadn’t been around to stop one of the biggest racists in history BLM would not be an issue." I'm not denouncing Churchill. I posed a question by way of analogy..is it 'political correctness gone mad' to moan about the people who urinated on his statue? | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man. That’s great, my comment wasn’t in direct reference to the term BBC. Still, there are countless threads about BBC where a lot of black men themselves are unbothered. If they went to use it to describe themselves surely they’re free to. " My contributions are in the spirit of the OP, logically people can describe themselves however they want to, however the OP and current social discourse suggests there's an opportunity to discuss race and racism openly and honestly..ffs the pace of change has hardly been electric, I'm having the same conversations now as I did with my grandad 40 years ago! | |||
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"I object to the term BBW. I'm still me, still the same personality whether I'm big or beautiful. Same as a BBC, they're still the same person even if they have a big cock. But if I came forward 9 months ago and said i wanted the term banning as I find it offensive, I would have been laughed at. If any abbreviation describes a person's look, VWE, BBW, BWC, they should all banned then! " BBW describes you as a Big, Beautiful Woman, not dehumanising you by reference to your genitals..imagine if the shorthand used to describe you was also BBC (Big, Beautiful Cunt), and referred to historical stereotypes about how such women were perceived or were expected to behave? | |||
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"Political correctness gone mad. Would you say the same about the people who objected to Churchill's statue being urinated on? To be honest if Churchill hadn’t been around to stop one of the biggest racists in history BLM would not be an issue. I'm not denouncing Churchill. I posed a question by way of analogy..is it 'political correctness gone mad' to moan about the people who urinated on his statue?" I wouldn’t class that as anything other than mindless morons thinking they are being clever. | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man. I am confused by your reasoning. You call yourself "big BLACK dom" and by doing so, you highlight the colour of your skin on a swinging site in the hope of attracting a female I presume? That seems a little more than hypocritical to me. You make quite a few assumptions there. My username is fully explained on my profile, and is purely descriptive..I'm big, I'm black and my name's Dominic. However in highlighting this you've misunderstood the reasoning in my post (as detractors often do). I'm referring to black men being referred to by their genitalia, not human beings who are black." You call me a detractor, when all I am doing is pointing out your hypocrisy? What possible need do you have to mention your skin colour in your user name other than to profit sexually by it as those who refer to themselves as BBC? As a black man, I find this offensive. | |||
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"I object to the term BBW. I'm still me, still the same personality whether I'm big or beautiful. Same as a BBC, they're still the same person even if they have a big cock. But if I came forward 9 months ago and said i wanted the term banning as I find it offensive, I would have been laughed at. If any abbreviation describes a person's look, VWE, BBW, BWC, they should all banned then! " By the way, as the OP said, what's so hard about referring to black men as just that..."I'd like to meet a well/average endowed black man"..no problem! | |||
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"I object to the term BBW. I'm still me, still the same personality whether I'm big or beautiful. Same as a BBC, they're still the same person even if they have a big cock. But if I came forward 9 months ago and said i wanted the term banning as I find it offensive, I would have been laughed at. If any abbreviation describes a person's look, VWE, BBW, BWC, they should all banned then! BBW describes you as a Big, Beautiful Woman, not dehumanising you by reference to your genitals..imagine if the shorthand used to describe you was also BBC (Big, Beautiful Cunt), and referred to historical stereotypes about how such women were perceived or were expected to behave?" So in effect your complaining about having a big dick? | |||
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"I object to the term BBW. I'm still me, still the same personality whether I'm big or beautiful. Same as a BBC, they're still the same person even if they have a big cock. But if I came forward 9 months ago and said i wanted the term banning as I find it offensive, I would have been laughed at. If any abbreviation describes a person's look, VWE, BBW, BWC, they should all banned then! BBW describes you as a Big, Beautiful Woman, not dehumanising you by reference to your genitals..imagine if the shorthand used to describe you was also BBC (Big, Beautiful Cunt), and referred to historical stereotypes about how such women were perceived or were expected to behave? So in effect your complaining about having a big dick? " I'm confused, I need I cuppa | |||
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"I object to the term BBW. I'm still me, still the same personality whether I'm big or beautiful. Same as a BBC, they're still the same person even if they have a big cock. But if I came forward 9 months ago and said i wanted the term banning as I find it offensive, I would have been laughed at. If any abbreviation describes a person's look, VWE, BBW, BWC, they should all banned then! BBW describes you as a Big, Beautiful Woman, not dehumanising you by reference to your genitals..imagine if the shorthand used to describe you was also BBC (Big, Beautiful Cunt), and referred to historical stereotypes about how such women were perceived or were expected to behave? So in effect your complaining about having a big dick? " | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!!" Would it sound better if people referred to a person as ‘a man with a BBC’ rather than the unusual ‘looking for a BBC’? | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man. I am confused by your reasoning. You call yourself "big BLACK dom" and by doing so, you highlight the colour of your skin on a swinging site in the hope of attracting a female I presume? That seems a little more than hypocritical to me. You make quite a few assumptions there. My username is fully explained on my profile, and is purely descriptive..I'm big, I'm black and my name's Dominic. However in highlighting this you've misunderstood the reasoning in my post (as detractors often do). I'm referring to black men being referred to by their genitalia, not human beings who are black. You call me a detractor, when all I am doing is pointing out your hypocrisy? What possible need do you have to mention your skin colour in your user name other than to profit sexually by it as those who refer to themselves as BBC? As a black man, I find this offensive." My issue isn't in the descriptor, as I've clarified several times. I state my colour because it's what I am, some people are attracted to that, just as many aren't, and they will know immediately from my username. I don't use the reductionist term 'cock' from a porn inspired acronym. | |||
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" Most of us couldn’t care less. I do and I'm speaking for myself and my experiences as a black man. I am confused by your reasoning. You call yourself "big BLACK dom" and by doing so, you highlight the colour of your skin on a swinging site in the hope of attracting a female I presume? That seems a little more than hypocritical to me. You make quite a few assumptions there. My username is fully explained on my profile, and is purely descriptive..I'm big, I'm black and my name's Dominic. However in highlighting this you've misunderstood the reasoning in my post (as detractors often do). I'm referring to black men being referred to by their genitalia, not human beings who are black. You call me a detractor, when all I am doing is pointing out your hypocrisy? What possible need do you have to mention your skin colour in your user name other than to profit sexually by it as those who refer to themselves as BBC? As a black man, I find this offensive. My issue isn't in the descriptor, as I've clarified several times. I state my colour because it's what I am, some people are attracted to that, just as many aren't, and they will know immediately from my username. I don't use the reductionist term 'cock' from a porn inspired acronym." Your real name is Dominic? | |||
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"What about those who say they are looking for "BBC" on their profiles? Are they looking for black man in particular? Are they looking for a large cock in particular? Or, are they looking for both together? Are they being discriminating or discerning? Are they showing prejudice or preference? Interestingly, apparently not all black men are blessed with large endowments and, allegedly, some white guys have been known to have done well down below. For me, the objectification of any human, or playing in to any racial stereotype is not a positive contribution to society." Well to be honest I prefer tall slim leggy blondes with big tits. I could not give a rat's arse if this is not a positive contribution to society... | |||
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"Yes and there was neither any reason to stop little britain either. I wonder what is next lol." Everything is so pc these days it is untrue. | |||
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"Its a description of what someone wants. Why is it racist?" That's precisely the question, isn't it? Is it or is it not raciest? it's not a term I'm personally comfortable with, and I would like the term removed from society (along with all other racial stereotype terms). On the other hand, if you happen to be black and have a large cock this could very well be to your advantage. Hence, you might like the term. Or you might wince at being defined as such. There is a lot of language used today that has its origins in the slave trade. For example, "being sold down the river" originates in the salve trade and should be removed from use. | |||
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"BBC I an an abbreviation big black cock. BWC is an abbreviation big white cock. Its a description of what someone wants. Why is it racist? Lots of people are looking for things to offend themselves with. They are snowflakes. If this is the worst thing they can find to be offend about they are the one with troubles? Should I now say I want an afro-american with a large cock? Tell me which is more offensive? On an interesting note. Once saw a black BMW with black out windows parked up. With black getting out. Registration of the car BBC. I'm assuming he didn't work for the British broadcasting authority. So ehat does that tell us? Tell me why other black people can use the word 'Nigeria but if a white guy says it its racist?" Huh???? Nigeria???? Confused | |||
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"The calibre of debate on this forum recently is making my brain hurt. So much reductive stupidity, so little intelligent, independent thinking. I'll rehash a point I made on another, similar thread. There's enough of them going around. From OED definition of fetish: 1 An inanimate object to which a pathological sexual attachment is formed, or by extension a person who is the object of an obsessive fixation. The problematic part of it is that objectification. When you have a fetish for leather, or satin, or vegetables, or whatever - that's fine because they're actually objects. Viewing a human as an object, not so clever even if that human is happy with what they get in return. In the case of race it's even more dangerous because in the last 400 years Black people have been largely treated as objects, bought and sold in the disgusting practice of slavery. It's not absolutely straightforward though, and the difference between attraction and fetishism is subjective. It's a complicated issue, so people often can't be bothered or are unable to grasp it so they revert to simple, reductive ideas which are often dangerous and generally miss the point. " That's what I was going to say | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that" But what if you want a large cock that a black man owns? | |||
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"People who like to use can use. People who don't like to use need not use. People who don't like to use can block the ones who use." Good post that.. I like your thinking.. | |||
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"The calibre of debate on this forum recently is making my brain hurt. So much reductive stupidity, so little intelligent, independent thinking. I'll rehash a point I made on another, similar thread. There's enough of them going around. From OED definition of fetish: 1 An inanimate object to which a pathological sexual attachment is formed, or by extension a person who is the object of an obsessive fixation. The problematic part of it is that objectification. When you have a fetish for leather, or satin, or vegetables, or whatever - that's fine because they're actually objects. Viewing a human as an object, not so clever even if that human is happy with what they get in return. In the case of race it's even more dangerous because in the last 400 years Black people have been largely treated as objects, bought and sold in the disgusting practice of slavery. It's not absolutely straightforward though, and the difference between attraction and fetishism is subjective. It's a complicated issue, so people often can't be bothered or are unable to grasp it so they revert to simple, reductive ideas which are often dangerous and generally miss the point. " Well a good post... To steal somebody else's phrase. If the average man in the street is stupid then half the population are even more stupid. But if two consenting adults want to call it BBC or BWC then let them get on with it peace. They won't care if it's objective, subjective or any other discriptiion they 'cant grasp'. They have as much right to use the term as others have not to use it.. | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that But what if you want a large cock that a black man owns? " Is that what you think all women want is a big black cock. Jeez. You know very little about some women | |||
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"Seems to me that those using the term see it as a positive attribute, as a symbol of dominance over others. Does that make them racist? Or does racism not exist when it's used for "positive" purposes? I've no feelings either way, I don't give a damm about colour and I show no fear or favour because of skin colour." I was called a racist for saying a guy at work looked like Harvey Price.....I asked him, if I said he looked like Anthony Joshua, would I still be a racist? He put his head down and walked off | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that But what if you want a large cock that a black man owns? Is that what you think all women want is a big black cock. Jeez. You know very little about some women" Wow you jumped to a conclusion with both feet there. And I know very little about most women, I'll have you know. | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that But what if you want a large cock that a black man owns? Is that what you think all women want is a big black cock. Jeez. You know very little about some women Wow you jumped to a conclusion with both feet there. And I know very little about most women, I'll have you know." Did you not ask that question then. Did i get it wrong | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!!" Agreed OP. Well said x | |||
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"Will black jelly babies be removed from the bag ? Wouldn’t want to offend anyone eating one "Now you just being silly. Or racist not sure | |||
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"Each to there own. People can construct their own identities and should have the right to describe themselves although it should not be used to offend. It's the people offended on behalf of others that sometimes muddy the waters" This. Im old enough to realise that if two parties fall out there is always a third party somewhere stirring up the shit . I have a had a few black and asian lovers . They have all been great and never snowflakes. I don't get what all the fuss is about. | |||
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"Will black jelly babies be removed from the bag ? Wouldn’t want to offend anyone eating one
Now you just being silly. Or racist not sure "Just being silly x | |||
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"What term would you suggest be used then OP?? Large Darker Than Pink Cock!!!! Why use any term. Do you use a term for any other colour. We are all educated people. Its a COCK nothing more. Leave it at that I asked the OP what term he thought should be used, the term BBC is well known and used without offence, same as VWE cock, or should those of us with normal size cocks now be offended because someone wants a VWE cock?? I’m not a racist, sexist, homophobe, but I do feel it’s all being blown a little bit out of context. That’s my opinion, which I know not everyone will agree with, that’s fine, we’re all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs. Hmm you say your not racist but think it’s okay to describe a black man as BBC this is as outdated as other racial wording!! Am not homophobe but from your profile you describe your male partner as 100% straight! That’s the equivalent of “am not homophobia but!!! Why not just say he’s straight " OP, you didn’t digest what I wrote as you’ve misquoted me..... I didn’t describe anyone as a BBC, I said it was a term that was understood by most adults, I think you’ll find I also said it was impersonal to the individual it was attached to. I’m not a homophobe, nor am I bisexual, bi-curious, or anti-bi. I’m comfortable in my sexuality as a 100% straight white English man. I’m offended that you’ve assumed this was being written by my good lady. | |||
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"Will black jelly babies be removed from the bag ? Wouldn’t want to offend anyone eating one
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Just being silly x "Hahaha great. Glad people still got a sense of humour xxx | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!!" Despite how some may protest, the term BBC does have its roots in racist stereotypes around black men. Besides size, it’s interlinked with the myth of black men being hyper sexualised and also sexually aggressive. | |||
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"BBC I an an abbreviation big black cock. BWC is an abbreviation big white cock. Its a description of what someone wants. Why is it racist? Lots of people are looking for things to offend themselves with. They are snowflakes. If this is the worst thing they can find to be offend about they are the one with troubles? Should I now say I want an afro-american with a large cock? Tell me which is more offensive? On an interesting note. Once saw a black BMW with black out windows parked up. With black getting out. Registration of the car BBC. I'm assuming he didn't work for the British broadcasting authority. So ehat does that tell us? Tell me why other black people can use the word 'Nigeria but if a white guy says it its racist?" I was with you til the last sentence. Honestly, I truly despair that in 2020 this still needs to be explained. ...takes deep breath... SOME women described themselves as whores/sluts. Would you then refer to ALL women you meet, including your mum and sister as a whore/slut? Of course not! SOME black people refer to themselves as niggers. I don't know one black person that uses the word: I find it offensive. Do you then think because Kanye uses it in a rap you should be able to use it to a black person? Free country, go ahead and try it to the next black person you see...sticks and stones right? | |||
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"Its not racist its explanatory. " But use of on of the B's calls out their race, so by default it becomes racist! | |||
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"Its not racist its explanatory. But use of on of the B's calls out their race, so by default it becomes racist!" So is "Black lives matter" racist? | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!!" I don’t understand why you care; if you don’t want to be referred to as a “bbc” then ask to be addressed according to your preference. Let other bbc make their own choices. The rest of us, when we are not busy getting on with our lives and fucking, can speak for ourselves. Thanks | |||
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"With the rise of BLM movement, views are changing towards race and what’s right and wrong!! Isn't it about time some fab users stopped using the term BBC when describing a black male. Even some clubs are out of date for example BMFC and other racial stereotypes wording! Before people say it’s our preference try saying looking for a black male!!! For the record am mixed race male!! I don’t understand why you care; if you don’t want to be referred to as a “bbc” then ask to be addressed according to your preference. Let other bbc make their own choices. The rest of us, when we are not busy getting on with our lives and fucking, can speak for ourselves. Thanks " I like this guy^^^^^ | |||
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"Its not racist its explanatory. But use of on of the B's calls out their race, so by default it becomes racist!" So by that reasoning Blackpool and Blackburn are racist as well? Shall we change the names of towns now? | |||
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"So by that reasoning Blackpool and Blackburn are racist as well? Shall we change the names of towns now? " Now that's just being silly... It's the objectification that's the issue here. | |||
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"Its not racist its explanatory. But use of on of the B's calls out their race, so by default it becomes racist! So by that reasoning Blackpool and Blackburn are racist as well? Shall we change the names of towns now? " Oh dear theres always one who escaped the cookie jar. Lol | |||
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